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Author:  Sincord [ Sat Oct 24, 2015 7:40 pm ]
Post subject:  I can't make a move on girl i actually like
I have really, Really, REALLY big problem.

I've been approaching, hooking up and fucking random girls I don't actually care about for some time now to get better at this game. And I improve. A lot. At least I think I am.

And then..

I met some girl trough social circle 2 weeks ago. Cute, hot, crazy(in good way). My type in all ways. We hang out 3-4 times, usually with friends. We vibe great. So great that every time we end up alone in our own shit, far away from others. But I get frozen. Fucking frozen. Can't make a fucking move even i know she want me to make. Such shitty feeling. So shitty feeling when you knocking nails in a your own friend-zone coffin. It drives me crazy. A lot, when i know what i must do, and I can't do it.

But i must. And i will. I'll call her out to do something I know she will want to do. And make my last stand. Get my shit done. If i somehow froze again, but I'll do everything not to, I'll just fuck off with all that, and never call her again. I won't knock the last nail in a friend-zone coffin. It would kill me inside, slowly and painfully. So I will end this shit, once for all.

If someone want to say something about this, say. I just needed to get this out of my system somewhere. Just don't allow your self to get in my position.

I know this will be my first and last time.

Cheers,
Sincord.
Author:  GenesisPUA [ Sat Oct 24, 2015 10:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't make a move on girl i actually like
You seem to know the answer to your question so why are you not being a man and making a move? I think it is better to meet LMR than to not make any move at all...Duh
Author:  Sincord [ Sun Oct 25, 2015 8:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't make a move on girl i actually like
Because I had stop not to give a fuck. I had lost my guts to follow my instinct. Whole game change when meet a girl you start to like, everything became a shit-ton harder. I felt like I'm on start of my journey again.

But, like I said, I will end this. I've set the date, no friends, no shits, just two of us. And I will make a move, even if I experience the harshest rejection in my life. I don't really care anymore, I just want to end it, one way or another.

Cheers.
Author:  Sincord [ Wed Oct 28, 2015 3:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't make a move on girl i actually like
I've been with her, and it is done. I fucked up. But not today. I've done everything smooth today, and got resistance. Because I fucked up days before. Because I hadn't done my shit on time. She want to just be friends now. Hell no. Bye, bye. I'm done with her, and it feels great.

I won't make the same mistake again. Next girl, lets roll.

Cheers.
Author:  GenesisPUA [ Wed Oct 28, 2015 4:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't make a move on girl i actually like
It's all about abundance bro. Good luck!
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Oct 28, 2015 6:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't make a move on girl i actually like
You can hook up with random girls on nights out but not from your social circle?

So that means you probably rely too much on the alcohol because when it comes to making a move sober on a girl in your circle, there is more pressure on you and the harder it is because at least when you're drunk with strangers, you don't care too much about looking like a fool.

Approach the random girls sober on nights out sober to practise your escalation, so when it comes to making a move in your social circle, you will have a competent escalation skills to take care of business.
Author:  oceanx [ Thu Oct 29, 2015 5:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't make a move on girl i actually like
OP you learned a valuable lesson: Most of the time, once the frame is set it is SET.
Author:  Sincord [ Thu Oct 29, 2015 2:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't make a move on girl i actually like
Quote:
You can hook up with random girls on nights out but not from your social circle?

So that means you probably rely too much on the alcohol because when it comes to making a move sober on a girl in your circle, there is more pressure on you and the harder it is because at least when you're drunk with strangers, you don't care too much about looking like a fool.
Well, thing is that i don't drink. But you nailed one part. I don't care too much about looking like a fool with strangers, which is not quite the case with social circle. Thanks for the tips though.
Author:  adam369 [ Sat Oct 31, 2015 9:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't make a move on girl i actually like
i had the same problem about 1 week ago, we know each other very well but when it comes to move then i was freezed and when i finally moved she rejected me and she started crying then .. i do not know the real reason for that but now we are friends , very good friends :) and i know that with her i miss the chance to escalate quickly.. :) it is very important to go faster.. :)
Author:  oceanx [ Sat Oct 31, 2015 9:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't make a move on girl i actually like
Quote:
it is very important to go faster..
True point, obviously in a socially acceptable manner. The SAME GIRL who is rejecting the slow unfocused advances of Guy A is excitedly joining the frame of Guy B who knows what he wants.
Author:  Sincord [ Mon Nov 02, 2015 11:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't make a move on girl i actually like
Small update:

Since I've putt her on total ignore, she tried to contact me few times, but I played total hardball. She even invited me for halloween party, but I was in another town, at some crazy event. I think I would not meet her even if i was in town.

I don't know what kind of game she is playing now, and I'm going to be total hardball, until I get what i want.

PS: Can't wait my pictures with all the slutty "Harley Quinn" costumed chicks :D
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