Hey,
the Things I mostly do when I have an date with someone I met online is taking the girl out for a little walk before we do an activity together. ( maybe ask for a little tour if it's her neighborhood)
During that that time I interlock arms and even try to hold hands.
Just to get the vibe going and making it less awkward.
This is what works for me.
( All the above advice was offered to me on this site when I needed it and I'm very glad they did )
oh, and pool is a great idea! you can have so much fun with a girl if you don't take the game too seriously
