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| Author: | octagonkeith [ Tue Sep 15, 2015 5:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Just friendly or...? |
Hi, I've heard (and I think I had read it on this site) that a girl who shares food & drink with you likes you and I can see that as couples and people on dates do it etc. But how about if you aren't dating or anything? I was at the bar ordering a drink when a girl I know sat beside me. She said hi and we talked for a bit before she asked what I was drinking. I didn't tell her & just handed it to her and she started drinking out of the straw. I was surprised she didn't care about germs and what not as I think probably a lot would. She had this drink with her that I had glanced at from time to time because of the color and I guess she had seen me. I forget what she said it was called, but she told me it was good and I could try it if I want. I declined trying it and she had asked me why? I felt kind of unsure and just made some crack about how I have a reputation to uphold and can't be seen trying a girly drink. She just laughed and started teasing me over it kinda. The said girl has always been nice to me but we have not really had much interaction. If I was like a good a friend I could understand, but because I'm not I wasn't sure how to interpret her actions as just being friendly or flirting or whatever. |
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| Author: | CGAG [ Tue Sep 15, 2015 5:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just friendly or...? |
She already broke the distance gap between you two even though you aren't close friends, it doesn't matter what were her intentions. If you're interested in her just act normal and start escalating it forward. You can invite her to a call bar with a special drink or just ask what's up and roll it. Once she showed some kind of interest all you need to do is man up and pick it, stop initializing. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Sep 15, 2015 6:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just friendly or...? |
This is that time you become a 'this glass is half full" type of guy and just assume she into you. Every single girl I interact with (and I have got her attention) - I just assume attraction. This I have earned from being in the trenches for years and years pushing my comfort zones. You have simply confused about IOI's and have joined a forum just to get clarification. You're not immersed into pick up, read my signature thread |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Sep 15, 2015 7:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just friendly or...? |
Quote: I was surprised she didn't care about germs and what not as I think probably a lot would.
Wait what? you think a majority of women would mind that? Why would you think that?Quote:
I've heard (and I think I had read it on this site) that a girl who shares food & drink with you likes you and I can see that as couples and people on dates do it etc. But how about if you aren't dating or anything?
Having a taste of your drink implies nothing. Going out, ordering one fruit salad and sharing it is a different thing. Quote: how to interpret her actions as just being friendly or flirting or whatever.
Do you like her? If so, escalate and find out for yourself. If you don't like her then why are you posting about her?A vast majority of your questions can be simply answered by manning up and starting to show your intentions. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Fri Sep 18, 2015 5:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just friendly or...? |
What ever happen to the concept.. Assume attraction? Assuming every woman is interesting in your as a confident frame for creating attraction. Sounds like there was some flirting going on that you just didn't capitalize off of. You could of easily threw in a " whats your number, Lets share some more drinks tomorrow. I gotta run" and been on your way. |
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