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Author:  King94 [ Tue Sep 29, 2015 10:27 pm ]
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I have always gave off a player vibe, is that a good thing and if not how do I get rid of it?

I never smile is that a good thing (smiling doesn't really go with my personally)

I attract head cases, never really notice it but basically that's all I've dated, is it me or am I really unlucky?

I'm setting up a dinner soon and one of the females I've invited likes me (I think). But her sister and I have a past and it ended badly. I was planning on being nice to everyone at the dinner and just paying more attention to her and notice her a little more than the rest of the people. And if she shows signs that she likes me. Talk with her after, is this a bad plan?
Author:  R.C [ Wed Sep 30, 2015 5:45 am ]
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I have always gave off a player vibe, is that a good thing and if not how do I get rid of it?
Yes it's a good thing. Every woman wants a bad boy that'll be good just for her. They want a man that's in demand and can "have any woman", because that's essentially a compliment to their own self-worth.
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I never smile is that a good thing (smiling doesn't really go with my personally)
How can never smiling be a good thing? and how the fuck can it not go with your personality? are you some kind of emo goth kid?
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I attract head cases, never really notice it but basically that's all I've dated, is it me or am I really unlucky?
You attract what you are.
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I'm setting up a dinner soon and one of the females I've invited likes me (I think). But her sister and I have a past and it ended badly. I was planning on being nice to everyone at the dinner and just paying more attention to her and notice her a little more than the rest of the people. And if she shows signs that she likes me. Talk with her after, is this a bad plan?
Or you can just flirt with her and not hind behind your intentions.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Sep 30, 2015 6:03 am ]
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I have always gave off a player vibe, is that a good thing and if not how do I get rid of it?
Not necessarily a bad thing but it can be hard to get girls to trust you. I wouldn't try to change that if I were you though.
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I never smile is that a good thing (smiling doesn't really go with my personally)
Are you actually never happy or you just don't smile because you're afraid to show it?
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I attract head cases, never really notice it but basically that's all I've dated, is it me or am I really unlucky?
You typically attract what you are. Maybe look in the mirror. Are you a headcase yourself?
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I'm setting up a dinner soon and one of the females I've invited likes me (I think). But her sister and I have a past and it ended badly. I was planning on being nice to everyone at the dinner and just paying more attention to her and notice her a little more than the rest of the people. And if she shows signs that she likes me. Talk with her after, is this a bad plan?
You need to expand your circle of women outside of the girls you've already slept with's sisters.
Author:  King94 [ Thu Oct 01, 2015 6:24 am ]
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How can never smiling be a good thing? and how the fuck can it not go with your personality? are you some kind of emo goth kid?
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Are you actually never happy or you just don't smile because you're afraid to show it?
It's not that, I don't have fun talking with women. To me the real fun happens after sex. After sex I don't worry, I feel like I'm free to have fun and be myself. I wish I could find happiness in gaming but to me it's stressful. I can't help but feel like if I fuck up that's the end of the relationship before it starts. Maybe I put too much on myself
Author:  R.C [ Thu Oct 01, 2015 8:07 am ]
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That still doesn't explain never smiling.
Author:  Style981 [ Thu Oct 01, 2015 9:32 am ]
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I never smile is that a good thing (smiling doesn't really go with my personally)
i have a friend who "appears" dead serious on the outside but when you talk to him, he'll crack a cocky joke every once in a while that you can't stop laughing .. and while every one else is laughing he'll still remain dead serious (intentionally).
If you are this kind of a person then I guess you can get away with that. Though a little bit of smile is always good.
Author:  King94 [ Thu Oct 01, 2015 6:51 pm ]
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i have a friend who "appears" dead serious on the outside but when you talk to him, he'll crack a cocky joke every once in a while that you can't stop laughing .. and while every one else is laughing he'll still remain dead serious (intentionally).
If you are this kind of a person then I guess you can get away with that. Though a little bit of smile is always good.
Yeah that's me, sometimes it's doesn't work thou
Author:  WillEdward [ Fri Oct 02, 2015 12:13 am ]
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Player vibe can be good, just calibrate if the girl needs more comfort. The lack of smiling can increase sexual tension, but you should smile occasionally.
Author:  bartm [ Fri Oct 02, 2015 8:02 pm ]
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OP, smiling feels very unnatural for me too.

you dont have to smile. smiling is a sign of submission. I read somewhere women find a man who is not smiling more attractive (on the other hand, men find a smiling woman more attractive). ever since reading that article I have tried to keep my smiling to a minimum and I feel so much better because before I felt guilty about not smiling like "what's wrong with me"

take a look below tell me which man is more attractive to you. to me the first one is sexy, determined, aggressive. The second one is an afc.

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Author:  Style981 [ Sat Oct 03, 2015 7:21 am ]
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i have a friend who "appears" dead serious on the outside but when you talk to him, he'll crack a cocky joke every once in a while that you can't stop laughing .. and while every one else is laughing he'll still remain dead serious (intentionally).
If you are this kind of a person then I guess you can get away with that. Though a little bit of smile is always good.
Yeah that's me, sometimes it's doesn't work thou
Can you explain it 'How" it doesn't work ??
De Angelo in his book "Double Your Dating" talks about this. (The Cocky Funny/humour topic). And he too, is of the opinion that you should remain serious while being cocky funny. Works for him for sure. And it has been working for me too.
I think its just your lack of confidence in yourself. All the times I see around myself those "Smiley" guys who are always pretending to be happy and then I think its better than that fake smiley guy at least. If it's not natural to you, I don't think you need to 'force' yourself to smile. Some people are just this way and its totally fine. (As long as your interactions don't reflect this seriousness)
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