I'm new to the game, having come out of a long term relationship. I've been studying pickup for a few weeks now and have read Bang, Day Bang and The Art of Seduction - I discovered that I was behind the eight ball, so I have been working on my game.
I study law and last night went to the first college party of the year. I met a Polish girl, tall, blonde, blue eyes, tight body, I'd say a 6.5. I found out she studied law too and is one year ahead of me. I said I was involved in the mooting so she asked me to partner up with her, I said yes.
From the start, the attraction was good, lots of touching and plenty of escalation and we kissed on the dance floor, but briefly. I was planning on continuing to escalate but she wanted to go to a different club so we left. She was tipsy when she met me, but still had all her faculties about her; texting, talking, walking, but she got progressively drunker. When we got to the other club the doorman picked up on this and warned her to slow down. When we went in there she went to pee for the seemingly thousandth time and then we hit the dance floor. We grinded kissed touched and then she wanted to have a smoke. This pissed me off, not that I showed it, because she was making it hard (in lots of ways) for me to escalate. Then she took a colossal fall, taking me down with her - embarrassing, but whatever. We had our smoke, outside she was smiling at me and it was ok. Then when we went back in she tripped on the same step stepping on to the dance floor, I didn't go down but tried to catch her - heavy as! - and she nearly started a fight, which I had to diffuse. After that she looked really badly embarrassed and told me I've got to go home. We got out of the club and we said goodbye, a brief kiss and she got in a taxi and left.
OK so a few variables.
She quickly got drunk. As she wasn't that pissed when we met.
I didn't get her phone number but we exchanged fb and excepted each others requests.
We could be working together as a team for a moot competition in a court.
Upon leaving the party, one of her friends, a lovely fat cockblocker told her "don't you go home with that guy" in my earshot like I was an invisible sack of shit.
I didn't buy her anything.
She was not embarrassed about anything I did when she fell, she was embarrassed at herself.
I was not needy, but I was confident.
I am attracted to her, of course I want to bang her but I want to do the moot with her, if it will get me in with her.
She's also my type and super smart, so I'm interested in getting to know her.
So finally, how do I proceed? I want to do a cafe/bar date with her. I don't want to look like a retard as she is involved in my sphere of influence. But I could easily bang and leave. I just don't want to look like a weak c*nt.
Should I send her a fb message today? Or should I play it safe, send her a message regarding the moot and try and build tension working alone with her.
I need expert advice, and your advice will be appreciated.
Last night was a massive cock tease.
Luke