Be congruent
Understand that women won’t make you happy. A relationship won’t make you happy and having 6 different fuck buddies won’t make you happy. You can’t drink you problems away and you sure as hell can’t fuck them away either.
Every man has 3 main aspects to his life. Career, social life, dating life. Work on all of them, not just one. Self-improve. We live in a society where people are socially conditioned to be ordinary, to not take chances and to play it safe. Fuck that. Quit your job if it’s shit and start doing what you love. Meet people and form great friendships. Talk to that attractive woman regardless of the fact that you’re wearing your gym equipment. I know it’s easier said than done, but a life of mediocrity is a big price to pay. No one on their death bed will ever say: "I wish I did less of what I loved."

If you want to be an attractive man you have to live an attractive life. And fortunately, that’s entirely up to you. The more confident you become in who you are, the more rewarding your relationships with the people around you will be. Men and women. Happiness is something you build on your own and then chose who you want to share it with. It’s not something you leech off of whoever gives you the time of day.

Approaching 20 specimens a week?

Man, if you have that kind of approach to girls then you need a lot of work. Pick Up is not some kind of laboratory experiments you do. If it was written with tongue-in-cheek then it's not about approaching certain numbers. You can approach 1k girls and still suck ass. It's not the number of approaches, it's the quality of them. You need to learn every time you approach, write down what was good, what was bad and then try to correct those mistakes the next night you are out.

I like to compare pick up to the gym. Noobs will be waiting/procrastinating for the perfect time, they will study the crap out of lifting techniques and then start reading up on the perfect diet plan etc beFore even lifting a weight or setting foot in a gym. Where as I think it's solid advice to tell these people "to just get in the gym and then improve the quality as you go along."

Same goes for 20 approaches advice. I think too many people read too many pickup theories. Studying threesome game when they haven't even approached a girl yet. I have mentioned...you're probably wasting your time if you're not approaching 20+ girls a week in the 1st stages. THEN improve the quality as you go along. Majority people who discover this community never handle the whole approaching part.

So I hope people are not misinterpreting that approaching 20 girls a week is for some spreadsheet data. That's not what it is at all. It's about jumping in the end deep end taking action. This is just building up the reflex muscle to approach girls impulsively. This is realistic. This is good advice.

You do know you have a sig link that says "How to get any girl?" - how is that realistic to you? How do you expect anybody to take you seriously with bold statements like that? Can you honestly 100% guarantee, if I read your ebook and receive your email sequence, that I will be able to seduce Nicole Scherzinger????