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| Author: | Radioh3ad [ Tue Mar 29, 2016 7:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | How did you get good at game |
What did you study or what method did you use in order to be where you're at today |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Mar 29, 2016 8:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How did you get good at game |
You can study snowboarding 8 hours a day, everyday. But once you get on the mountain I guarantee you'll spend most of your first season on your ass rather than on your feet, just like any other newbie. Look man, knowledge is good to have. But it's only ever applicable when backed up by a certain degree of experience. Sticking to the snowboarding analogy, it serves you little purpose to theoretically know how to make a turn when you can't even go in a straight line. But once you actually attempt making turns, it's be exponentially easier to realize what your mistakes are and why you're not getting the results you want, because you have the knowledge to back things up. However, the guy who watched snowboarding videos for 3 seasons but never actually went on the mountain is miles behind the guy who read nothing and got on the board from day 1. He may be doing some things wrong, but ultimately he's the one getting results. If you want to read, read Models by Mark Manson. That's the only book I'd ever stick my name by. But that's it. Then go out and live. Failure is the road to success. |
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| Author: | Radioh3ad [ Tue Mar 29, 2016 8:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How did you get good at game |
Hey man! I'll definitely read that then go in the field. I really enjoyed your comment it's always full of knowledge and you're always respectful. My main sticking point is talking to girls. Not just hello how are you. But doing it in a method or system that will gain me attraction. You know what I mean. With all honesty, I want to improve and I will. This way no matter where the convo goes I'll have a element of control and a game plan to steer it in my direction. Communicating with girls and knowing what to say is my main focus. I never know what's the right thing to say at the right time. I'm researching as much as I can. It's like I need to see what constitutes as a good response, tactic or source material. Once I see that I'll be a total master. I just have to see what works. I want to go in with a plan, like so many of the cool guys on here. I hope I'm explaining this right. I just don't know what that looks like, yet I've seen bits and pieces of here, that's why my game isn't complete. P.S. I sent you a PM. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Mar 30, 2016 11:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How did you get good at game |
They've read a lot of books, I've lived a lot of life. - Jay-Z Although they're both necessary. Experience will trump study at the end of the day. I find that 95% of the guys that come on the forum and that ask these type of questions have read and studies enough. They don't need to read another book or make another post. They need only get out of the house and put their knowledge to practice. You can read 1,000 books on how to ride a bike, but you won't actually know how to ride a bike until you get on one. And you may still fall a few times after reading those thousands books. |
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