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| Author: | jacob palmer [ Sun Oct 18, 2015 7:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Calling out bad behaviour? |
If a girl acts rudely or treats you disrespectfully, is it ok to call out her bullshit and bad behaviour and point it out? I am not talking about common shit tests or trivial things like replying a day late etc.. But more generally things that are just considered rude or manipulative in society. |
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| Author: | thequietlife [ Sun Oct 18, 2015 9:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Calling out bad behaviour? |
It depends on many factors. 1.Be careful not to lose your temper if/when you do. Getting angry in my own experience shows a lot of investment in your part, which isn't a great thing,so play it cool if you do. 2.ask yourself is it worth it, is she interested in the first place(not saying she's not) by this i also mean are you reading the social situation correctly |
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| Author: | jacob palmer [ Sun Oct 18, 2015 9:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Calling out bad behaviour? |
Quote: It depends on many factors.
The way I have/would do it is to kind of take the approach that it is advice and I am doing it to help her rather than doing it for myself.
1.Be careful not to lose your temper if/when you do. Getting angry in my own experience shows a lot of investment in your part, which isn't a great thing,so play it cool if you do. 2.ask yourself is it worth it, is she interested in the first place(not saying she's not) by this i also mean are you reading the social situation correctly |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Oct 19, 2015 7:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Calling out bad behaviour? |
This is way too general of a question. You need to be more specific. |
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| Author: | thequietlife [ Mon Oct 19, 2015 8:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Calling out bad behaviour? |
i didn't understand the last reply |
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| Author: | thequietlife [ Mon Oct 19, 2015 10:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Calling out bad behaviour? |
I want to address a few points in this post. MY ADVICE: Mainly for newbie’s….. In its essence game is presenting yourself well, through dressing and good social communication skills. I just wanted to repeat this, because I feel just like the fitness industry there’s a lot of people trying to sell you bull shit. Also Buying into crappy gimmicks and routines, my understanding of game is simply to better ones social skills, with young, old, black, white, males and FEMALE. That to me is game. You don’t run out of ways to put your socks and underwear on, that’s how natural game should be to you. Use material as the stabilisers like you would on a bike, then get rid of them and use your own style. I once read something in a rock magazine about being a good and creative musician, which I believe you can apply to life, more specifically game. “learn as much theory as you can, then throw it all away” BACKGROUND INFO: not saying this because of your comment majikal, but genuinely think that’s one of the best replies I’ve had in a while, felt like you actually understood and had been through something similar, your advice is top notch. My jobs cool, I’m in relatively good shape, I don’t think I’m ugly(not saying I’m the best) my dress sense is good, my cars good, my phones good, my friends are cool. That side of my life I really can’t complain, that’s why it frustrates me why I can’t get this bit down. (I think it’s the social side that’s affecting my life right now, through pick up and work) My lack of closeness is a general thing I experience which I think affects the girl side, by lack of closeness I don’t mean I don’t like people I mean it feels as though people don’t dislike me but, they don’t dislike me. E.g. started a new job, the guys were quite welcoming, however the girls were quite stand offish, one gets on with me better now, but the other one is still so difficult to talk to. A guy that started the same time with, they bond with a lot better, same with a guy that’s been literally there a month. Now I don’t think she’d say she didn’t like me, but her actions say she just doesn’t dig me that much. Hopeful with this second example it will make it clearer. My friends, I just feel at the bottom of the pile, they’ll invite me to birthdays and out and stuff, but I feel like guy that gets picked last in the sports team, no matter how I try to interact and stuff. That’s actually the best way to put it. I feel like girls just have me about for attention, but I feel like it must be something I’m doing because I keep getting the same result and similar vibes off different girls. (Could be my fap addiction)Which leads to frustration so when a girl is interested, I will completely blow her off and like even leveller type thing or worse go super quiet? |
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Mon Oct 19, 2015 11:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Calling out bad behaviour? |
Calling out disrespectful behavior is essential. Just don''t shout, turn red, or use exclamation points. "My time is valuable", etc. |
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