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Author:  NaturalNY [ Mon Oct 12, 2015 5:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Girl randomly texted me

A while back, I ran game on a girl at her store and texted her. Check my previous posts to see which one. She texted me back, got cold and I asked if I could call to her to ger her opinion on something. She said "no". I said, "Np. Another time" And forgot about her. She randomly texts me today with "What did u need my opinion on" Interesting!

I remember Ocean and RC really gave a lot of great input on this. Though I have other girls I'm gaming, it's interesting on what to do in a situation like this. I have my own ideas but what would you guys say?

Author:  Dragula [ Mon Oct 12, 2015 5:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl randomly texted me

Send this text to any girl you're texting:

you - That's my 2nd fav thing about you ;)
her - whats the 1st?!
you- I can't tell because you will stop doing it once you know
her- tell me!

(Then don't tell her)

Intrigue can drive them crazy, especially when you don't give in. However, it is very transparent and doesn't make a girl want to jump on your dick. She just wants closure on an open ended statement. kinda similar to this report.

Author:  NaturalNY [ Mon Oct 12, 2015 9:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl randomly texted me

Quote:
Send this text to any girl you're texting:

you - That's my 2nd fav thing about you ;)
her - whats the 1st?!
you- I can't tell because you will stop doing it once you know
her- tell me!

(Then don't tell her)

Intrigue can drive them crazy, especially when you don't give in. However, it is very transparent and doesn't make a girl want to jump on your dick. She just wants closure on an open ended statement. kinda similar to this report.
Drag, thanks for your response, bro! However, I don't think think it applies to this girl, previously she gave me one word texts. Check the previous convo

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Oct 13, 2015 1:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl randomly texted me

Quote:
Quote:
Send this text to any girl you're texting:

you - That's my 2nd fav thing about you ;)
her - whats the 1st?!
you- I can't tell because you will stop doing it once you know
her- tell me!

(Then don't tell her)

Intrigue can drive them crazy, especially when you don't give in. However, it is very transparent and doesn't make a girl want to jump on your dick. She just wants closure on an open ended statement. kinda similar to this report.
Drag, thanks for your response, bro! However, I don't think think it applies to this girl, previously she gave me one word texts. Check the previous convo
You'd probably get a lot more responses if you posted it for convenience rather than ask everyone to go searching for it in your old posts.

Nobody's gonna do that, dude.

Author:  NaturalNY [ Tue Oct 13, 2015 6:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl randomly texted me

Here it is!

"Me: Is this the # for the girl who is looking for a fortune telling? - The Natural.
Her: Yea it is lol
Me: I see something interesting in your future! .
Her: Yea 
Me: You've been a pretty good girl, but, wow, you also been bad, woah, very very bad... ha
Her: Ok
Me: I'd like your opinion on something are you free for a 5 min chat
Her: No
Me: Np. Another time."

I basically forget about her. She now sends me a new text.
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Her: "What did you need my opinion on"
New text^ I haven't responded since 1 day.

Author:  Dragula [ Tue Oct 13, 2015 6:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl randomly texted me

You really think she wants to meet you because she used more then one word?

Author:  R.C [ Tue Oct 13, 2015 7:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl randomly texted me

Text her sparingly, build some attraction, ask her out.

Nothing really special here imo. She was probably going through her phone, saw the conversation and just got curious. Don't hold your breath.

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Oct 13, 2015 3:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl randomly texted me

I personally don't see why you would ever respond. When you drop a girl, completely drop her. It will do wonders for your self esteem in the long run.

Small sacrifices are necessary to win the war.

If you haven't read this, go read it: pua-lounge/topic190620.html

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Oct 13, 2015 4:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl randomly texted me

These are all one word replies.

This is not interest on her part...

Author:  NaturalNY [ Tue Oct 13, 2015 5:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl randomly texted me

I should really make it clear that it's not about getting the girl, I don't care about her as much as I enjoy developing my game. Which is very close to Eddie's answer. I may very well go with yours. I've always had a hunch it was something to do.

Drag, no. In short, in person, she was massively attracted to me, like she had a hot flash and almost got in trouble from work to talk to me. It was on. However, I'm experimenting with new texting ideas and am OK with losing girls. It's evident of a change of mind, or persona shift.

RC. I agree 100%. If I WERE to reply I may say "We should hang out and talk about it." However, that's my way. If you were to send her a text, what would you do? I'm all about learning other people's way of game.

Thank you all for being so kind and sincerely joining in on this interesting topic.

Author:  ChocolatePUA [ Wed Oct 14, 2015 1:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl randomly texted me

Quote:
Here it is!

"Me: Is this the # for the girl who is looking for a fortune telling? - The Natural.
Her: Yea it is lol
Me: I see something interesting in your future! .
Her: Yea 
Me: You've been a pretty good girl, but, wow, you also been bad, woah, very very bad... ha
Her: Ok
Me: I'd like your opinion on something are you free for a 5 min chat
Her: No
Me: Np. Another time."

I basically forget about her. She now sends me a new text.
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Her: "What did you need my opinion on"
New text^ I haven't responded since 1 day.
This text sounds very gimmicky and over invested. You were trying too hard to run a routine that she had very little interest in at that moment. She may have been interested before but it's clear that the attraction had waned.

I'm guess you had ONE SHORT conversation with her prior before texting her. Probably less than 5 minutes. You simply didn't build up enough of a connection for her to be willing to sustain any future interaction.

You will have LOTS of girls who will SEEM interested on opening, but if you only spend a few minutes with them, unless they are super attracted, that interest will fizzle out within a few minutes and she'll get on with the rest of her life.

Also, I'll rarely ever ASK to call a girl. I'll either call her or I won't. Don't ask her permission to call.

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