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Author:  sadDog [ Fri Mar 25, 2016 3:55 am ]
Post subject:  Trying a hookup with hot dance instructor

Well, I am trying to improve my game(I am a beginner). I am taking dance classes with a hot dance instructor. First I build some confort...trying hard to learn bla bla bla. After build confort, I am physically escalate her, touch her where others guys dont do.

To be pretty honest I dont know what to do, I dont know how to isolate her, even if I can she has more value because she is the instructor. So, before quitting, I decided to ask for help in this game...

Author:  JackZero [ Fri Mar 25, 2016 4:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying a hookup with hot dance instructor

Does she know that you're interested in her?

Author:  R.C [ Fri Mar 25, 2016 7:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying a hookup with hot dance instructor

Escalating and "touching her where other guys don't" is point blank creepy unless she's aware you are interested in her.

Author:  sadDog [ Fri Mar 25, 2016 2:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying a hookup with hot dance instructor

She retribute the touch, so I think at moment she knows I am interested. I made some push and pulls too, the basics(as I said, I am a beginner), but I am stuck on this.

When someone shows direct interest on her, she run as hell. Probably because she is working, even when we have party at the ballroom and she is "off duty" she avoid romantic contacts.

Author:  JackZero [ Fri Mar 25, 2016 3:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying a hookup with hot dance instructor

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She retribute the touch, so I think at moment she knows I am interested. I made some push and pulls too, the basics(as I said, I am a beginner), but I am stuck on this.

When someone shows direct interest on her, she run as hell. Probably because she is working, even when we have party at the ballroom and she is "off duty" she avoid romantic contacts.
She probably runs for a lot of different reasons. If a guy that she actually likes shows interest, she won't run from him. The reason you are stuck is because you're hoping that she gives you a sign that she's interested in you before you do anything else and that's not likely going to happen.

Author:  masterm1ne [ Fri Mar 25, 2016 3:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying a hookup with hot dance instructor

How about we go back to dating 101? Have you asked for her number and then asked her out on a date? Pretty simple easy way to find out if she is interested. If you've seen her a few times at this place which it seems like you have, there is a good chance she knows if she's interested or not...

If she won't give you her #, won't go on a date with you, then guess what? You're never touching her in places where other guys don't.

Author:  sadDog [ Fri Mar 25, 2016 3:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying a hookup with hot dance instructor

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She probably runs for a lot of different reasons. If a guy that she actually likes shows interest, she won't run from him. The reason you are stuck is because you're hoping that she gives you a sign that she's interested in you before you do anything else and that's not likely going to happen.
yes, you are right. Last time I was dance with her, we are dancing like a couple, and something clicks "oh shit, I am becoming her orbiter". So came here to find a solution or quit game. Orbiter...not in is this life.

Author:  sadDog [ Fri Mar 25, 2016 4:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying a hookup with hot dance instructor

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How about we go back to dating 101? Have you asked for her number and then asked her out on a date? Pretty simple easy way to find out if she is interested. If you've seen her a few times at this place which it seems like you have, there is a good chance she knows if she's interested or not...

If she won't give you her #, won't go on a date with you, then guess what? You're never touching her in places where other guys don't.
Since she teaches me, she have my number. If it was someone who I met, I will just ask for a date and move on if it was a no. But I think this is a situation where I can learn.

About the touches, dance has a lot of kino, so I just dont do AFC things like loose grip, and others basic pua things .

Author:  JackZero [ Fri Mar 25, 2016 4:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying a hookup with hot dance instructor

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She probably runs for a lot of different reasons. If a guy that she actually likes shows interest, she won't run from him. The reason you are stuck is because you're hoping that she gives you a sign that she's interested in you before you do anything else and that's not likely going to happen.
yes, you are right. Last time I was dance with her, we are dancing like a couple, and something clicks "oh shit, I am becoming her orbiter". So came here to find a solution or quit game. Orbiter...not in is this life.
I've been trying hard to help you come up with your own solution, but I'll say it. Ask her out or just be a dance student that thinks he has a hot instructor. There's no secret PUA technique in between what you've already done and what you need to do next. She'll say yes or she'll say no but at least you'll get it out of your system.

Author:  masterm1ne [ Fri Mar 25, 2016 4:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying a hookup with hot dance instructor

Ok great, you guys have each other's #s. Now have you asked her out? Kinda hard to seduce a woman in a dance studio.... I've been. And she counts as a hired gun, a dance instructor is paid based on how she deals with her students, and in dance you have to touch many other people as an instructor.

Author:  sadDog [ Sat Mar 26, 2016 4:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying a hookup with hot dance instructor

ok, I will work with those infos. thx

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