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Author:  Skidrow [ Mon Apr 18, 2016 1:54 pm ]
Post subject:  She's sexting, but not over her ex
I'll try to keep it short.

Met this nice girl around october last year. She's a med student (22 yo, I'm 22, young & restless) and recently quit a 5 year relationship. I was the first to know about this (not even her girl friends knew about it) and I still can't understand why.

I had been, more or less, jokingly-hitting on her since then, even though I knew she had something serious going on.

Last weekend our groups went out and we had more time to bond (I tried to keep it strictly professional), but she's been sexting and teasing me heavily ever since, but also she said she's not fully healed and couldn't jump into a new relationship, nor FWB thing.

She's a great girl, has a beautiful mind, but I don't intend on putting my life on hold for her.

How should I deal with this, without hurting her, and maybe keeping her for later?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Apr 18, 2016 2:02 pm ]
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How should I deal with this, without hurting her, and maybe keeping her for later?
Isolate-drinks-sex.

"It just happened!"

You do have Netflix right?
Author:  Skidrow [ Mon Apr 18, 2016 3:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She's sexting, but not over her ex
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Isolate-drinks-sex.
That's the problem. When we were with the whole group she would've wanted to go somewhere to dance (we had a few glasses of wine), but when I asked her to hang out just the two of us, she got LMR-ish.

I really can't stand these mixed signals. She won't heal unless something is done, but she isn't cooperative.
Author:  masterm1ne [ Mon Apr 18, 2016 3:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She's sexting, but not over her ex
Welcome to girls man :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

I met this girl for dinner Wed last week, and when I took her home, felt her up from the waist up, kissed/slobbered all over her chest above her nipples, grazed her chest through her shirt and almost tugged her shirt down (she has enormous fake DDs) I mean her boobs were basically hanging out of her dress. She asked me where I live, and if I'm alone in my apartment and kissed me on the cheek before she got out of my car to claim me as her man. I could tell she didn't want to leave. Friday she texts me she want's me to "fuck her like in the pictures I drew" and said we could meet this weekend. I have got one text from her during the weekend :roll:

Just don't spam her with invites... stay close by keep hanging out and find some other things (girls) to mess with in the mean time. There is no need to push too much you already have interest. You just need to wait man. Sometimes it's months for me to go from initial meet/talk to having sex with a woman. But inbetween, I don't get anxious, I just ... wait.

(I had a woman with me all weekend that I have a nice connection with and was going to leave her to have sex with the other if she was free) 8)
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Apr 18, 2016 3:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She's sexting, but not over her ex
Build more comfort, she's not quite comfortable being alone with you yet. She needs a reason.
Author:  R.C [ Tue Apr 19, 2016 11:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She's sexting, but not over her ex
Also if you're already out with her, you don't ask to go out with her. You're already out. I don't care if it's a group. Have a few drinks, isolate (take her for some fresh air, whatever by grabbing her hand and leading her there) and get close.
Author:  Skidrow [ Thu Apr 21, 2016 2:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She's sexting, but not over her ex
Never mind, guys. She got back with her ex.

Please close this thread.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Apr 22, 2016 2:33 pm ]
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but also she said she's not fully healed and couldn't jump into a new relationship, nor FWB thing.
But she can jump into a sext relationship and use you for your emotional validation until she feels good enough to move onto someone else? Give me a break man.

You sound confident, so I don't think this will be a problem for you.

Push her to meet, or cut ties. She's in a rebound phase. If you're fine with letting her rebound off you emotionally while denying you the physical exchange of it then proceed. And don't make too much of the whole med school thing, you're pedestaling her just a bit. And its irrelevant. It means nothing to her feelings. She'll do whatever she feels strong enough about it.
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