PUA Forum :: Basic do's and don'ts

In a place called common sense?

I am sure if you google it you can find some. but here is my list based on my own experiences.

dont:
dont try to impress
dont tell her you are shy
dont become her therapist. if she starts bitching about something, eject or change the subject
dont try to show off your material things
dont be the first to break eye contact
dont become too invested in her in terms of time and money
dont try to pretend you are perfect
I cant emphasize this enough, dont try to impress.

do:
do ask open ended questions that allow her to talk about herself. people want to talk about themselves, that's all they care about
being nervous is normal. do approach even though you are nervous
do show your flaws, you are not perfect
do whatever it takes to become more confident. exercise, shave your head, fix your teeth, get a tattoo, drink coffee, whatever it is that makes you more confident.

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Thanks! Where can I find some examples of good open-ended questions?

oh, so it's that kind of forum.

Cool.

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Thanks! Where can I find some examples of good open-ended questions?

is your google broken today?
anyway, I would suggest that you ask questions that you are genuinely interested in knowing the answer. otherwise it's going to come off as fake.
example: someone on youtube asks "what's your favorite movie?" and it works because he is genuinely interested in knowing the answer.
I dont care what her favorite movie is so I am not going to ask that. I care if she went to college and what her major was so that's what I will ask.

Author:	FunkySpunk [ Tue Sep 29, 2015 6:33 am ]
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Where can I find a very basic list of do's and don'ts? For instance, I'd assume drinking too much is a definite "don't"

Author:	R.C [ Tue Sep 29, 2015 7:49 am ]
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In a place called common sense?

Author:	Style981 [ Tue Sep 29, 2015 9:07 am ]
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Quote: In a place called common sense? lolz

Author:	FunkySpunk [ Tue Sep 29, 2015 10:05 am ]
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oh, so it's that kind of forum. Cool.

Author:	bartm [ Tue Sep 29, 2015 3:04 pm ]
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I am sure if you google it you can find some. but here is my list based on my own experiences. dont: dont try to impress dont tell her you are shy dont become her therapist. if she starts bitching about something, eject or change the subject dont try to show off your material things dont be the first to break eye contact dont become too invested in her in terms of time and money dont try to pretend you are perfect I cant emphasize this enough, dont try to impress. do: do ask open ended questions that allow her to talk about herself. people want to talk about themselves, that's all they care about being nervous is normal. do approach even though you are nervous do show your flaws, you are not perfect do whatever it takes to become more confident. exercise, shave your head, fix your teeth, get a tattoo, drink coffee, whatever it is that makes you more confident.

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Author:	FunkySpunk [ Tue Sep 29, 2015 3:39 pm ]
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Quote: I am sure if you google it you can find some. but here is my list based on my own experiences. dont: dont try to impress dont tell her you are shy dont become her therapist. if she starts bitching about something, eject or change the subject dont try to show off your material things dont be the first to break eye contact dont become too invested in her in terms of time and money dont try to pretend you are perfect I cant emphasize this enough, dont try to impress. do: do ask open ended questions that allow her to talk about herself. people want to talk about themselves, that's all they care about being nervous is normal. do approach even though you are nervous do show your flaws, you are not perfect do whatever it takes to become more confident. exercise, shave your head, fix your teeth, get a tattoo, drink coffee, whatever it is that makes you more confident. Thanks! Where can I find some examples of good open-ended questions?

Author:	bartm [ Tue Sep 29, 2015 4:16 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: I am sure if you google it you can find some. but here is my list based on my own experiences. dont: dont try to impress dont tell her you are shy dont become her therapist. if she starts bitching about something, eject or change the subject dont try to show off your material things dont be the first to break eye contact dont become too invested in her in terms of time and money dont try to pretend you are perfect I cant emphasize this enough, dont try to impress. do: do ask open ended questions that allow her to talk about herself. people want to talk about themselves, that's all they care about being nervous is normal. do approach even though you are nervous do show your flaws, you are not perfect do whatever it takes to become more confident. exercise, shave your head, fix your teeth, get a tattoo, drink coffee, whatever it is that makes you more confident. Thanks! Where can I find some examples of good open-ended questions? is your google broken today? anyway, I would suggest that you ask questions that you are genuinely interested in knowing the answer. otherwise it's going to come off as fake. example: someone on youtube asks "what's your favorite movie?" and it works because he is genuinely interested in knowing the answer. I dont care what her favorite movie is so I am not going to ask that. I care if she went to college and what her major was so that's what I will ask.

Author:	R.C [ Tue Sep 29, 2015 4:22 pm ]
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Quote: Thanks! Where can I find some examples of good open-ended questions? If you're wondering why people are reticent towards you is because you're asking shit that can be solved by a simple forum/google search. You're not putting any effort into your process of learning and yet you expect us to put the effort into teaching you. Do you see the problem?

Author:	Dragula [ Tue Sep 29, 2015 4:35 pm ]
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Quote: oh, so it's that kind of forum. Cool. Forums area usually a way to get tailored advice to specific unique problems. You sir, are just being lazy and bypassing Google. How did you find the community? Surely the source you came from, would provide these basic answers.

Author:	FunkySpunk [ Tue Sep 29, 2015 5:29 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: I am sure if you google it you can find some. but here is my list based on my own experiences. dont: dont try to impress dont tell her you are shy dont become her therapist. if she starts bitching about something, eject or change the subject dont try to show off your material things dont be the first to break eye contact dont become too invested in her in terms of time and money dont try to pretend you are perfect I cant emphasize this enough, dont try to impress. do: do ask open ended questions that allow her to talk about herself. people want to talk about themselves, that's all they care about being nervous is normal. do approach even though you are nervous do show your flaws, you are not perfect do whatever it takes to become more confident. exercise, shave your head, fix your teeth, get a tattoo, drink coffee, whatever it is that makes you more confident. Thanks! Where can I find some examples of good open-ended questions? is your google broken today? anyway, I would suggest that you ask questions that you are genuinely interested in knowing the answer. otherwise it's going to come off as fake. example: someone on youtube asks "what's your favorite movie?" and it works because he is genuinely interested in knowing the answer. I dont care what her favorite movie is so I am not going to ask that. I care if she went to college and what her major was so that's what I will ask. im sorry if I offended you. I didn't think this would show up on an easy Google search! Thank you all!

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