How long has this nonsense gone on for? if you sensed this the first time meeting her, you should've made a move that day or week.

It's likely you're now in friend zone. However, it can be fixed. Stop playing and make your intentions clear and authoritative by asking her out.

If she's in your group and you see her his weekend, isolate and escalate. If you don't see her, ask her out via text.

update...well, I talked with her this morning. She said "Yes, but maybe I am out of my job this week. So could be difficult. If yes, I have to find seek jobs on this holiday"(it is holiday and It is true, I talked with her brother yesterday about the job situation, she doesnt know that I know). So, for me is a shit test, I said "It is a meet to know each other rlx, not too expensive, besides during the day you solve this, and the night relax a little bit with me. dont worry with logistics. I got it"...she laughts, but doesnt responded yet.

During the day she will meet another guy from our social group(2 guys and her), he is traveling to another state for a couple months(I know that because, he told me hahuahuahau. I dont know him very well and he is in love with her. He told everybody). And tried to hook with her yesterday, so probably he is the reason of the delay. I am cool, talking with another targets and blabla bla. At least I made my move.


ps: it is not onetis, all the information just came to me indirectly. People like to tell secrets to me. Why?dont know hhahahah

Sounds like your gossip boy hahaha push it harder maybe you can befriend with her brother, it would increwse your chances. Otherways it is up to you, make ypur mate dance to impress her hahahahha

You're coming at the girl from the wrong frame of mind. You're trying to impress her. I'll put the pressure on the girl and stare at her like I'm waiting for her to say something. Stop coming at a girl like a peasant and talk to her as if you're the king.

This is hard to understand.

Where have you shared anything more than any other common orbiter? You are seen as just another free lunch.

Get some drinks into her, that should easy up the SPAM.

Seriously though, practice bantering. Awkward silences happen when you're constantly looking for something to talk about. Try not being in your head so much and instead be present in the moment. You don't need to talk about anything specific. Flirt and banter. Tease her. Laugh at fat people stuffing themselves with burgers.

9's and 10's are awkward man.. Most of them. Unless they had something traumatic happen in their past they tend to be a little socially off. And I'm not talking about your small town 9 or 10.. I'm talking about genuine tens. You don't need to develop social skills when the world invites you to hang with them simple because of how you look.

But to be honest, it sounds like you're getting typical orbiter SPAM. You haven't made a move yet, but you're analyzing writing on forums. Make your move before you post.