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| Author: | Tofu-86 [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 3:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | How adaptive should I be about dating tips if I am Asian? |
I am Chinese but I have been living in the States for three years. I just started college and would really like to work on my game. My main concern is that should I adapt some of the stuff online so it fits my identity better? If so, how exactly should I do that? |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 4:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How adaptive should I be about dating tips if I am Asian |
My best advice to you would be to be honest with yourself about what the stereotypes are. Then, be the opposite. This isn't me being a dick or being "racist." This is just what I've seen from experience. I'm honestly trying to help... Asian guys have a stereo type of being really nerdy and really skinny. So, step your social skills up. Don't be the nerdy wall flower. Dress with some fucking style. Don't wear shit a high school science teacher would wear. And start lifting weights. Get jacked as fuck. Your testosterone should be pumping like a mother fucker at your age. You hit the gym for a few months and you'll notice a difference. Lift like you're big, eat like you're bigger. Do you have to do that to meet girls? No. But, you'll stand out a lot over the average Asian guy. |
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| Author: | Tofu-86 [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 5:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How adaptive should I be about dating tips if I am Asian |
Quote: My best advice to you would be to be honest with yourself about what the stereotypes are. Then, be the opposite.
This isn't me being a dick or being "racist." This is just what I've seen from experience. I'm honestly trying to help... That's one of the things I've tried in the past. My experience with that is that sometimes it works pretty well, but sometimes I would go too far and look like an asshole. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 5:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How adaptive should I be about dating tips if I am Asian |
Quote: Quote: My best advice to you would be to be honest with yourself about what the stereotypes are. Then, be the opposite.
This isn't me being a dick or being "racist." This is just what I've seen from experience. I'm honestly trying to help... That's one of the things I've tried in the past. My experience with that is that sometimes it works pretty well, but sometimes I would go too far and look like an asshole. That's gonna happen to. I'd love to tell you "Don't have any limiting beliefs!" But that's not reality. You gotta just realize that some people, including girls that you are sexually attracted to, unfortunately are not going to like you because of your race. And there's nothing you can really do about it except laugh at those people for being so stupid and ignorant. You don't want to be with a girl who isn't going to like you because of your nationality and you had to "game" her to get her to like you. You won't be happy in a relationship like that. Whether it last 4 hours or 4 years, save yourself the time and frustration. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 8:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How adaptive should I be about dating tips if I am Asian |
Look up 'Kong' from Simple Pick Up. |
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| Author: | Tofu-86 [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 5:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How adaptive should I be about dating tips if I am Asian |
Quote: Quote: Quote: My best advice to you would be to be honest with yourself about what the stereotypes are. Then, be the opposite.
This isn't me being a dick or being "racist." This is just what I've seen from experience. I'm honestly trying to help... That's one of the things I've tried in the past. My experience with that is that sometimes it works pretty well, but sometimes I would go too far and look like an asshole. That's gonna happen to. I'd love to tell you "Don't have any limiting beliefs!" But that's not reality. You gotta just realize that some people, including girls that you are sexually attracted to, unfortunately are not going to like you because of your race. And there's nothing you can really do about it except laugh at those people for being so stupid and ignorant. You don't want to be with a girl who isn't going to like you because of your nationality and you had to "game" her to get her to like you. You won't be happy in a relationship like that. Whether it last 4 hours or 4 years, save yourself the time and frustration. Good point. Thank you very much! |
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