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Author:  SirPounce [ Sun Mar 20, 2016 5:11 pm ]
Post subject:  So, I'm About To Respond To Her
Ok guys, I'm messaging this girl and I've been thinking about my response. I'd like to see what your guy's thoughts are on the conversation so far and what the next step should be?


Me
Am I a basic bitch now that I have Facebook? Looking great Sarah, if I weren't gay we'd be dating.

Her:
Lol no your not I recently started mine. Why Thank you Daniel! You are too. I would have never known. That's cool I swing both ways

Me
Minus 10 awesome points for doubting me... Maybe it's cause you haven't seen me. Darling, I'm as fabulously flamboyant as they come. I suppose it doesn't matter if you believe me or not so long as you don't force yourself upon me.
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Me(Link in case image doesn't work for you guys http://giphy.com/gifs/love-rainbow-spon ... 00WvNcnbSo)

Her: Oh it wasn't that I didn't believe you. Sorry if it came out that way
Her: But its like you said we haven't seen you in so long
Her: Each other* not seen you

Me:
Aw, I was just teasing. You're very intuitive though, seeing as you were right I'm not actually gay, I am suspiciously described as flamboyant though... Btw Intuitive people get 20 awesome points. I imagine more to come. What are three things that make you an interesting and cool person these days?

Her:
.......Daniel.... That's not very nice.. :P sweet I'm gaining points like oblivion he he I'm a novice in intuitivism. Haha hmmm I'm shrouded in the Vail of society...I like to think I'm starting to be awaken to what reality really is and could be. I'm extremely interested in physics...nano technology astro physics quantum mechanics.. Cosmology.. astronomy...ancient civilizations particularly the Egyptians.. I'm also not afraid to tell people I believe that ET are real and I have witnessed many ufo's

Her:
Idk I would to be honest call myself a prude...(sweating worried face emoticon)



This is my drafted response so far:
Dude, how am I supposed to tally this shit? +10 points for typing that on your phone...like holy shit... -10 for calling me not nice, +10 for being diverse, -10 for being indecisive, +20 for being a deep thinker, +10 for being into science, I'd like to hear you out more on the subject but for now -20 for being a prude? +5 for believing in aliens and +5 for owning that shit. So that leaves you at... 30? Let's make it fun, at 60 points you get my number? Somebody already won my 2016 Lamborghini. :/
Author:  R.C [ Mon Mar 21, 2016 1:09 pm ]
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Dude.

The intro was great.
The points thing, I'm not a big fan, but that's not the idea. The idea is I see this happen a lot, where guys cling to something for far, faaaar too long and it transitions from kind of funny way back when to seriously cheesy.

You did the points thing twice, which is already more than enough. Now you're about to do it trice.
Furthermore
Quote:
Let's make it fun, at 60 points you get my number? Somebody already won my 2016 Lamborghini
This is like telling someone to take a bullet for you. They actually may have, right up until you told them to.
Same goes here. Maybe she does like you. Maybe she would chase you. But it sure as hell ain't gonna happen if you actually tell her to.

I get that you're trying to be a playful challenge, but the point of conversation is to get a glimpse of who the other person is. And if you have to overuse the same joke 4 times in 3 replies, chances are there's not much to you.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Mon Mar 21, 2016 6:01 pm ]
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Your texting comes off as horribly invested. Ditch the points thing.
Author:  SirPounce [ Tue Mar 22, 2016 12:04 am ]
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Story Continued:
Quote:
Dude.

The intro was great.
The points thing, I'm not a big fan, but that's not the idea. The idea is I see this happen a lot, where guys cling to something for far, faaaar too long and it transitions from kind of funny way back when to seriously cheesy.

You did the points thing twice, which is already more than enough. Now you're about to do it trice.
Furthermore
Quote:
Let's make it fun, at 60 points you get my number? Somebody already won my 2016 Lamborghini
This is like telling someone to take a bullet for you. They actually may have, right up until you told them to.
Same goes here. Maybe she does like you. Maybe she would chase you. But it sure as hell ain't gonna happen if you actually tell her to.

I get that you're trying to be a playful challenge, but the point of conversation is to get a glimpse of who the other person is. And if you have to overuse the same joke 4 times in 3 replies, chances are there's not much to you.

These are very good points thanks a bunch R.C. I shouldn't stay on the subject and milk it too long and I agree I think I did milk it too long and could have built things up better.

I am thinking hard right now about whether or not its a bad thing to say at 60 she gets my number. I was impatient and ended up sending it anyways. I learned this from Niel Strauss he was on the call with some girl who he did it to in the past and it seemed to work out very well.

Her response was: "Hahaha sure I'm having fun. I'm not in this to win anything just to catch up with a ye old friend. huh!!!!???? A lambo?????? Must be a very important somebody"

Btw when she says old friend.... tbh we maybe talked once or twice in high school so that ain't why.

Ultimately, she said some deep thing about ignorance in america and stuff to which I responded:

Me: +50
Me: xxx-xxx-xxxx (gave her my #)
Her: Why thank you kindly dear Daniel
Her: And here is mine xxx-xxx-xxxx
Me: Hey now, only a privileged few can call me "dear"
Her: I apologize? Seeing as I didn't know that please do not be offended
Her: I didn't mean anything by it
Me: Lmao I'm kidding! You're hilarious!

After this, I may have fucked things up...

So what i did is went ahead and called her. Eddie Fews taught me this one but maybe i'm miss using it?

She didn't answer, so I told her "i'ma call you for a minute so i can actually hear that apology"

She replied: "Oh dear heavens.... :D"

But she didn't answer my next call. So I left it alone and said

Me: I stopped vacuuming just to hear that apology, da fuk.
She didn't respond for a bit.
Me: Dear heavens indeed. I'm on the same page as you though about people and this nation. We aren't free thinkers, deep thinkers. We accept things without questioning them. I won't hold my breath on that apology time to go to work tho, take it ez

And I'll just let her pick it up from there, or not... So I'm wondering if calling her on the phone was that big of a deal. When a girl ACTUALLY picks up I have very good presence on the phone and it basically always goes very well. Eddie Fews was said that: "Once I get the girls numbers I do not text them. I call them on the phone that night, or i'll FaceTime or SPAM them that night."

Whatever, it's not a big deal. Just want to see where I can improve and I've already learned something from you R.C. so thank you!
Author:  SirPounce [ Tue Mar 22, 2016 12:12 am ]
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Quote:
Your texting comes off as horribly invested. Ditch the points thing.
Thanks for the response Arch, would you mind giving me some specifics and maybe like an example of what would be better?

I'll try to pay attention to how invested I come off as in the mean time.

Cause tbh I don't give a fuck about this girl romantically (yet). I'm just having fun and trying to practice.
Author:  SirPounce [ Tue Mar 22, 2016 12:20 am ]
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Author:  SirPounce [ Tue Mar 22, 2016 12:24 am ]
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Author:  neo87 [ Tue Mar 22, 2016 12:39 am ]
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She didn't answer, so I told her "i'ma call you for a minute so i can hear that apology real quick"

She replied: "Oh dear heavens.... :D"

But she didn't answer my next call.
Next time end it there. Let her re-initiate
Author:  SirPounce [ Tue Mar 22, 2016 12:48 am ]
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She didn't answer, so I told her "i'ma call you for a minute so i can hear that apology real quick"

She replied: "Oh dear heavens.... :D"

But she didn't answer my next call.
Next time end it there. Let her re-initiate
I think you're very right in hindsight. I've much to learn. Thanks Neo!

Oh and whoops I meant to say: "i'ma call you for a minute so i can actually hear that apology"
Author:  R.C [ Tue Mar 22, 2016 1:01 pm ]
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Her: I apologize?
Quote:
She didn't answer, so I told her "i'ma call you for a minute so i can actually hear that apology"
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Me: I stopped vacuuming just to hear that apology, da fuk.
You're milking it dry again dude.

Look, yes Eddie is successful with calls, but he'd be just as successful with text because he understands the point of interacting is not getting the number, it's forming a connection. The number is just a means to an end.
Personally I dislike calling, so I text. 2 sides of the same coin.

Your goal here was getting the number. You tried being playful and that's a good start. But you did it in a scripted manner and payed little regard to actually bonding with this girl. These types of conversations should be lighthearted, flirty and fun. However you got too gamey and your focus was on making yourself look like a prize she should yearn for. And, you know, if you're rich people notice. But if you're walking around waving an "I'm rich, recognize it" flag, you're being tryhard.
Author:  SirPounce [ Wed Mar 23, 2016 11:14 pm ]
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Quote:
Quote:
Her: I apologize?
Quote:
She didn't answer, so I told her "i'ma call you for a minute so i can actually hear that apology"
Quote:
Me: I stopped vacuuming just to hear that apology, da fuk.
You're milking it dry again dude.

Look, yes Eddie is successful with calls, but he'd be just as successful with text because he understands the point of interacting is not getting the number, it's forming a connection. The number is just a means to an end.
Personally I dislike calling, so I text. 2 sides of the same coin.

Your goal here was getting the number. You tried being playful and that's a good start. But you did it in a scripted manner and payed little regard to actually bonding with this girl. These types of conversations should be lighthearted, flirty and fun. However you got too gamey and your focus was on making yourself look like a prize she should yearn for. And, you know, if you're rich people notice. But if you're walking around waving an "I'm rich, recognize it" flag, you're being tryhard.

You're completely right, thanks for giving me a better perspective. I will keep this in mind going forward! Appreciate it R.C. you rock!
Author:  R.C [ Thu Mar 24, 2016 8:55 am ]
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Anytime.
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