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Author:  Freshbaked247 [ Wed Mar 02, 2016 10:02 am ]
Post subject:  How Do I deal with a massive tease?
I basically have my hands on her and she reciprocates. I've been practicing the escalation ladder. I go for a kiss and bang, instant side cheek kiss. Her proximity gets closer as she drinks but she stops herself to get sober.

Any advice? We went out for drinks tonight and this is basically the only time we've chilled so i don't think i've become a solid orbiter just yet.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Mar 02, 2016 3:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How Do I deal with a massive tease?
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I basically have my hands on her and she reciprocates. I've been practicing the escalation ladder. I go for a kiss and bang, instant side cheek kiss. Her proximity gets closer as she drinks but she stops herself to get sober.

Any advice? We went out for drinks tonight and this is basically the only time we've chilled so i don't think i've become a solid orbiter just yet.
You left out a ton of detail, but I'm guessing you threw in the towel at 1st bell.
Author:  Freshbaked247 [ Wed Mar 02, 2016 7:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How Do I deal with a massive tease?
Nah i actually tried a few times.

Started with hand holding and touching then she would definitely reciprocate, grabbing my hands excitedly when i cracked a joke or touching my hands when i took her through the "emotional" rollercoaster describing a time i got embarrassed in school.

Then went on to sitting on the bench seat in the bar. I started with my hands on her knee casually talking and no resistance. Then moved up to her thigh and then actually picked her legs up and rested them on my lap. Played with her hair all while talking and laughing.

Got close to her and pulled her in for a kiss with my hand on the small of her back and she giggled and turned her head and said "noooo" lightly smacking my chest. I tried not to make too pick a deal about it. I think i said something like "you're a sneaky one, arnet you?

Pretty much repeated it 3 times with the same result.

Then got hit with the dreaded "lets go out tomorrow. I'll bring my sweet mate, she's awesome"

I told her sounds like fun but i have to see what I'm doing.

Went home, got a text asking me to let her know when i got home and that she had a great time.

So, is she a tease or did i do something wrong?

Admittedly i never brought up any sexually driven comments or conversation but i thought my aggressivness in touching would suffice.
Author:  neo87 [ Wed Mar 02, 2016 7:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How Do I deal with a massive tease?
Are these dates in her mind? Not seeing teasing here
Author:  Freshbaked247 [ Wed Mar 02, 2016 7:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How Do I deal with a massive tease?
I mean the joking involved some teasing. She drunkenly mispronounced a word and i jumped on it. It was about that time i plopped her legs on me and she started playing with my bracelets.

Maybe more teasing?
Author:  JackZero [ Wed Mar 02, 2016 7:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How Do I deal with a massive tease?
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Then got hit with the dreaded "lets go out tomorrow. I'll bring my sweet mate, she's awesome"
Sounds like she realized where you were going with all of this and didn't want to hurt your feelings by offering you another meetup with a bodyguard...
or
or
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THREEWAY!!!
Author:  Freshbaked247 [ Wed Mar 02, 2016 7:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How Do I deal with a massive tease?
Hahaha yeah we hope right?

And yeah you're probably right. That probably means i need to be more forward of my intentions from the beginning to pre-screen.

Can't deny that she's really flirtatious so i thought i did a good job of letting her know originally. That and all the escalation which is something still pretty new to me.

If this doesn't work, I'd rather take it as a lesson.

Ninja edit: she literally just called me but i ignored it. Not because im playing games but because i want to eat my pizza in peace lol

Shoot for another meet up with drinks and try again? Or bail now?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Mar 02, 2016 7:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How Do I deal with a massive tease?
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Then got hit with the dreaded "lets go out tomorrow. I'll bring my sweet mate, she's awesome"
Sounds like she realized where you were going with all of this and didn't want to hurt your feelings by offering you another meetup with a bodyguard...
or
or
or
THREEWAY!!!
Thumbs up of the day.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Wed Mar 02, 2016 8:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How Do I deal with a massive tease?
lol ^

Worth a shot at the threeway .
Author:  n2thevoid [ Wed Mar 02, 2016 10:03 pm ]
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lol ^

Worth a shot at the threeway .
Unless her "sweet mate" resembles something like this
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Author:  Freshbaked247 [ Wed Mar 02, 2016 10:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How Do I deal with a massive tease?
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lol ^

Worth a shot at the threeway .
Unless her "sweet mate" resembles something like this
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LMAO dem curves tho :twisted:

Yeah she keeps texting me saying she had a good interview today and she wants to get drinks tonight. Hoping she doesn't bring her roomie

More teasing
More sexual banter

go go go!
Author:  n2thevoid [ Wed Mar 02, 2016 10:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How Do I deal with a massive tease?
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lol ^

Worth a shot at the threeway .
Unless her "sweet mate" resembles something like this
Image
LMAO dem curves tho :twisted:

Yeah she keeps texting me saying she had a good interview today and she wants to get drinks tonight. Hoping she doesn't bring her roomie

More teasing
More sexual banter

go go go!
I wouldn't pay mind to her inviting her sweet mate, it could be for any variety of reasons and exploring those is pointless.

Go out, have fun and if the roomie shows up show him/her respect and just do your thing. If you're genuine enough its likely it'll be easier for her to agree to a solo thing some other time.
Author:  Freshbaked247 [ Wed Mar 02, 2016 11:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How Do I deal with a massive tease?
Yeah it's pretty much my mindset. I'm just kind of stoked that I've gotten myself to a point where i got this girl out.

Hot Latina- check
Head of one of the most popular sororities on campus- check
Has a hoard of guys that she ignores to go drinking with me- check
Doesn't seem to opposed at all with me getting physical with her except a k-close- check

A few months ago I was terrified of this and felt unworthy. Now I'm ignoring her calls. Pretty cool feeling.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Wed Mar 02, 2016 11:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How Do I deal with a massive tease?
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Yeah it's pretty much my mindset. I'm just kind of stoked that I've gotten myself to a point where i got this girl out.

Hot Latina- check
Head of one of the most popular sororities on campus- check
Has a hoard of guys that she ignores to go drinking with me- check
Doesn't seem to opposed at all with me getting physical with her except a k-close- check

A few months ago I was terrified of this and felt unworthy. Now I'm ignoring her calls. Pretty cool feeling.
Careful. You've already put her on a pedestal. She isn't a trophy, nor is any woman, especially seeing as there's nothing intrinsic about her that demonstrates she's of any value to you, apart from the prestige you've attached to all these labels (e.g. she's popular). You're setting yourself up for failure by doing so.
Author:  Freshbaked247 [ Wed Mar 02, 2016 11:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How Do I deal with a massive tease?
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Yeah it's pretty much my mindset. I'm just kind of stoked that I've gotten myself to a point where i got this girl out.

Hot Latina- check
Head of one of the most popular sororities on campus- check
Has a hoard of guys that she ignores to go drinking with me- check
Doesn't seem to opposed at all with me getting physical with her except a k-close- check

A few months ago I was terrified of this and felt unworthy. Now I'm ignoring her calls. Pretty cool feeling.
Careful. You've already put her on a pedestal. She isn't a trophy, nor is any woman, especially seeing as there's nothing intrinsic about her that demonstrates she's of any value to you, apart from the prestige you've attached to all these labels (e.g. she's popular). You're setting yourself up for failure by doing so.
You're right. I can't get myself thinkign that way. I think one thing that is keeping me from getting to that point holy shit she's so fucking annoying when she texts. Everything that can be said in one text she breaks up in like 5. She also seems to really really be worried about me not showing up/not being on time/not answering texts right away
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