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| Author: | thequietlife [ Wed Apr 13, 2016 9:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How do you stop being needy. |
Now I'm not sure if this something linked with early childhood issues, but everyone wants to be wanted( unless you're a sociopath/psychopath) its human nature to want to feel part of something, to feel a belonging. However when you become needy or make a lot of effort in human relations, whether its business, friends family or someone you're trying to game, it comes off desperate and does the total opposite. Its one of the only times(relationships) in life where i think the more effort you put in, the less you get out. So how do you stop being needy ? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Wed Apr 13, 2016 10:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you stop being needy. |
Learn to be happy with yourself and then everyone else in your life is a bonus. If you can't be happy by yourself that makes you "need" others for your happiness. |
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| Author: | Rageroolz [ Wed Apr 13, 2016 10:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you stop being needy. |
Stop trying to find someone or something to fill the void inside of yourself. Once you are happy with yourself and who you are people will intuitively tell and want to be part of your life with you. No one completes you. People can tell. Once you stop needing other people to tell you how great/funny/smart you are and realize that you are smart/funny/great and no one else's opinion changes that you will cease to be needy. |
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| Author: | dicemaster [ Thu Apr 14, 2016 10:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you stop being needy. |
Start to do not give a shit to people. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Apr 14, 2016 10:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you stop being needy. |
Work so that you build something you can be proud of. Be it a career, business, whatever. Confidence eliminates neediness, and confidence is the result of who you are and what value you bring to the world. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Apr 14, 2016 3:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you stop being needy. |
The reason why girls hate guys that are needy is because girls are attracted to MEN. Being needy is a characteristic of a child not a man. A Guy who acts like a child (needy) “is asking" a girl to treat you like a mother and girls hate that. Women want a man that can lead them into wonderful experiences. Women want a man that can make them feel beautiful, sexy, fun, safe, excitement, desire, attraction, all at the same time, regardless of age, income, or looks. A woman has to surrender to you in order for these things to happen. How do you expect her to do this if you are the one acting needy? How do you make her feel all these amazing emotions if you're the needy one? A real man has to be a leader. Then women will follow you. When YOU are a leader then the needy ones will come to you. So when a woman needs love and intimacy she will not only like and want you, she will have to stand in a long line. |
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