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| Author: | vissanik [ Tue Dec 29, 2015 3:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | On longterm boyfriend track, but want sex |
Long story short, met college girl through daygame 2 months ago, been on 2 dates. Farthest I've gotten is making out in my car. My momentum was killed by the holidays and her exams, so we haven't seen each other in about a month, but we ping each other via text every week or so. I made the early mistake of giving her signals that I wanted to be her BF (handholding, going on fun activity dates, etc). And she has told her family about me. Thing is, I leave at the end of next month due to a military deployment, which she is not aware of yet. This means I have 3 weekends or so to seal the deal. I want to do it in the most socially savvy way possible. I'm considering just straight inviting her over to my place to make dinner for our next date and try to pull the trigger then. We've already gone on all the getting to know you dates. Again, I have a logistics problem in that I live around 30 minutes from her. So I'm considering telling her I moved to the city and using a friend's place to set her compliance bar lower. Solid plan? Any input? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Dec 29, 2015 4:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: On longterm boyfriend track, but want sex |
Quote: Long story short, met college girl through daygame 2 months ago, been on 2 dates. Farthest I've gotten is making out in my car. My momentum was killed by the holidays and her exams, so we haven't seen each other in about a month, but we ping each other via text every week or so.
You got the same answers on your last thread...Airbnb remember?
I made the early mistake of giving her signals that I wanted to be her BF (handholding, going on fun activity dates, etc). And she has told her family about me. Thing is, I leave at the end of next month due to a military deployment, which she is not aware of yet. This means I have 3 weekends or so to seal the deal. I want to do it in the most socially savvy way possible. I'm considering just straight inviting her over to my place to make dinner for our next date and try to pull the trigger then. We've already gone on all the getting to know you dates. Again, I have a logistics problem in that I live around 30 minutes from her. So I'm considering telling her I moved to the city and using a friend's place to set her compliance bar lower. Solid plan? Any input? |
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| Author: | vissanik [ Tue Dec 29, 2015 4:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: On longterm boyfriend track, but want sex |
Yeah, I'm just trying to figure out if it matters as much given how invested this girl is already. I'm probably just going to ask her over, then if she complains about the distance (because I've told her before I live in the suburbs), tell her I've moved to the city. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Dec 29, 2015 7:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: On longterm boyfriend track, but want sex |
Women will go a lot farther out of there way than you think once they like you man. And i don't see why you have to tell any "lies" to get what you want. Just keep it all the way real with them. I used to make up lame ass excuses to get women to leave my apartment after sex, just so I didn't come across like a dick and hurt their feelings. And what I found out was, they're feelings are a lot less hurt when you're gently completely honest with them. They also respect you a lot more and are more willing to come across the next time you ask. Tell the truth. On a another note: you have got to learn to catch women and toss them back man. The guys that are trying to capitalize off of every Day 2 that they get can give off repelling vibes. You get some, you lose some, you catch some for food, and some get caught just for sport. Check this out: pua-lounge/topic190620.html |
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