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Author:  Clocks [ Sun Feb 14, 2016 12:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Possible to overcome the age difference (older women)?
I'm early 20s and like women in their 20s, 30s and somtimes early 40s. I dress up when I go out and because of my height/build a lot of women guess I'm actually late 20s and I've stopped correcting them on this. Some women don't have a problem with my age but then you get others who throw out obvious objections (so young, I'm old enough to be your mother (even if it isn't true)), etc. I get these even when I can tell the woman is otherwise interested (lots of touchy feeling, light kisses, etc).

I find that once a woman has thrown up the age objection I can never convince her not to care. I've seen online people suggest teasing her 'oh you're so old' but that doesn't work for me either. How do I bed these dirty cougars?
Author:  ColaGuy [ Sun Feb 14, 2016 2:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Possible to overcome the age difference (older women)?
My last relationship was with a woman 10years older than me and the age gap didn't make a huge difference. it was a concern of both of ours but we both quickly realised it just weren't an issue.

I think if you have your shit together.. an ok job.. your own place etc then that helps a lot. If you have no direction in your life and still live your parents and act like a teenager then older girls just won't be interested even if it is just a one night stand.
Author:  Cross De Lena [ Sun Feb 14, 2016 3:22 pm ]
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Why do you care about something irrelevant like random objections on your age? You're making a fuss out of nothing. And you are trying to convince them otherwise? Who are they who are supposed to be convinced?

You are placing yourself in a position of justification, simply stop caring of their opinions, they are saying it probably because they having not else to say to.
Author:  Tardfish [ Mon Feb 15, 2016 12:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Possible to overcome the age difference (older women)?
First of all it is not your problem to overcome, but theirs (you are ok with it, aren't you?)

Every element like this can be used by women as a shield or not... If real attraction, rapport, comfort are present she will gladly overlook those ideas... or she will use them against you if she is not interested.

From my experience if she throws out the age objection it is because it is a rational objection you have no way of dismantling... Like if you are not this tall you can't ride no matter what, go away. It is useless to discuss further: in her view you do not qualify because of something is not going to change.
If she liked you she would have thought of that, maybe she would have been a little concerned, but she would have tried to overcome it.
Author:  R.C [ Mon Feb 15, 2016 7:12 am ]
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I find that once a woman has thrown up the age objection I can never convince her not to care.
That's because you're trying to.
Author:  Karlb [ Mon Feb 15, 2016 6:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Possible to overcome the age difference (older women)?
If a woman says something like, "You're too young" or "I'm old enough to be your mother" respond with, "Do you like it when people judge you because of your age?"

She'll either respond "no" or she'll shut up about the age issue and you can proceed.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Feb 15, 2016 9:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Possible to overcome the age difference (older women)?
Whenever a woman bitches about age -up or down- and because I wasn't completely listening anyway, is;

"Men age like a fine wine, women on the other hand, tend to age more like milk."
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Feb 17, 2016 9:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Possible to overcome the age difference (older women)?
I feel like you've asked this before.

There are women that have hang ups about everything from age, height to race etc. they will look beyond it if they have a guy confident enough to lead them through it. A woman is going to care more about what you think of yourself than she is about what she thinks of you. This is why confidence dominates in social interactions. Assuming attraction is another confidence ploy that works just off the sheer virtue of others adopting your frame and vibe when its strong enough. Thats what leaders do. People adapt to them.

If your age bothers you, it will bother them, if your height bothers you it will bother them, if your race bothers you it will bother them. Everyone has a "first" time they've done something. Be confidant enough to be their first.
Author:  Clocks [ Tue Feb 23, 2016 9:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Possible to overcome the age difference (older women)?
Sorry for the lack of thanks / reply, I've had the flu (or something)

Good replies, thank you... I think I do spend too much time defending myself/justifying it. But assuming I show it doesn't bother me what do I do if they keep throwing this silly objection in my face? Because I will try not to make a big deal about it but it will just get brought up several times. Just ignore it?

I can give the 2 suggested responses a go (do you like when people judge you by your age / women age like milk)

Thanks again
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Feb 24, 2016 2:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Possible to overcome the age difference (older women)?
When a woman asks you to guess her age, it's like deciding whether to cut the blue, red, or green wire to diffuse a bomb.
Author:  Clocks [ Sun Feb 28, 2016 11:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Possible to overcome the age difference (older women)?
Just thought I'd post a little update

A woman I was chatting to yesterday gave me the 'too young' line again. I asked how old she was and started teasing her about her age (oh past your bedtime isn't it? did you get lost looking for bingo?) and no more was said about it! She told me some dirty things and asked me to call her

So yeah, not justfying/defending myself seemed to work this time

Thanks again
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sun Feb 28, 2016 5:05 pm ]
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Quote:
Just thought I'd post a little update

A woman I was chatting to yesterday gave me the 'too young' line again. I asked how old she was and started teasing her about her age (oh past your bedtime isn't it? did you get lost looking for bingo?) and no more was said about it! She told me some dirty things and asked me to call her

So yeah, not justfying/defending myself seemed to work this time

Thanks again

Atta boy :).

I love older women :twisted:
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Feb 29, 2016 2:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Possible to overcome the age difference (older women)?
Quote:
Just thought I'd post a little update

A woman I was chatting to yesterday gave me the 'too young' line again. I asked how old she was and started teasing her about her age (oh past your bedtime isn't it? did you get lost looking for bingo?) and no more was said about it! She told me some dirty things and asked me to call her

So yeah, not justfying/defending myself seemed to work this time

Thanks again
Volley for serve.
Author:  Tony075 [ Tue Mar 15, 2016 7:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Possible to overcome the age difference (older women)?
Hi dude,
As most people just said, I can definitely tell you that the most important thing in order to pick up an older woman is self confidence and acting like a mature young man, not acting or talking childish. As a matter of fact my mother became a cougar few years ago and I can guarantee you that all her partners are alpha males. Good luck though!
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