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Author:  860_Rhody [ Wed Sep 09, 2015 11:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Skinny in college
So I'm just a really skinny dude in college. I know that I've got to get in the gym, but meanwhile until I get bigger, I'm still a dude who can't get laid. It's really starting to piss me off because I know these are the best years of your life to get laid, but it's just not happening right now. I know that I need to have cool friends and shit but I get rejected solely off of my build all the time (from guys). So, in the meantime, what can I do to get some women in my life? Would girls really be receptive to guy who is a loner?
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Wed Sep 09, 2015 11:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Skinny in college
In order for us to help you need to go approach some women. Not just one or two but many women.

You will notice patterns and persistant problems that pop up. Report back here on the problems and then we can help.
Author:  On A Rampage [ Thu Sep 10, 2015 12:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Skinny in college
you're build doesn't mean shit. A dude I know use to be a pick up coach and he's the skinniest dude i've ever met.
Author:  DW-Heart-Charmer [ Thu Sep 10, 2015 1:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Skinny in college
The only way that being skinny is a problem is if you think it is. Become even skinnier, approach more girls. It really means nothing, but only if you can believe you deserve women even if you are skinny.
Author:  R.C [ Thu Sep 10, 2015 6:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Skinny in college
Oh my god how I fucking hate these replies.

OF-COURSE HAVING A MUSCULAR BUILD WILL HELP.

For the fucking love of God we're in 2015, stop acting as if physical attractiveness plays no role in this shit.

If you have a muscular build guys will respect you more - or be more susceptible towards respecting you - and women will be more attracted - or be more susceptible towards being attracted.

That doesn't mean you'll get sucked off solely off of a 6pack, but IT WILL HELP. It's a god damn extra bonus, and if you can't open your mouth for shit you still won't get very far. But the socially retarded model WILL get further than the socially retarded slob. Although that doesn't say much.

That being said, you're not being rejected for your build. If skinny guys couldn't get laid there would be no skinny guys. It's mostly psychological. So either get over it somehow, or get in the gym and sculpt your body into a modern day Adonis and solve two problems at once.
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Become even skinnier, approach more girls.
#1 retarded quote of the year.

There's absolutely no reason why you shouldn't be at your pique of physical attractiveness. Give that girl something to enjoy. Don't be a selfish fucker. No one gets wet over a beer belly. Or ribcage.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Thu Sep 10, 2015 6:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Skinny in college
You fucking cry baby.

Go start lifting. Get yourself on a basic routine and start eating an extra 500 calories a day. You'll pack on 10 pounds of beginner gains within 2 months.

Quit making excuses. Pussy.
Author:  DW-Heart-Charmer [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 12:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Skinny in college
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There's absolutely no reason why you shouldn't be at your pique of physical attractiveness.
Lol of course you do all you can with what you have. Still not going to make a large difference.
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Oh my god how I fucking hate these replies.

OF-COURSE HAVING A MUSCULAR BUILD WILL HELP.

For the fucking love of God we're in 2015, stop acting as if physical attractiveness plays no role in this shit.
Calm down. Skinny guys can still get girls.
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If you have a muscular build guys will respect you more
Who cares? Waste of time to think about this or chase someone's respect or attraction.

Let's talk real life rather than theory. Do you know from experience rather than thought that this looks thing is a big deal? Have you tried for example looking completely different and seen the results? I've done this and the noticeable difference comes from my frame and what I expect will happen.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 1:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Skinny in college
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There's absolutely no reason why you shouldn't be at your pique of physical attractiveness.
Lol of course you do all you can with what you have. Still not going to make a large difference.
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Oh my god how I fucking hate these replies.

OF-COURSE HAVING A MUSCULAR BUILD WILL HELP.

For the fucking love of God we're in 2015, stop acting as if physical attractiveness plays no role in this shit.
Calm down. Skinny guys can still get girls.
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If you have a muscular build guys will respect you more
Who cares? Waste of time to think about this or chase someone's respect or attraction.

Let's talk real life rather than theory. Do you know from experience rather than thought that this looks thing is a big deal? Have you tried for example looking completely different and seen the results? I've done this and the noticeable difference comes from my frame and what I expect will happen.

*cough cough*

I gotta chime in here and say that it definitely does make a difference.

I'm not saying you can't get laid if you're not muscular and manly looking.... But it definitely fucking helps.

Why does it help? You get more initial attention.

Obviously a Ferrari is going to catch more eyes than a Honda. But there's always gonna be someone who wants a Honda... especially if it drives nice.

Over the last few months, I've started lifting again. I'm really getting my body back and seriously, more girls look at me.

I'm told I have a very strong presence and I give off a very positive vibe. I know I have a really high self esteem and that draws people in too.... But in all honesty, having massive shoulders, a pronounced chest, sculpted arms, and a nice man butt...

It's a lot easier to get laid if you've got girls groping you.

The only problem is most gym rats are so socially retarded, they don't know what to do with the attention.

You don't need to look roided out of your mind. But having a nice, muscular build so the girl can grab onto your nice big lats while you're barreling your cock into her vagina is definitely a plus for the girl.
Author:  smarterthanone [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 3:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Skinny in college
1. I was skinny fat real bad in high school and I took the hottest girls v card when she was a senior, so I obviously wasn't first to try. I also hooked up with a senior girl that was like a 8/10 when I was a freshman. So being skinny fat, the worst body type besides just plain fat, did perfectly fine without a rocking bod.

2. Skinny isn't so bad, sure its not like athletic or built but its not fat or skinny fat. Lots of girls actually dig skinny guys providing you don't look sickly.

3. I am now in shape and at first being recently single, used it as a crutch. I got laid sure but it was all desperate girls, ie crazy, weird, very plain jane looking, tier 2 milfs... lol they would just say "You hot, I won't make you work for it at all **legs spread**" the kind of girls that go to the bar and all their friends are getting hit on but they are sitting their bored. Or they don't even have confidence to go to a bar.

Every single one was undateable for what I know I am worth. Not even close! So just being good looking isn't the key, but it certainly won't hurt. If I was out of shape and no game, then even the desperate girls wouldn't have been throwing themselves at me!
Author:  Don Horneone [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 2:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Skinny in college
Explain to me what's happening here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yG_LM7Dq_IQ
Author:  R.C [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 3:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Skinny in college
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Lol of course you do all you can with what you have. Still not going to make a large difference.
Yeah, it will. Like I said before if you can't open your mouth for shit you still won't get very far, but you will be exposed to more opportunities and eventually will figure it out for yourself.
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Calm down. Skinny guys can still get girls.
That's what I said too.
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Who cares? Waste of time to think about this or chase someone's respect or attraction.
Who said anything about chasing?
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Let's talk real life rather than theory. Do you know from experience rather than thought that this looks thing is a big deal? Have you tried for example looking completely different and seen the results? I've done this and the noticeable difference comes from my frame and what I expect will happen.
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Yeah. I used to be skinny fat and now I'm slowly building up my body. Most recent testament I have was yesterday. At a pool party and I was the only guy there with a 6pack.
If you looked closely you could almost see little puddles forming all around due to all the drooling and dripping.
I had all the female attention in the room and all I did was simply stand there in my natural element. Like majik said, Ferrari catches more eyes than the Honda. And all eyes when you leave it in the general parking lot.

That being said I never advised "Go to the gym, get ripped and get laid". It doesn't work like that and yes your frame is still the most important factor. But this is the problem I've always had with this community and it's apparent incapability of understanding mutual exclusivity or lack there of.
You can and should both look your best and also develop that stone cold confidence. And achieving the first will only make your life (exponentially) easier with the second.
Author:  DW-Heart-Charmer [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 6:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Skinny in college
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If you looked closely you could almost see little puddles forming all around due to all the drooling and dripping.
I had all the female attention in the room and all I did was simply stand there in my natural element. Like majik said, Ferrari catches more eyes than the Honda. And all eyes when you leave it in the general parking lot.
Cool. "I had girl's attention." This is far different from "the girls were captivated by me and my six pack, leading to group sex all which would not have been possible if I didn't have a great body."

I was actually one of those guys who got the six pack with a false belief that I could be better at attracting women at that point. I held on tightly as you do to the belief that looks mattered and all my work in the gym would pay off. Sure there was attention there, but it didn't matter.

My whole point in this whole post is how would the OP be best off building his game? Would the OP be best off with a belief that looks matter and he should develop his body so that other people like him? Or would it be better for the OP to go out and get field experience with women now, teaching himself and gaining the belief that no matter what he looks like women will love him? It's always going to benefit you to be your best self, but the OP is already good enough, that is the belief that matters.
Author:  Dragula [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 6:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Skinny in college
I think the OP would whine about something else even if he was ripped.
Author:  neo87 [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 7:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Skinny in college
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So I'm just a really skinny dude in college. I know that I've got to get in the gym, but meanwhile until I get bigger, I'm still a dude who can't get laid. It's really starting to piss me off because I know these are the best years of your life to get laid, but it's just not happening right now. I know that I need to have cool friends and shit but I get rejected solely off of my build all the time (from guys). So, in the meantime, what can I do to get some women in my life? Would girls really be receptive to guy who is a loner?

First off, no guy is rejecting a guy because he's too skinny. You're most likely boring, personality sucks and offer nothing of value to them. But they aren't not hanging with you over your body type so forget that. Second, if you're skinny, in general, work out and eat more. It's not rocket science. An hour a day or every other day to workout and diet changes. Diet is most of it. As to the fear that you may be losing the best years of your life to get laid, get over it. It may very well be that you dont get laid in college. Guess what, you didnt prepare for it, havent worked on yourself, so I cant feel bad if you dont get those rewards. In life, you typically get what you work for. I disagree with advice like you deserve to get laid, because you havent worked on yourself to offer any reason for a girl to sleep with you. You're not enough. I think advice like you deserve a ten for just being yourself, is the worst thing. It's good to hear, but life doesnt work like that. If you wanted to become a millionaire, you dont become one by thinking you deserve to be one. You put in the work and start a business. If you wanted a Ferrari, you dont get one from thinking you deserve it, you get it from putting in the work and buying one. Same with women. What you receive from life is what you put into it.

If you want to sleep with women, you gotta workout, become interesting, learn shit and become an attractive person. There are no quick fixes. Learn how to make friends, learn how to improve your body, learn how to get women. It's a long road ahead of you if you're starting off like this. There are no quick fixes.
Author:  smarterthanone [ Sun Sep 13, 2015 12:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Skinny in college
Here is the real deal. If you get super ripped and are bomb ass good looking... just be a male stripper. :lol:
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