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Tl;dr What does it mean if girls pretend they didn't hear what you said?
Common sense? What do you think it means? 
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| Author: | stundent2 [ Mon Nov 02, 2015 4:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girls not listening to me |
I was at the bar few days ago talking to girls in a company. I was very relaxed, got IOI's quite quickly. What I noticed was that girls sometimes wouldn't respond after I say something. I asked some bold teasing questions (for example 'Why aren't you dancing? You promised before.' (she said as a joke previously that I will be singing and she will be dancing)) to which she just smiled (or faked, hard to tell), held eye contact for a second and looked down with a weird look, pretending she didn't hear what I said. Something like that happened a few times. Also sometimes when I told jokes (maybe they weren't funny) they would hold eye contact with me for a sec and look away with weird serious glances, pretending they didn't hear what I said. Nevertheless I still received IOI's (they were touching me, buying drinks, initiating conversations etc) and managed to take them home. Tl;dr What does it mean if girls pretend they didn't hear what you said? |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Nov 02, 2015 5:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not listening to me |
Quote: Tl;dr What does it mean if girls pretend they didn't hear what you said?
Common sense? What do you think it means?
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| Author: | Dragula [ Mon Nov 02, 2015 5:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not listening to me |
It's an IOI, it means you should lunge in and make out with her straight away... |
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| Author: | stundent2 [ Mon Nov 02, 2015 7:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not listening to me |
Quote: Quote: Tl;dr What does it mean if girls pretend they didn't hear what you said?
Common sense? What do you think it means? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Mon Nov 02, 2015 7:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not listening to me |
What's the problem then? |
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| Author: | GenesisPUA [ Mon Nov 02, 2015 7:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not listening to me |
Quote: Quote: Quote: Tl;dr What does it mean if girls pretend they didn't hear what you said?
Common sense? What do you think it means? |
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| Author: | DW-Heart-Charmer [ Tue Nov 03, 2015 1:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not listening to me |
Quote: I said something stupid? But how the hell did I manage to bring them home if that's the case? If you brought them home then why would you be posting here? What are you trying to prove. Quote: (for example 'Why aren't you dancing? You promised before.' Yes this is an example of saying something stupid. If you come here for advise at least don't bullshit us. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Nov 03, 2015 7:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not listening to me |
Why aren't blueberries blue? |
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| Author: | stundent2 [ Tue Nov 03, 2015 9:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not listening to me |
Quote: Quote: I said something stupid? But how the hell did I manage to bring them home if that's the case? If you brought them home then why would you be posting here? What are you trying to prove. Quote: (for example 'Why aren't you dancing? You promised before.' Yes this is an example of saying something stupid. If you come here for advise at least don't bullshit us. Why is that stupid? I was teasing her. What I should have said instead? Also we were talking about politics and she said she isn't happy about corrupt government. I said 'You need to make protests!' to which I received the same response as before. Whenever I teased her I said it with a loud, commanding tone, like I was angry that she isn't doing what I said. I don't bullshit. I took her home but didn't close because I had friends at home which I didn't expect so there was no room to f. I forgot to mention before, I think I managed to take her home only because of my looks (although I want to know if that's the only possible scenario). I don't know if you will believe me, but I get IOI's from many girls, even when I haven't said anything or communicated with them in any way. I believe I fucked up when I was talking to her but she forgave my AFC'ness. I hope I don't sound arrogant. I'm writing here because I have communication problems, I find it hard to relate to people and trouble to create flowing conversation. I try to compensate for this by talking confidently and teasing them, but that's the only thing I'm capable of. I thought previously that this can work but obviously I sounded weird and stupid. Maybe someone can relate to this problem? Nevermind about two girls I wrote yesterday, I was stoned when wrote this. Yes there were 2 girls but I'm concentrating only on one of them. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Nov 03, 2015 10:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not listening to me |
Quote: I'm writing here because I have communication problems,
+1
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| Author: | DW-Heart-Charmer [ Wed Nov 04, 2015 1:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not listening to me |
Quote: Why is that stupid? I was teasing her.
Quote: Also we were talking about politics and she said she isn't happy about corrupt government. I said 'You need to make protests!' Shit like this and your early example are poorly calibrated attempts at flirting. A guy who hasn't banged a girl in a while would often say stuff like this. Not one that just got done getting sucked off by a girl in the bathroom. Make sense?
Quote: I don't bullshit. I took her home but didn't close because I had friends at home which I didn't expect so there was no room to f. You could bullshit and brag about "taking a girl home." Doesn't mean a damn thing because obviously you couldn't close her, likely your excuse for was poor circumstances because you knew it wasn't going to happen or didn't believe you could. Not to be mean, but again let's get past the bullshit so we can grow.
Quote: I'm writing here because I have communication problems, I find it hard to relate to people and trouble to create flowing conversation. Glad you're here. Keep an open mind with humbleness and likely you are to grow tremendously by being part of the community. 
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Wed Nov 04, 2015 1:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not listening to me |
Nonverbal communication. You communicate something verbal, then girls reply nonverbally. You should reciprocate those nonverbal replies with something nonverbal too. There's absolutely no need to reply verbally to a nonverbal communication. The girls wanted you to escalate. You didn't because you wanted a verbal reply. The girls are nonverbally saying, "Come nearer and push my buttons at the right places." No decent girl in her right mind will verbally communicate that. Next time, when you get those nonverbal replies again, close the distance some more and escalate! Actually, it WAS you who has not been listening to what these girls are saying; NOT the other way around. |
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