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| Author: | Xeno1029 [ Mon Oct 12, 2015 6:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help with a girl, thanks (newbie) |
Okay, so me and this girl have been talking on social media for quite some time. We both really liked each other, but for some reason. She just lost feelings for me. We don't really see each other much in person, is that a problem? Thanks again for any help and advice 
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Oct 12, 2015 6:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with a girl, thanks (newbie) |
So just talking with someone, rarely seeing them and by the sound of it having little to no physical intimacy? Yeah, that's a problem. |
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| Author: | Xeno1029 [ Mon Oct 12, 2015 8:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with a girl, thanks (newbie) |
Well we do see each, but yeah. Not a lot of physical contact with one an other... |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Oct 12, 2015 8:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with a girl, thanks (newbie) |
What's the point of seeing each other then? Why is there no contact? |
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| Author: | Xeno1029 [ Mon Oct 12, 2015 8:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with a girl, thanks (newbie) |
Well she talks to me virtually 24/7 I don't remember the last time I initiated a conversation with her, so that obviously means something. And she insta-replies when I reply |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Mon Oct 12, 2015 8:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with a girl, thanks (newbie) |
Everybody has interactions with these Facebook gremlins Get physical next time you meet. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Oct 12, 2015 8:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with a girl, thanks (newbie) |
It means she likes the attention. Or she thinks you're the brother she never had. Or her gay best friend. Or the nice guy that listens to her problems. I could keep going but you see the point. Ooooor, she wants you deep inside of her. And if that's the case she's doing absurd amounts of work because you refuse to take action. I'm not sure what your question is. You ask if it's a problem, but a problem to what? by the sound of it you're just friends. |
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| Author: | Xeno1029 [ Mon Oct 12, 2015 10:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with a girl, thanks (newbie) |
Okay thanks for the feedback. Based off of what you said, it makes sense. But with that bong the case, got any tips on how to get out of the friendzone? |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Oct 12, 2015 10:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with a girl, thanks (newbie) |
Yeah. Meet someone new. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Oct 12, 2015 5:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with a girl, thanks (newbie) |
You put yourself in your current position by not taking action and going after what you wanted. You need to escalate when you're together. It's been so long with this girl I would think there's a decent chance she sees you as her gay shopping buddy, honestly. I'd take the other advice here and meet someone else (and escalate this time. Don't waste months or years chit chatting to her). If you don't care about maintaining a friendship with this girl - then ask her to grab a drink - and escalate. See how it goes. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Mon Oct 12, 2015 8:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with a girl, thanks (newbie) |
I'm going to use another car salesman analogy because they make sense. As a car salesman, you have an income based on whether or not you sell a car. You earn an average commission of about $300/car (industry average last time I checked) In order to make a decent living for yourself, how many cars do you need to sell every month? Is focusing all of your time and energy into one deal really the most efficient way to make a living? No. You need to work on multiple deals at a time and close several of them. You're not going to retire on one deal. You're probably not going to marry this girl and be happy. Go meet more girls. |
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| Author: | Xeno1029 [ Tue Oct 13, 2015 3:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with a girl, thanks (newbie) |
Alright, cheers for all the help guys. I'm just gonna forget about her |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Oct 13, 2015 3:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with a girl, thanks (newbie) |
Uh yeah.. She ran into someone that she actually can see in person. How long do you expect a social media relationship to sustain itself without any physical contact? |
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