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| Author: | LSR666 [ Tue Mar 08, 2016 2:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | attraction and escalation - help!! |
Hi good people, So I've been doing a lot of work on myself for the last year especially the last few months. Small little things at first which I got stuck at for too long and it's helped in a few ways but killed me in others. I make a pint of it to smile and greet anyone and everyone that I come in contact with - whether I'm at work or in the mall or in the street doesn't matter. So far I've gotten only good responses. People have even mentioned that I've got a very inviting personality. I also make a point to keep eye contact with people until they look away first. I've been mostly successful in winning the battle so to speak. Recently I met a girl and I learned the following: 1) in being cocky funny i tend to take it a little too far and end up being goofy. Sometimes this works but it KILLS attraction quickly. 2) I HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO BUILD ATTRACTION FROM THE START IN ORDER TO MAKE HER INTERESTED AND EVENTUALLY OBSESSED AND 3) I HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO ESCALATE FROM OPENING TO BUILDING COMFORT AND ESTABLISHING RAPPORT TO BUILDING ATTRACTION TO NUMBER/KISS CLOSING TO GETTING DATES ETC. I'm a wuss still in many ways but much less than I used to be. This attraction thing is killing me - since some dud ugly motherfucker just came in and swooped her off of her feet right from under me - worst part - I'VE DATED HOTTER GIRLS THAN HER!!!!!!! In fact she would've been one of the most average I've ever gone for - she's got looks don't get me wrong but what gets me with her is her killer personality and sense of humor. How do I build killer attraction from the start to get the girl obsessed with me and how do I escalate from there? I'm thinking that wasting my time on this girl any further is pointless it's better to just move on and start with a new one? Thanks |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Mar 08, 2016 3:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: attraction and escalation - help!! |
Quote: I'VE DATED HOTTER GIRLS THAN HER!!!!!!! In fact she would've been one of the most average I've ever gone for.
Looks like you answered your own question.
I'm thinking that wasting my time on this girl any further is pointless it's better to just move on and start with a new one? Thanks |
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