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Author:  Lonious [ Mon Nov 02, 2015 1:31 am ]
Post subject:  What to do when these things happen?
Good day to you!

I want to ask for your advice regarding certain situations where I start feeling a bit pissed off inside, lol.

One situation was when during my high school prom. The girl I was with hugged another guy in front of me (he appeared to be her "childhood friend").

Of course, grrr. Wtf.

I can't think of any other specific kind of situation, but it's those situations where I feel my confidence sap out of me and get replaced by jealousy or some kind of bitter annoyance, like when the girl stops talking to me and starts talking to someone else, etc. etc.

I just get really irritated about it.

But of course, I don't think I show it.

What would be your advice on this?

Thanks.
Lonious
Author:  Style981 [ Mon Nov 02, 2015 11:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What to do when these things happen?
1. You are probably "Insecure" from inside. Work on your Inner Game.

2. A good way I've seen is to be friendly to the guy instead, rather than getting 'annoyed' from the inside. This builds your social value even more.

Sometimes a girl wants to be 'rescued'. If lets say her childhood friend comes she can't say "Oh I'm talking to this really cool guy..So fuck off.." lol. That would be very rude of her to say that. When you engage the guy as well, you sort of become a part of it (so you won't feel like she stopped talking to me). And then you can isolate the girl by saying something like "Lets go there...." while saying "Nice to meet you" to the 'nice guy friend'. :)

Hope that helps.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Nov 02, 2015 1:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to do when these things happen?
Quote:
The girl I was with hugged another guy in front of me (he appeared to be her "childhood friend").
You can't be serious...

This bothered you? You're going to need to get used to this sort of harmless shit. Later in life it'll be exes texting, calling, meeting up, her seeing and meeting guys she used to fuck in front of you (if you get serious with her)... etc.

You're going to need a much thicker skin than the one you have.

Remember that you're the one on the date with her...
Author:  adaptordie [ Wed Nov 04, 2015 2:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What to do when these things happen?
yea sorry loniuous but its very bad character on yourself to worry about those things. her hugging a longterm friend should not even be close to registering on the anger scale?

now if she was going up to and making obvious IOI like whispering in their ears, or doing a sensual like hug, that yea that sucks. but the alpha will not be phased, he will say, OK screw this dumb girl il go find another girl to do that with too"….to sit there and be bitter about it and jealous just SCREAMS AFC.

i think you have more to learn about life that goes beyond just interactions with girls.
Author:  R.C [ Wed Nov 04, 2015 8:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What to do when these things happen?
I think you need some conditioning towards the dating world. She hugged a guy. She didn't suck his dick. So why are you acting as if she did?
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