Ive been having quite a few difficulties with picking up women and I need some advice, I've read his article
http://romancecompass.com/blog/you-and- ... -seducing/ and I think its right (in what its saying) but I don't know some one tell me please
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| Author: | James_Church [ Sun Nov 29, 2015 12:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What are your scariest/ most difficult situations to approac |
What are your scariest/ most difficult situations to approach a girl? My top 3: 1. Public transport: In particularly the Underground train (Subway) 2. The Cafeteria (Dining area) and Library on my University Campus 3. Opening girls in a groupset or "Dance-circle" on the dancefloor of high energy clubs without a wingman. Cheers guys, James |
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| Author: | J.Daniels [ Sun Nov 29, 2015 2:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your scariest/ most difficult situations to app |
Multiple girls in loud bars unless I've had a drink (I usually have) - I'm not really the jumpy hyper type, and I NEVER dance sober. I don't know why, I guess it's just because I don't enjoy it (I've been too shy to do it for my whole life, but now that I actually could force myself... I genuinely don't want to, until I'm drunk and I get a weird urge and become hyper). In this situation (not that it happens much, because I don't go out drinking much...) I'd usually force a couple of IOI's and then approach her when she's chilling. It's not the best way to do it though, you'll fuck your chance up 50% of the time and even if you don't, it's still always better to just do it instantly. Girls who are walking rapidly, especially more than one girl - every way to approach this feels creepy. Anywhere quiet where a lot of people can hear - I once opened a girl in the corner shop and it was quite busy, it didn't go bad but it didn't go great. She didn't give me her number anyway... I was embarrassed after lol - could feel people looking at me etc and I was quite new to it. Edit: Also girls at the gym. No girls are welcome to being approached there, they've all got their bitch shield on. Even if you have an amazing body (I don't) they just see it as cockiness in the gym. But believe it or not, asking for a girls help in the gym with a slight compliment is quite good. The gym is the kind of place where indirect still has its place. Much better to say "Excuse me, sorry to disturb your workout but I couldn't help but notice how good your squat form was... I feel like I could lift a lot more if I fixed my form, would you mind watching me do a couple of squats and giving me a few tips?" - it sounds like a pussy move, and I only did it once, but it's 500 x better than *flexes biceps* "Sup. Thought you were hot, had to come over and let you flirt with me" in a place where girls are expecting pervs to hit on them. PS. I'm no expert on gym game or anything, so if anybody reads this and realises things that I did insanely wrong, feel free to pm me. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sun Nov 29, 2015 4:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your scariest/ most difficult situations to app |
Today I was having lobster with my mother, the waitress was stunning and my mother commented that I keep staring at her. I then waved her over and said I had a complaint to tell her, I told her she was distracting me from my conversation because she was gorgeous, her eye's lit up and had a big smile and told me 'Maybe' to my invitation for a drink, I told her that i didn't want to get her into trouble with her boss and requested her full name so I could message her on Facebook. I found her, then noticed she had a bf on her FB, I don't know why she didn't mention it in the 1st place but I guess she didn't want to reject me in front of my mother. I've messaged her anyway incase her relationship could be on it's last thread but I am not holding my breathe. It felt pretty awkward in the moment but I feel good that I tried rather than go to bed at night pondering the 'What ifs' You live once guys, accept the awkwardness and you just never know which girl could be your soul mate (if you believe in that stuff) The more awkward the situation is, the more romantic it is for the girl if she likes you. If she doesn't like you then it turns into the most creepiest dynamic but why should one care about that? Pussy is everywhere and very obtainable if you put in the reps. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Mon Nov 30, 2015 1:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your scariest/ most difficult situations to app |
Father/Daughter is a big no-no for me. I'd put a shot gun barrel down some guys mouth if he hit on her the way I do in front of me. No sir. Not on my watch. Mother/daughter is easy. Usually the mother winds up liking me more than the daughter does. I've gotten pretty good at cold reading people so a girl with a guy doesn't really mean shit to me. 9/10 times I can tell if its her boyfriend. It really depends on the scenario but usually, it's not. Nothing is really "difficult" unless its physically difficult to get to the girl without looking as if you have 0 social intelligence. |
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| Author: | James_Church [ Thu Mar 17, 2016 12:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your scariest/ most difficult situations to app |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Mar 17, 2016 4:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your scariest/ most difficult situations to app |
Pushing a stroller. Riding the 'special' bus. Amputees. Wearing the 'wedding' dress. Family Reunions. During medical procedures. |
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| Author: | nickivanov [ Thu Mar 17, 2016 7:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your scariest/ most difficult situations to app |
Ive been having quite a few difficulties with picking up women and I need some advice, I've read his article http://romancecompass.com/blog/you-and- ... -seducing/ and I think its right (in what its saying) but I don't know some one tell me please
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Mar 17, 2016 7:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your scariest/ most difficult situations to app |
Quote: I think its right (in what its saying) but I don't know some one tell me please
No, it's complete bullshit.
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| Author: | Don Horneone [ Thu Mar 17, 2016 7:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your scariest/ most difficult situations to app |
Quote: During medical procedures.
I dunno, I find girls a lot more open in that situation
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| Author: | J.Daniels [ Sat Mar 19, 2016 12:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your scariest/ most difficult situations to app |
Quote: Quote: During medical procedures.
I dunno, I find girls a lot more open in that situation |
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| Author: | chrisnos [ Mon Mar 28, 2016 5:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your scariest/ most difficult situations to app |
Unless a woman has a knife or a gun what is there in the entire world to worry about? what she going to do? I don't get it. |
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| Author: | GKS [ Wed Mar 30, 2016 4:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your scariest/ most difficult situations to app |
1. Father and daughter set. Doesn't matter how nicely and genuine my approach was. It usually ended with the guy staring me down. Only one successful attempt. I was lost and the father was in the middle of something so he sent his daughter to take me to the nearest bus stop. He was super nice. 2. With my parents. I could never game in fronts of them. It just feels so awkward for me. 3. Rave/Concert. I hate gaming here. Mostly because I like to screen the girls before hand for red flags. And with loud music in the background. You can't do much. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Mar 30, 2016 11:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your scariest/ most difficult situations to app |
With the exception of number three... I've found that more difficult the situation the higher the rate for success. The bolder you have to be to make the approach, the less likely you'll be met with rejection. |
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| Author: | Reaver4k [ Thu Mar 31, 2016 3:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your scariest/ most difficult situations to app |
I find bars to be a hard place to approach, mainly because of the loud music, and most of the women there are in groups and you have to deal with cock block situations. Also the ones around where I live are hit or miss for attractive women. Another hard one, is beach game, which I have not really tried. but it seems semi difficult, but I plan on trying it this summer. |
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