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Author:  AlexisMixail [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 6:04 pm ]
Post subject:  A Help With Ex is Needed.
Hey guys My name is Alexis Mixail.

First time i post here, and i knew this forums just never had so much of a problem till now.

Long story short i met this girl a year and a half ago she is 36 i am 23 i know its fucking weird as hell, but she has an amazing body she is gorgeus and i trully love this woman and i know she does.

What happen is that as i met her i learn a lot of game from her i didn't know. She didn't actually teach me anything i just learn in the process by her just by being in a relationship with her.

Again long story short we been together for 1 year and a half she is very dramatic and divorced for after 10 years of marriage, we have amazing SEX together but everything started to fall appart she startet not to giving a shit about me giving phone numbers to other guys showing zero respect for me all this cause i was needy little insecure bitch.

She broke up with me 2 times and i always run backed and tried to fix things wich i did and we were together cause of me ofcourse she was making some kind of effort and texting me also and since this bitch violated most of the times. she said im pushing her not giving her space and shit like that yeah maybe im acting this way without knowing it but i started to control my self. and ofcrouse she said we have no future together and bla bla all of fucking bs. maybe we have 13 years difference but she looks younger. but for some reason she played me really hard and im really in love with her.

Last sunday i was waiting for her in my home she is a belly dancer she want to dance for exactly 30 minutes she dances for a groups of guys WHO are getting married and shit like that she went to a club to dance.

She texted me around 2 in the night that she will be late 30 minutes i said ok no problem. time went 2.45 she texted me again i will be late another 15 minutes and i told her when usay you gonna be in time then fucking do it im not a pupey to wait around. and she just answered after 20 minutes later come down :) with a smiley fucking face. i went down i was still waiting i call her where the heck are you she said im coming she finally showed up after 35 minutes of stooding me up drinking in the club till 3 am in the night and not giving a shit that im waiting.

we had a big fight i shouted to her i don't tolerate this shit she got angry went out of the Car and literally running on the street with the Car stopped in the main street i put her back in the Car we went home sleep and next day she was completely cold and distand. we talked later that night she told she wants 2-3 days alone. (translation i want to brake up with you) and we didn't talk for 2 days.

After 2 days i send her a text i told her im sorry about shouting to you but you also did a fucking mistake by being late i would like to talk things out (no answer)

Not sure what to do. some help would be nice.

Thanks.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 6:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A Help With Ex is Needed.
Wow this one is different.

It's tough because personally I've never actually dated a prostitute.

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All kidding aside, do you actually see a future here? Is she worth it?

You are 23 Bro, there are soooo many other options.

Way WAY better.
Author:  AlexisMixail [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 7:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A Help With Ex is Needed.
Sure they are but you all passed and know the feeling when u are hooked up on that one girl.
Author:  Jay Lay [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 7:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A Help With Ex is Needed.
I would say give her the space she seems to be asking for. You have basically established a dynamic in which you've told her, through your actions, that you will put up with any kind of behavior, coldness, distance, SPAM etc and still make an effort with her. She is clearly not making the same effort with you and maybe feels suffocated by your demands. Give her space and time, don't get in touch with her for a while and try to take some small steps to move on in the mean time. Be with friends, do the things you really like to do for yourself. If she hasn't gotten in touch with you for a few weeks, and you still feel strongly about her, then check in and send a message saying, "just wanted to say hi and see how you're doing, hope you're well." See if she replies and then go from there. If she doesn't respond after that. Drop it and find someone that will give you the attention and energy you deserve.
Author:  AlexisMixail [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 7:57 pm ]
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Thank u so much.. how should i behave when she comes to the club i work or the gym that she works that i go there?
Author:  Jay Lay [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 7:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A Help With Ex is Needed.
Good luck and let me know how it goes.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 8:04 pm ]
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Quote:
Thank u so much.. how should i behave when she comes to the club i work or the gym that she works that i go there?
If you've been fucking her for this long, I think you would know each others routine and schedules.

But it does happen. You are a grown ass man, deal with it as such. Just be polite, but distant.
Author:  AlexisMixail [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 8:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A Help With Ex is Needed.
Thanks.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 8:49 pm ]
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Don't forget to update your results. It's kind of the whole point.
Author:  AlexisMixail [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 9:20 pm ]
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Sure.
Author:  Jay Lay [ Sat Mar 12, 2016 4:57 pm ]
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Yeah, just be friendly but neutral. Don't act angry or sad if you see her, that's a turn off. Just smile politely and go back to your business. If you're at work, then perfect, you have things you need to do and people that know you, so just keep working and chatting with the people you know and feel comfortable with. If she initiates conversation, be cool and nice, but slightly detached.
Author:  Jay Lay [ Sat Mar 12, 2016 5:00 pm ]
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Also, if you know that she'll be working at a certain time, DO NOT go to the gym during her shifts, at least not for a few weeks. Like I said, give her space. If you go to her place of work during the time that you know she'll be there, and she knows that you know, then she might think you are invading her professional space. If the only time you can go to the gym happens to be when she's working, then just go, but like we both said before, act mature, friendly but distant and don't make an effort to get her attention.
Author:  dicemaster [ Sat Mar 12, 2016 11:46 pm ]
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Quote:
Also, if you know that she'll be working at a certain time, DO NOT go to the gym during her shifts, at least not for a few weeks. Like I said, give her space. If you go to her place of work during the time that you know she'll be there, and she knows that you know, then she might think you are invading her professional space. If the only time you can go to the gym happens to be when she's working, then just go, but like we both said before, act mature, friendly but distant and don't make an effort to get her attention.
Hey motherfucker, i wanna day you that you acted like a histeric bastard. Look at yorself, like a fucking doormat you r alway getting kick. She is 36 which is totaly old. Was her pussy even wet or was using gel for fuck?

divorced, has a kis, old and bitchy. Market value is 0. BUT YOUR LICKING HER ASS IT MAKES YOUR VALUE LESS THAN HER. according to this situation u MUST NEXT her. What the fuck are u thinking about with this Milf. Go fuck ten other women or Go fuck yourself.
Author:  AlexisMixail [ Sun Mar 13, 2016 12:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A Help With Ex is Needed.
Really dude? You act like a little kid dosent matter if she is 36 she is a woman and i fucking like her so what she dosent even look 36 you stupid dumb ass piece of shit go fuck your little crying ass.
Author:  anon90210 [ Sun Mar 13, 2016 3:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A Help With Ex is Needed.
haha well she is older so she is more experienced I would imagine. Have you ever had a girl nag at you and bitch at you about things that you don't want to hear? That is what she is feeling. It totally sucks, and makes me personally want to get as far away as possible. In my opinion I think there is nothing you can do proactively to make her want you besides give her time and see what happens. In the meantime, your job as a man is to constantly be improving. Your goal is to not be waiting around for her to come over late at night, but to not really be affected if she comes or not. When this is the case, she will want to gobble up yo dick.
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