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| Author: | hey_lover [ Sun Mar 06, 2016 10:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Emotional Rollercoaster |
The biggest reason why I always thought it was foolish to expect a real long term commitment from a women is because of how quickly her mood and mind changes. At least, though with a long term commitment, there is some length of stability, and even though you know it will end, there is some consistency there for a while. Trying to be a player and juggling multiple women seems to have exacerbated this issue to much greater proportions. You are at the mercy of multiple girls mood and mind changes, and it completely fucks with your mind. I don't mean to the extent that I'm going nuts, obviously not, but enough to fuck with me. I met a girl who I had agreed to meet on a specific day, I woke up that day prepared to meet her, got ready to go workout in the hours prior to the meet. I called her as planned, she didn't respond. After finishing my workout, I day gamed and met another girl. I closed her and called her the next day to meet for the following day. She responded but went AWOL the day after. I was at work when I called the AWOL chick. I then immediately agreed a meet with a girl from online after the failed plans, she agreed and told me to meet her at so-and-so after I finished work. As the day passed, I met a girl in the gym who was lucky enough to be the only person in my strength and conditioning class, I gamed and number closed her with a meet agreed for two days time. After I finish with her, I check my phone to see a message from the online chick saying that she no longer can make it. This all happened within the space of 4 days. Just when you think you have a chick, you lose her, and before you can even mull it over, another appears and you have a new shiny object, of course, until you somehow lose her as well from within your grasp. I'm very emotionally stable, people often say I am very calm and seem like nothing can phase me. It's true, I don't let many things affect me, but this player life is one helluva rollercoaster. You can't really focus on anything at all outside of chicks, because you have multiple chicks moving in and out of your life with no regard. You can't really plan anything, because just when you think you have one, you have a new plan. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Mar 07, 2016 7:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Emotional Rollercoaster |
I don't date women like that. Neither should you if it's bothering you. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Mar 07, 2016 4:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Emotional Rollercoaster |
Roller-coasters are fun! |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Mon Mar 07, 2016 4:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Emotional Rollercoaster |
I couldn't help it [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N1cbsLKXasQ[/youtube] |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Mar 09, 2016 1:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Emotional Rollercoaster |
Its all compliance man. Women develop connected emotions to whoever they give their highest levels of compliance to. Virgins become to attached to the first guy they sleep with because they have never "complied" with that request before ever in their life. And the more guys that said "no" the more they'll think you're special because they said "yes" to you. Making a girl fall in love really just boils down getting her to do things for you that she's never done for anyone. And the more a woman respects you, the more she'll be willing to do for you. I wrote an article about this.. But one example is: Having a girl change her phone number once she starts dating you. Any girl that I consider taking serious I have them change their phone numbers.It avoids the ex boyfriend return problem, time wasters etc. And I've never had a girl not fall in love that changed their phone number amongst other things. They've just never done it before and so they'll place their love/respect/value in the same place they place their compliance levels. Thats just one example but they're many. Whores are very tough to get to fall in love because they've already complied with so much for so many different people. Getting a girl to fall madly in love involves stepping into uncharted territory. You have to be the FIRST one in a few areas of her life. |
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