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| Author: | Baby Face [ Mon Mar 31, 2008 2:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | One night Only |
Recently i came in contact with a girl who had a bit of a crush on me for a bit and eventually asked me to meet her one night basically we were chatting and as a real novice PUA i think i tried one NEG lol bt neways we were chatted, kissed and got her number. I asked her to text me the next day, she didn't. The following day i saw her and she told me that she liked me alot but it couldn't work due to the fact she had a partner. She thought this was a big deal but i couldn't help smiling as i didn't, after all i'd only really known her for an hour. now were back to what were we before we meet up. I'm just intriguted to know if there's anythings anyone else out there would have done differentlty to get a different result. Or what this i madybe did rong or didn't do well enough x |
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| Author: | Memento [ Mon Mar 31, 2008 3:48 pm ] |
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Hey man, Well, I think your first learning experience (there is no such thing as a mistake) you can take away from this is that you should never ask a girl to ring/text you, always tell (not ask) her that you will call her when you want to meet up. Remember, you are the one in control of the situation at all time and YOU call the shots, not her. Second, I think you might want to learn some boyfriend destroyer lines (or, if you are into NLP, learn some boyfriend destroyer patterns. However for now, just learn some lines.) Here is a very good boyfriend destroyer routine: Quote: "I'm gonna ask you some questions, and I don't want you to answer with words. I want you to answer with your hand. I'm gonna ask you about some things like your job. If something is close to your heart, hold your hand close to your heart. If it's far away, hold your hand far away. If it's in between, hold your hand there. Now, how close is your job to your heart?"
Good job though man."Think about something you're really passionate about, like a hobby. Do you have it? How close is that to your heart?" "How close is your boyfriend to your heart?" "How close is your family to your heart?" "Now, if I was to offer you another job that was right there [you move her hand near her face, closer than her original job], would you take it?" She answers yes. "And if a some guy came along who was right there [you move her hand so it's touching her nose], would you take him?" She answers yes, and when she does quietly say yes as well. If she doesn't, look her in the eye (deeply) and say, "yes, you would". - Memento |
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