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Author:  Moose185 [ Thu Apr 21, 2016 8:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Improving conversation skills
I've noticed I'm more chatty at times then other times I can go really quiet. I was wondering how do you improve your general conversation skills? So it flows nicer. I feel like I'll just ask something stupid and a girl will get bored. Can anyone give me an example of questions they usually ask a chick on a daily basis. I know this is basis stuff but I really think this is where my downfall lies.
Author:  dicemaster [ Thu Apr 21, 2016 8:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Improving conversation skills
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I've noticed I'm more chatty at times then other times I can go really quiet. I was wondering how do you improve your general conversation skills? So it flows nicer. I feel like I'll just ask something stupid and a girl will get bored. Can anyone give me an example of questions they usually ask a chick on a daily basis. I know this is basis stuff but I really think this is where my downfall lies.
Try anchor method. Nlp method is gonna help you bro
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Apr 21, 2016 8:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Improving conversation skills
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Try anchor method. Nlp method is gonna help you bro
LMAO...good one.

The best conversations are always going to be lead by one person while the other does the talking. From our perspective, it's always going to be us that leads. If you are going to ask questions, ask questions that lead to how she feels about something. If she is talking emotional about a subject it means it's something that she cares about and then your job is to either go deeper with the topic or relate to something that she shows more interest in. Your whole goal is to get someplace where you can make the conversation about the both of you.

Lol...NLP.
Author:  Finished [ Thu Apr 21, 2016 8:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Improving conversation skills
Dicemaster you need too fuck off.

Moose... when you're in a situation with girls where you are chatting it is more your body language and subcoms that are more important rather than the topics that you're talking about. You don't speak to girls like they are your guy friends, you need too flirt and show confidence if you want them to see you as attractive.

There are however, certain things that you can do in order to direct a situation in the way that you want it to head. I just met two girls today that I was sat behind and overheard them chatting about their jobs and the fact that they were both planning an escape from their current job for another. I chimed in with "oh, so your both planning an escape huh"... they both looked at me and eyed me up... "Well the way you're describing the current one I don't fucking blame you"... they both laughed, then I put a frame over the situation with "Don't worry I won't tell, but you two don't really look like you've been working today, what is it that you guys do"... "they reply some shit that I actually forgot"... "and what is it you'd rather be doing"...

And it went from there. They opened up after that and started IOI'ing me as the conversation continued and got more flirtatious...

So that is one tip... use an open ended question to get them to open up to you and always direct the conversation in the way that you want it to go.

There is so much more I could write on this topic and what I've wrote there is very basic, but I'm sure that can help you out for now.

Moments of silence can also be used to create sexual tension and intrigue if you can stay comfortable in them.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Apr 22, 2016 2:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Improving conversation skills
A practical answer to this question will be counter productive.

A great conversation is one in which your mind is shut off and you're completely engaged in the moment and its all just flowing without you having to think about it. When you hang out with your friends do you consciously think about questions to ask them? Or does it all just organically flow because of the connection you guys have? Im sure it flows. So if you're in your head trying to figure out a manual to follow to have a good conversation you will be practice the epitome of what it means to have a bad conversation.

Practice moose. You're coming here for short cuts. Get out there and talk to people and put in the work. Watch late night shows. I went to the david lettermen show and before the show he stands out front and talks to the audience. The dude literary have a different 5 minute conversation with 20 different people in one hour, and formed small connections with them. It struck a cord in me.

Approach. Approach. Approach. You still have yet to work for this. And you'll keep coming back to the forum asking basic questions until you do.
Author:  CopernicanShift [ Sat Apr 23, 2016 11:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Improving conversation skills
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I've noticed I'm more chatty at times then other times I can go really quiet. I was wondering how do you improve your general conversation skills? So it flows nicer. I feel like I'll just ask something stupid and a girl will get bored. Can anyone give me an example of questions they usually ask a chick on a daily basis. I know this is basis stuff but I really think this is where my downfall lies.
Here are some good conversation starters do not just interview using them stick with any one of them for a whole conversation and let it go where the imagination takes you



What are you passionate about
What's the craziest thing you've ever done in your life
What's the most fun you've ever had in your life
What do you love but are afraid to admit you love it
What are your guilty pleasures
Have you ever had sex in public
What do your friends love most about you
What do your friends admire most about you
What makes a guy stand out to you?
How would you know a guy was right about you

Have you ever fallen in love just by looking in someone's eyes - what made them stand out from the rest

What makes someone irresistible to you

What makes you really happy
What cracks you up more than anything
What's the funniest thing / movie you've ever seen

Have you ever played a really mischievous prank?

What's the most fun you ever had on a date

What can you not say no to?

What are you really good at that would surprise me?

If you could wake up tomorrow and be anywhere in the world where would you choose? Why?


Given the choice of anyone in the world who would you want to have as dinner guests


Would you like to be famous? In what way? Why?

Is there anything you really like that everyone else seems to hate
Or vice versa
Author:  R.C [ Mon Apr 25, 2016 1:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Improving conversation skills
You should try listening for a change.

Most guys will ask a question, and while she's asking, instead of listening they will be all up in their head thinking of what to ask next.

Basically you need to involve/immerse yourself in the conversation.
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