Not interested. Move on. Read this: general-questions/topic41556.html

Now, get to work infield. Stop posting and lurking on this forum, approach and open 200 girls face-to-face, then come back here after 2 weeks.

It was not like that situation, she was into me. With all my patience i am writing this post down. THX for yhe reply.

You cannot judge if a girl is into you or not based on text messages from a girl that you have not met in person. The fact that she didn't give you her number when you asked pretty much screams that she isn't interested.

It was not like that situation, she was into me. With all my patience i am writing this post down. THX for yhe reply.

A girl who is into you or is interested will comply to at least three compliance tests that you shoot in a row, like giving you her number. In this case, she turned you down on this very basic compliance test.

It's so much easier to throw compliance tests face-to-face to find out if a girl is interested in you or not. This is the reason why you shoud approach and open 200 girls face-to-face within a span of two weeks.

Here are three basic compliance tests I give in a row to a girl I like when sarging face-to-face:

1. I hold a girl's hand for more than 2 minutes. If she doesn't pull back within 2 minutes, then her interest in you is okay.

2. I isolate her for an instadate. If she tags along without any resistance or hesitation, then her interest in you is just about average. If she goes with you but brings her friend or friends along, then her interest in you is low.

3. I ask the girl to bounce to a different place to hangout. If she goes alone with you in 3 to 5 different places, then her interest in you is high.

When time runs out during the instadate in compliance #3, I ask for her number so we can have a one-on-one date the next day or within the week. When she doesn't flake on the date and goes with you alone, that's how I know when a girl is really interested or into me. If she doesn't answer your text or call, then she is not interested.

The question is: What was your criteria in concluding that this girl was into you?

A girl who is into you or is interested will comply to at least three compliance tests that you shoot in a row, like giving you her number. In this case, she turned you down on this very basic compliance test.

It's so much easier to throw compliance tests face-to-face to find out if a girl is interested in you or not. This is the reason why you shoud approach and open 200 girls face-to-face within a span of two weeks.

Here are three basic compliance tests I give in a row to a girl I like when sarging face-to-face:

1. I hold a girl's hand for more than 2 minutes. If she doesn't pull back within 2 minutes, then her interest in you is okay.

2. I isolate her for an instadate. If she tags along without any resistance or hesitation, then her interest in you is just about average. If she goes with you but brings her friend or friends along, then her interest in you is low.

3. I ask the girl to bounce to a different place to hangout. If she goes alone with you in 3 to 5 different places, then her interest in you is high.

When time runs out during the instadate in compliance #3, I ask for her number so we can have a one-on-one date the next day or within the week. When she doesn't flake on the date and goes with you alone, that's how I know when a girl is really interested or into me. If she doesn't answer your text or call, then she is not interested.

The question is: What was your criteria in concluding that this girl was into you?

Thx for the info. I tought she eas into me cuz she asked rapidly several questions about my life, about my family, school, origin vs. at the end i said i think we could at the same state of mind and we would make out, she says i can give it a try then i asked for the number. I think there were enough iois.

Dice, are any of these scenarious even true dude?? The more I read your words the more I think these experiences just come out of your head in case you ever go outside

I shit test you to go out and take a photo of yourself and post it. You must be outside, with a girl (you can use your mom)

I don’t even worry about shit tests, and neither do any real alpha males—they say and do whatever they would say and do whether they were talking to a woman or a guy, without caring what anyone else thinks.

If you talked to her for three hours, you should be able to pick up on by her body language and voice pitch/tone whether she’s really into you are not.

Do you really believe that if a woman’s ex walked up—the guy who knows how to talk to her, and have her pussy wet and five seconds, would she be saying that to him? Or would she be BEGGING him to take her number, and pretty much take her home that night?

If she’s playing these games, she wasn’t really that interested in the first place. Were you talking to her about bullshit whole time, or did you tell her you thought she was beautiful, or whatever you were thinking at least once during the conversation, or did she just leave thinking you wanted to be friends?

If you weren’t upfront with her, honestly, I can’t blame her for doing a “fucking shit test”, because if you were being honest with her, and weren’t playing games, she wouldn’t be able to shit test you unless you were saying and doing things you didn’t already want to do. Just because you thought they would get you what you wanted (in this case her number).

Try being a man, and firmly telling her to give you her number. Seriously, no offense, but what kind of alpha man puts up with a woman not even doing what he asks, when all he asks for the simple phone number?

And if you get into a relationship with her based on the way it starting out, she’s going to be the one bossing you around, and you’re going to be walking egg shells, scared of her manipulating you because she’s a manipulative bitch.

I like you, I’ve been the biggest bench on the planet, and I’ve been in your shoes. I want to see you successful, and I know how it feels to be played, believe me.

My advice to you is to work on your inner game, because you need to have the balls to stand up to these women, and fearlessly say what’s on your mind, and let them know who’s boss, otherwise they than a walk all over you.

And I’m not saying all women are bad, two of my best friends are women. They’re the most loving and supportive women I’ve ever met, and they are the only women I let my guard down with, and sometimes let them take control because I know they actually care and are looking out for me from having known them for years.

But, meeting a selfless woman is the exception rather than the rule, so you always want to make sure you have control.