Is there any way you can record yourself candidly lol

Yesterday while seeing a freind and his girl, the girl mentions that she can see "desperation on my face".

If I'm remembering your avatar, aren't you the bear looking guy? Like tons of muscle, but also very fat?

while there is no excuse for me to be able to lose some fat, my body composition is naturally prone to being that way. So even at a lower BFP i'd still look somewhat fat.

I don't follow women or harass random ones on the street,

Then why are you here?

FYI.. Sounds like you have a fragile mentality if you came here to make a post about the words of one person. That mentality will naturally transition into your body language. Unless you know yourself to be desperate I can't see why you would care. She could've just been testing you, baiting for a reaction, looking to see if her assessment was accurate; needing your confirmation to validate it.

And how do you know there is a problem if it has only been pointed out by one person?
I could not have care less about this one girl's opinion.

However I thought it would be smart to take care of the problem before I came in contact with a woman that I actually did care about what she thought

All I can say is, whatever sticking point you're having, looking good is usually the best cure for it. The better looking you are, the lower the bar for everything. You have a very impressive body under the fat. I think you'll see your results really take off if you can drop it. It leans your face down and makes you more handsome. And it just really helps overall. Especially if you prefer thinner girls. I sometimes see pretty chubby girls with heavy guys, but almost never see it with slim chicks.

I'm not a naturally good looking guy. If I had the typical skinny fat American body, skin care routine, and style, I would be a near virgin(if not flat out, assuming my standards stayed the same). I never really spent a ton of time working on anything like "game". I pretty much focused on improving my looks as much as I could. That yielded me some pretty darn good results. Charisma and personality do play a role. But it's really secondary. And it's more useful for netting a higher % of the girls who are already physically attracted to you.

I can tell you that I've dated a couple of girls who weren't physically attracted to me. I wouldn't suggest it. They're basically the only "bad" relationships I've had. And it's because the girl feels like she's sacrificing something(a sexy guy) by being with me. With what experience I have with that, I wouldn't even *want* to get women who don't think I'm at least somewhat attractive.

tl;dr Screw game, body language, etc, and get sexy. Sexy trumps smooth, every time. And it's a lot easier to improve your looks than all the other stuff. Worry about the other stuff, after you're close to your best looking self(body, clothes, hair, skin, style).

by improving your looks, are you referring to dressing well?