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| Author: | REL95 [ Wed Apr 06, 2016 4:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | When is the right time to invite her to a concert? |
Hey everyone! I just met a girl... Well I already knew who she was and viceversa, but she had a boyfriend. Well, she is hot, she is cool, etc... Last weekend, I made a party in my apartment and I got the chance to met her in the right way. We danced, had some shots, played beerpong and became friends. I did not try to get laid, because a friend we have in common told me that she just broke up and she still a little sensitive about it. There is a concert this weekend, which I planned to go since the beginning, and I need somebody to go with. So, I was thinking in inviting her, but I do not know if that is an aggressive move. Even though I will be buying the tickets, so I am expecting to have a good time (not referring to sex, but I definitely will flirt and try something). I do not want to make a bad investment. Some advice? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Wed Apr 06, 2016 4:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When is the right time to invite her to a concert? |
You've presented yourself as a friend, so that's how she sees you. You need to try to change that perception before asking her on a date. Invite her for drinks, flirt with her, and at a high point bring up the concert. Next time, don't let friends talk you out of building attraction. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Wed Apr 06, 2016 8:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When is the right time to invite her to a concert? |
So after she breaks up you play it safe because she's sensitive. Then she gets with some other dude and you play it safe - or not at all - because she's taken. See the problem? It was a party. If there ever was a time to build attraction, that was it. Listen to Jack. Unless you get her on a date like he said before the concert, don't bother inviting her unless a kiss on the cheek is all you want out of life. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Wed Apr 06, 2016 9:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When is the right time to invite her to a concert? |
After a girl breaks up with her boyfriend is probably the best time to make a move. Girls are emotional creatures man. There are a lot of emotions she's feeling after she breaks up with a guy... She's going to want to feel loved and needed. She's going to want to know a man finds her sexy. She's going to maybe have some emotions of hatred or jealousy towards her boyfriend and getting fucked by some other guy is her way of satisfying those feelings. Either way... You fucked up by not making a move when you had the chance. The right time to invite her to the concert is before some other guy makes a move first. Get your mom out of your ear when it comes to sex advice. |
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Wed Apr 06, 2016 11:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When is the right time to invite her to a concert? |
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We danced, had some shots, played beerpong and became friends.
Good job on friendzoning yourself. Girls HATE this shit. They don't want a guy creepily hiding his intentions. They want to be fucked just like you do. They want you to be direct and show your intentions, they LOVE cocky, honest charm and humor.I did not try to get laid. The concert is too much at this point in time. Ask her to watch a movie with you, or to grab a drink. |
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Wed Apr 06, 2016 11:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When is the right time to invite her to a concert? |
Quote: Get your mom out of your ear when it comes to sex advice.
lol.
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Apr 07, 2016 6:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When is the right time to invite her to a concert? |
Quote: Get your mom out of your ear when it comes to sex advice.
LMAO |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Apr 07, 2016 5:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When is the right time to invite her to a concert? |
I just met a girl... The post starts like this. Quote:
I did not try to get laid,
Often contains that!
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| Author: | Finished [ Thu Apr 07, 2016 7:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When is the right time to invite her to a concert? |
You don't. You meet her another time when your schedule allows. Inviting her too a concert is putting you straight into the friend frame. Even if you do get a little romantic from it, it's only going too cause you further trouble down the line. Be a man and go on your own if none of your friends are free. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Apr 11, 2016 12:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When is the right time to invite her to a concert? |
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I did not try to get laid, because a friend we have in common told me that she just broke up and she still a little sensitive about it.
Thats the best time. Its not like she's not going to be sensitive about it at the "concert". So you're opting to play the nice guy thats going to be her friend until she's completely over it before trying to get laid? Lets see how that works out for you. Girls fresh out of break ups usually aren't relationship material so unless you decide on leaving those types alone completely; a lay is really all you should be trying to get out of it. Go on and invite her to the concert. " Hey, my buddy just told me he has to work. I got tickets to see _____ on friday. You tryna go? " My only question is.. Are you only buying the tickets because you want to go with her or is this something you want to do? Cause a regular date could be cheaper and lead to the same result. |
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