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Author:  XXJUICEXX [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 3:14 pm ]
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Hello guys, hope yall having a good day

so im a natural and im facing this situation

when im texting girls who i have got their numbers from online dating, social game or cold approach it sometimes get to the point of that im the one who's always asking questions and making effort in the conversation that it doesn't die. and keep on talking blah blah.. i usually don't care but now im asking this question

because i have landed this girl now that is in my class and i wanna make her my girlfriend, been a fuck boy for many years now and i want a relationship and this girl is perfect for me. She's in my class, we talked the first class (which was month ago ) and second we went for coffee and took her number

we have amazing chemistry and i've seen many IOI's and i already kino'd her and she touched me too as well, it was amazing and smooth and i know that she's into me. We've been texting for few days now and now its that point i mentioned earlier. Sometimes when i get to the point of being the one who's always asking questions and making effort to talk, i stop talking and send a dry text to see if she'll invest and ask me a question or say something (because i've been doing all the work) and this where im at with this girl. 2 days ago i sent her a dry text to see if she'll ask me something, so far she didn't

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now idk why but im taking pride in this and im saying i won't text her if she doesn't

it's feeling kinda awkward idk what to do, we have class together in 2 days

should i text her or what should i do, and i don't wanna lose her if you got the hint

i want to keep her around :o

thank you in advance
Author:  JackZero [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 3:28 pm ]
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Not getting into the whole wanting to make this girl your girlfriend silliness when you guys can't even express attraction in a text.

Regardless of how interesting, how many words are said, or how how long you can keep a conversation going in a text, none of it means anything if the goal of the text is the attempt to meet up with the girl. The whole trying to get her to invest with texting is backwards thinking because the ultimate investment is her willingness to give up her time to be in your presence.
Author:  XXJUICEXX [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 3:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: the dry text dilemma
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Not getting into the whole wanting to make this girl your girlfriend silliness when you guys can't even express attraction in a text.

Regardless of how interesting, how many words are said, or how how long you can keep a conversation going in a text, none of it means anything if the goal of the text is the attempt to meet up with the girl. The whole trying to get her to invest with texting is backwards thinking because the ultimate investment is her willingness to give up her time to be in your presence.
oh my lord that's the answer i was waiting on

ok what should i do, should i try to meet her tomorrow like should i text her or should i call her or what!!

thanks tho for that but clarify more
Author:  JackZero [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 3:49 pm ]
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I personally prefer calling because I can hear how a girl is responding and to me her tonality is telling, but it's okay to text as well. My preference is to call the same day or the night before so if excitement is there than time doesn't wear it down.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 4:07 pm ]
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144+ Messages and they are still dry messages? No fucking wonder she dried up.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 4:15 pm ]
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because i have landed this girl now that is in my class and i wanna make her my girlfriend,
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Not getting into the whole wanting to make this girl your girlfriend silliness when you guys can't even express attraction in a text.


Exactly. This is where the whole thing went to shit.

Follow Jack's advice for sure, but if you are going to text, send one that dampens her pussy, not dry it up like like watching golf on TV.

Something like "I would invite you to come over this weekend, but I’m not sure I can keep my hands to myself."
Author:  XXJUICEXX [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 4:37 pm ]
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144+ Messages and they are still dry messages? No fucking wonder she dried up.
lmaoo its not like that with this girl

im gonna text her today and ask her to hang out tomorrow, how does that sound??

im thinking of taking this slowly cause i like her.. i usually escalate from first date and usually get a lay

but i keep thinking that i should take it slowly with her since i see her in class once a week and since we both are busy with finals now for the coming two weeks so i don't wanna meet her outside of campus until we are done school and its that time where im gonna escalate and tell her shit like i like her blah blah .. how does this sound?


and thanks for the advice
Author:  XXJUICEXX [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 4:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: the dry text dilemma
and how can i express attraction in a text!!
Author:  XXJUICEXX [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 4:46 pm ]
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I personally prefer calling because I can hear how a girl is responding and to me her tonality is telling, but it's okay to text as well. My preference is to call the same day or the night before so if excitement is there than time doesn't wear it down.

that's true, i think texting her is more suitable at this time

and i wanna ask to hang out at campus tomorrow, any ideas?
Author:  JackZero [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 4:51 pm ]
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and how can i express attraction in a text!!
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Something like "I would invite you to come over this weekend, but I’m not sure I can keep my hands to myself."
Author:  JackZero [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 4:53 pm ]
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I personally prefer calling because I can hear how a girl is responding and to me her tonality is telling, but it's okay to text as well. My preference is to call the same day or the night before so if excitement is there than time doesn't wear it down.

that's true, i think texting her is more suitable at this time

and i wanna ask to hang out at campus tomorrow, any ideas?
"What are you doing at X:00 tomorrow?"
Author:  dicemaster [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 5:07 pm ]
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Op, if you are messaging like this no wonder what the result is. So there are many unecessary BS. Be direct and ask when she is available for call. Call her instead of messaging.

i was getting old while i am readingg your message. It is like grandmas gossip BS. Be interesting or have an interesting life, vice versa.
Author:  XXJUICEXX [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 5:14 pm ]
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Op, if you are messaging like this no wonder what the result is. So there are many unecessary BS. Be direct and ask when she is available for call. Call her instead of messaging.

i was getting old while i am readingg your message. It is like grandmas gossip BS. Be interesting or have an interesting life, vice versa.

what do you mean if im messaging like this>??!!

and Loool ouchhhhh

i am a very interesting person indeed she herself stated that to me first time we hung out and was all into me blah blah

thank you
Author:  XXJUICEXX [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 5:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: the dry text dilemma
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I personally prefer calling because I can hear how a girl is responding and to me her tonality is telling, but it's okay to text as well. My preference is to call the same day or the night before so if excitement is there than time doesn't wear it down.

that's true, i think texting her is more suitable at this time

and i wanna ask to hang out at campus tomorrow, any ideas?
"What are you doing at X:00 tomorrow?"
i just said that to her

if she's not available i guess ill ask her on a different time

and

what if i don't get a text back should i just ignore her ass in class or what!?
Author:  dicemaster [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 5:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: the dry text dilemma

I meant, you wrote 3 differrent themes in one message, none of them is interesting. Why dhe should care dhiy about you. Invite her to convo at least, ask meaningful questions.


that's true, i think texting her is more suitable at this time

and i wanna ask to hang out at campus tomorrow, any ideas?[/quote]
"What are you doing at X:00 tomorrow?"[/quote]

i just said that to her

if she's not available i guess ill ask her on a different time

and

what if i don't get a text back should i just ignore her ass in class or what!?[/quote]

Ignore till she responds.
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