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| Author: | cain25 [ Tue Mar 25, 2008 12:42 pm ] |
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I have a problem with opinion openers. I live in europe, Lithuania, where it is considered really weird and inappropriate to just start talking to strangers asking them their opinion on something. If the is a mixed group of people, opening guys, so then you could get to the girls (like you advise) would most likely result in them staring at you like "what the fuck do you want?" In our country people are not very friendly and the is strong attitude towards gay looking behavior. And opening guys is considered as something weird and gay. I have read Magic Bullets and in there it is actually mentioned that in is better to use more direct openers in continental Europe, so i want to hear your opinion on this. Also how to open mixed sets if i cant talk to the guys first. |
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| Author: | Roads [ Tue Mar 25, 2008 3:23 pm ] |
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I would say go with the flow. Adapt your game to the culture. A good PUA can blend into a set with ease, almost as if he'd known the people in the set for a long time. So if your mannerisms are familiar to the set, even if you start out with disinterest or breaking rapport you will be much more likely to be accepted in a short amount of time. |
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| Author: | cain25 [ Tue Mar 25, 2008 7:14 pm ] |
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thanks man. but still can i get good results with direct or situational openers, considering the cultural thing? Moreover im as tall a mystery but really muscular. I think that when i guy my size comes and uses opinion opener it looks very unnatural, at least if feels that way |
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