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Author:  NaturalNY [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 5:27 am ]
Post subject:  it was ON, got #, but no response back?
Hey guys, long story short. I walk in a store the retail girl is hot. We casually talk, I make her laugh, she becomes fascinated about my lofe, shows lots of IOI's, like continuing to talk to me, her eyes become big, and I do a cold reading routine and blew her mind. Her managers were asking her "What are you doing we need you" and in the middle of the store she wouldn't leave cause she still wanted to talk to me. She went crazy from how good I did cold reading and like a heat weave was on her, I'm like, "Get used to this, welcome to my world, this happens every day." I lightly touched her palms and shoulder. I qualified, asked what she wants to be, and found out what makes her attractive beyond looks. She even started rubbing her chest, I busted her on it, then she started stroking a long piece of steel from a rack and I busted her on that. I pull out my phone, she asks (prob before I do) "So, are we ever going to meet again?". I said, "Idk let's find out, put your # in my phone" she said she wasn't allowed too, but was excited Ina sense, like she wanted to, so I said just tell it to me and she did as of she did something naughty ; )

We talk a bit more, I said, I got to go, I'll text you something funny... Her: "So I know it's you?" Me: "Exactly." After small talk I said, I gtg your beautiful, and I said wait, no compliment back? In a joking way. She said "You have nice rings" ha. She couldn't say much because of her work. I said confidently and jokingly, "I'm a handsome man so I demand compliments.." We casually laugh, and part in good spirits.

I text her at night "is this the number for the girl looking for a future reading, ha - the Natural." No response? It's a bit confusing. It's been 1 day. I know she was into me, I didn't expect this. What move do I make?
Author:  oceanx [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 5:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: it was ON, got #, but no response back?
Could've literally said this in the text: "Something funny"

I feel u were a lil too cocky with the "I'm a handsome man so I demand compliments" thing and the "Get used to this, welcome to my world, this happens every day" thing.

You probably could have had the same swooning results without this extraneous stuff.

It's a better look imo to go in with the ASSUMPTION implicitly that these things are true of yourself without spitting them out verbally. Just my view.
Author:  R.C [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 6:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: it was ON, got #, but no response back?
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"Something funny"
Yes!
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It's a better look imo to go in with the ASSUMPTION implicitly that these things are true of yourself without spitting them out verbally. Just my view.
Also yes.

You can verbalize it too but it has to be blatantly obvious it's being done in a playful manner.
Being arrogant is one thing, being full of yourself is another. No one really likes the latter.

Anyway, you didn't really do anything wrong per se. Just let her hit you back and if she doesn't send her another text a few days later.
Author:  NaturalNY [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 2:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: it was ON, got #, but no response back?
Hey, Thanks for your reply guys. I wrote that pretty quick, I should mention the way that I use that type of humor, in the context it came off perfectly, the "this is my world line" I was comforting her from being amazed by me. I definitely agree the I demand compliments thing, wasn't necessary. It was said in a confident manner. Also, I balanced it a lot by just being normal, and making jokes about myself, so she knows I'm not big headed. It got really playful. I agree with you guys, thanks :)

Anyways, she texted me this morning!
Me: "Is this the girl that is looking for a fortune reading, ha - the natural" (Sun 10pm)
Her: Yes it is lol (9:00am Tues)

This is the important part. I want to do this right. What should I text her after this and so forth? And since she waited a day to text me, I'll text her later in the day which I assume is right. Also, she works at a kids footlocker.
Author:  R.C [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 2:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: it was ON, got #, but no response back?
Read my guide on texting.

Also instead of asking us what to text, think of something yourself and maybe ask us if we think it's good.
Point is, don't ask for people to do your job for you, ask if you're doing it right.
Author:  NaturalNY [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 2:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: it was ON, got #, but no response back?
Sure! The reason I say that, RC, is because if I see something done right, like an example, I'll learn instantly and will be able to imitate what works, resulting in me just coming up with better stuff.

So, some text would be. "Well let's set up your reading, for $20 I can predict your next job/are really you ready for my predictions?." If she can't pay, I can say, she can pay me in Jordans shoes. I may say, her next job will be a stripper, etc.

Then I'd build comfort and ask if she is a transport or native, what she wants to do, make jokes about my own work, that's easier, it's getting it going, is the part that is important to me.
Author:  NaturalNY [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 3:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: it was ON, got #, but no response back?
After reading your awesome guide, I would say she's definitely receptive! How's, "So this is the crazy Native American girl with the gold chain that has her name on it. Nice meeting you. " maybe a ;)

Thoughts?

Then tease her, ask if her tribal name is two chains (see what I did there) tell her my mother warned me about girls like her, then go into fantasy. Say her work seems like it can get boring, what doe she day dream about? Then riff off of that.
Author:  bartm [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 4:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: it was ON, got #, but no response back?
I think you are trying too hard here.
if you are able to make such a good first impression (congrats, a lot of guys cant) then you should trust yourself and text whatever feels natural.
dont try to sound clever.
Author:  Greggomatik [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 6:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: it was ON, got #, but no response back?
Def agree with the above. Planning jokes like thar via text often comes off contrived and way too tryhard, they're easier to pull off in person.

Make a date and don't over text
Author:  oceanx [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 6:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: it was ON, got #, but no response back?
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Make a date and don't over text
THIS.
Author:  NaturalNY [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 9:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: it was ON, got #, but no response back?
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Quote:
Make a date and don't over text
THIS.
Guys, thanks so much for your kind and encouraging comments. I don't want to over text, I want to chat for 5 secs and set up a date. The problem is, when you say, just get it done, or trust your instincts, I don't know what that looks like, so how could I imitate it. I know how to close this PERFECTLY. Starting it is where things are most important, fee free to show me what you'd like me to do I'm very open minded :)
Author:  dtrak [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 10:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: it was ON, got #, but no response back?
lmao did you really end your text with " -the natural"?

lol...

Anyway, welcome to Cold Approach baby

The girl will love you, kiss you, sometimes even have sex with you and then not answer back the next dayy

Haha get used to it.

But dtraaaaaaak how do i get allllll the girlsssssss !

You dont, you try picking up another girl you fancy, if it keeps happening we have a problem.

Maybe she caught a wiff of your dog breath as you walked away. :p just kiddin, dont beat yourself up too much and try again.
Author:  NaturalNY [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 11:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: it was ON, got #, but no response back?
Dtrak, I appreciate your response, and no, I said my own name, pretty easy to figure out... Judging by your comments it's evident you're looking to make a quick buck with poor sales tactics. That's fine, but try somewhere else, brother.

As for the awesome people above, I kept it simple like you suggested and went with "I see something interesting in your future!" At 7:00pm. From there, I'll share a few texts and close. Tell me what you think R.C. and everyone else.

Me: I see something interesting in your future! .
Her: Yea
Me: You've been a pretty good girl, but, wow, you also been bad, woah, very very bad... ha
Her: Ok
Me: I'd like your opinion on something are you free for a 5 min chat
Her: No

This is surprising. Where to take this?
Author:  dtrak [ Wed Oct 07, 2015 12:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: it was ON, got #, but no response back?
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Judging by your comments it's evident you're looking to make a quick buck with poor sales tactics.
I'm no sales proffessional but i will tell you this, quality/truth sells itself buddy boy.

Theres no quick buck in this business.

My apologies for the tough love, i know reality hurts.

Peace
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Oct 07, 2015 1:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: it was ON, got #, but no response back?
Quote:
Me: I see something interesting in your future! .
Her: Yea
Me: You've been a pretty good girl, but, wow, you also been bad, woah, very very bad... ha
Her: Ok
Me: I'd like your opinion on something are you free for a 5 min chat
Her: No

This is surprising. Where to take this?
This is surprising to you? This is completely robotic. Do you normally talk like this? Of course you don't.

This is canned and not in a good way. Just be NORMAL.

She isn't interested -- as illustrated by her literally one word replies and her clear disinterest in what you have to say (try something genuine, with a purpose, maybe?)

You don't take this anywhere.
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