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Author:  Lonious [ Mon Nov 02, 2015 2:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Advice on Korean classmate

Hello, all.

I am a college student, and there's this Korean girl that I think is kind of attractive. I would want to develop more rapport with her.

The thing is that she is my classmate a few days a week, so I kind of see her all the time (not talk to her, or even say hi to her), and I'm a bit frustrated that I can't seem to be able to establish much rapport with her.

Our college actually has a good number of Korean students, and the things is that they kind of stick to each other. Not many of our kind talk to them that much. Maybe our kind is too shy to try to get them to open up to us. Or maybe they feel the same way towards us. For what reason, I don't know. And I find it kind of annoying because then I can't establish any mutual friends with the girl (since hardly any of us speak to that girl and even her Korean friends whom she's always with).

Because of this, I'm kind of apprehensive sometimes to approach her or her group, since I'm nervous my friends or other classmates may see me do it and tease me about it, which I don't want to happen.

Interestingly, I am not the only guy who finds her attractive. Apparently, I know at least two other guys who find her attractive. However, they almost never approach her.

And there's also something about her. I don't know if she might be interested in me, but there were times when she may have been. I don't know if it's just me trying to believe that she is interested in me just because I am interested in her appearance. Maybe it's true, maybe it's not. For instance, there were a few times when I think I saw her looking at me. I don't know if this is an IOI or it's just me trying desperately to hope that it is.

So, what is your advice?

Thank you.
Lonious

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Nov 02, 2015 3:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on Korean classmate

Honestly - it's tough love... but my advice is grow a pair...

You're worried about getting teased? Really? Get over it, man... Just isolate her if that's a concern.

Introduce yourself, flirt a bit... If she's not an idiot and you're getting good feedback, then you get her number. Simple. This is a straight-up approach, no special circumstances or anything...

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