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Author:  Onoma [ Sat Oct 24, 2015 7:04 am ]
Post subject:  She thinks we made plans?
Girl I've "liked" for a while, been hesitant to move on because I wanted to improve my game first rather than get stuck on a relationship. I figured at this point she'd either friend zoned me or at least decided I wasn't interested. Plus, due to work options she's either leaving for a few months or a full year...

Anyway, tonight she texts me asking if we're going to see Rocky Horror when she comes back from training. At first I thought it was a group text and replied that I wasn't sure since I'd never gone before, then I realized it wasn't a group text and replied again asking if she meant to text only me. Turns out she had.

A few texts later, after I said let's do it, she texts "wanted to make sure we were still doing it."

Now, she did invite me to her "going away party" before she left for training but I don't remember discussing this... she actually spent most of her time talking to a mutual friend who, honestly, I wouldn't be surprised if they had a thing going on. (He has a g/f but she keeps hinting that they aren't exclusive and these two are super touchy feely. Which, whatever because I like this girl and if there is an open relationship well, the other chick is super hot so fair is fair.)

But tonight she texts me, thinking we had made plans...

So do I point out that I don't remember us making plans? Kinda seems silly right...?
Author:  Dragula [ Sat Oct 24, 2015 9:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She thinks we made plans?
You totally skipped the story of how you you met this girl and have "something"

I don't even want to give you a detailed answer. You're so wet behind the ears around this, that I think you should just go and think of it as an oppurtunity and a great reference experience if best case scenario doesn't happen.

At the beginner stages, I recommend just getting involved with stuff like this that involves women. It's essential. I remember when I 1st started, this girl tricked me.

Her - wanna hangout?
(2 seconds later)
Me - sure!
Her - movie?
Me - sure!

We meet thinking I'm gonna watch a DVD and fuck. Then she suggests we go to the cinema. Of course, I pay and watch the 2nd movie of twilight without even seeing the 1st one. I learned a lot about that beauty can manipulate you to paying for crap. I've been wary since.

I'm not saying the same is gonna happen to you. But just go and find out. See what's what. Could be good, could be bad. But something learn from
Author:  Onoma [ Sat Oct 24, 2015 6:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She thinks we made plans?
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You totally skipped the story of how you you met this girl and have "something"
I was trying to keep it brief... it's been a year since we met and there's been some positive and negative signs. It'd be a long story if I told you everything. :) The short version is I've been just trying to let things develop naturally while I "focus on game" and all the other shit in my life (work, starting a business, and now acting classes.)
Quote:
I don't even want to give you a detailed answer. You're so wet behind the ears around this, that I think you should just go and think of it as an oppurtunity and a great reference experience if best case scenario doesn't happen.
Oh I'm definitely going, I was just drunk last night and unsure of what I should reply with. It's weird to me that she thinks she made plans with me a month ago.

EDIT: Thinking maybe that wasn't entirely clear either: The question isn't whether or not I should go, I'm definitely going and want to try and move things forward with this girl. The question is: Do I point out that we never actually made plans (until last night?)
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