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| Author: | Moose185 [ Sat Oct 10, 2015 12:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | when is it time to give up? |
I've been trying to get a girl interested after 6 months, she still doesn't seem that interested. I'm the one who initiates all the messages maybe except a couple of times. She does respond every time straight away though. She is possibly just being nice here. When I've asked her out recently she makes excuses we have hung out in the past. I really like this girl. I have tried dating other girls but always think about her no matter what. I thought the fact she responds back and that we have long conversations she might be interested. When should I totally give up? This is destroying me. |
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Sat Oct 10, 2015 12:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when is it time to give up? |
Your persistence is admirable, but if she doesn't want to hang out after that long, then you've been friednzoned. You're right that she is just being nice to you. You should just focus on gaming other girls and not contact her for a while. When you have more of an abundance mentality, you can choose to ping her again and it will be easier to game her, but chances are by that time, you'll be over her and hanging out with hotter girls that you are more interested in. |
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| Author: | Genoda [ Sat Oct 10, 2015 1:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when is it time to give up? |
Yes what Will said is definitely accurate. You need to move away completely from her, she is sapping away what you could do with another girl that is twice as amazing. I know it seems inconsiderate but there is at least one girl in the entire world that is better than her, so start approaching and scoring and trust me you will quickly forget about this girl. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Sat Oct 10, 2015 2:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when is it time to give up? |
pretty much what WillEdward said. Just forget about her for now...fuck some girls in the meantime...I have been on dates with some pretty hot chicks that took trial and error (and abundance mentality) to really get right to get them on a date. |
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| Author: | Moose185 [ Sun Oct 11, 2015 11:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when is it time to give up? |
Ok thanks I will take your advice and not contact her for now, I am speaking to other girls in not usually good at getting dates. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sun Oct 11, 2015 11:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when is it time to give up? |
Quote: I am speaking to other girls in not usually good at getting dates.
But isn't this why you've joined the community? To get good with women? Or did you join it for magic lines to get bck ex's that don't even like you?Read my sig thread... If you ain't approaching 10-20 girls a week minimum (at the start stages), you're probably wasting your time. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Sun Oct 11, 2015 2:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when is it time to give up? |
6 months? Dude.. Did you even date this girl? Kiss? Sex? Anything? Otherwise please explain "really liking her". |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Sun Oct 11, 2015 4:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when is it time to give up? |
Its not about giving up, its about realizing that the time and effort that you're investing isn't worth the return that you are getting. How long would you invest money into a company that yielded you no profit before deciding that your money could be better made use of some place else? |
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| Author: | Sangun [ Sun Oct 11, 2015 9:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when is it time to give up? |
All I wish to do is to sum up and elaborate what others in this post have already told you. Please don't mind my brutal honesty in this, but I am speaking in personal experience as well. If you think you are not up for the confronting truth, please ignore the rest of my post; 1. You either lack the skills to make the impression you want her to have [most likely] 2. She has the impression of you, but she thinks it doesn't fit [so you aren't confronting her on compatibility] 3. Six months is a really long time; Even if you suddenly turned your game around, will she still be able to look at you like you want her to? 4. I'd do some soul searching There is no 'The one', only a select few that fit. That being said, you don't know if a women is one who measures up if you don't talk. This is what being a pick-up artist is all about as far as I can tell. If even that doesn't work, she simply isn't one of the ones who fit. I ask of you to do some soul searching; What attracts you to this girl so much you keep yourself in pain for 6 months? Is it that you maybe think you won't find someone else? Because that isn't true and you know it. Or she has this perfect personality that seems to fit so well? If that was true, she'd be your girl already. Ultimately, it is you who determines if someone is worth that much time; But remember, time is a resource that is not replenishable and therefore, priceless. A woman who pays no attention romantically for months isn't worth my priceless time. I'd move on. I hope I could help you with creating some insight in your own feelings. I sincerely hope it will work all right for you |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Tue Oct 13, 2015 1:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when is it time to give up? |
Stop wasting your time man. |
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