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| Author: | NewbieCasanova [ Wed Aug 26, 2015 7:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girl left me confused, can anything be done? |
Hey PUA community! I found this forum not long ago and it seems like a good place to post this kind of stuff. So here we go. I started going to raves lately and not once, have i ever been approached by girls. I would get compliments from just guys about my hair, body, outwear. A month or 2 ago, when i was at a rave. This girl passed by me twice, staring and smiling at me. Third time i held eye contact and she walked straight up to me, introducing herself. With my amateur conversation skills, i attempt to hold the conversation. But you all know how that went.. not very well. She stood around as we conversed. Telling me about how this was her first rave. Man she enjoyed asking questions, so with that in mind, i did the same. Later on, she introduced me to her guy friends, 2 extreme introvert that did nothing but stand there and stare. And another 1 that seemed very out going. So i losted her and she ended up being with that 1 guy who was outgoing. I sat down and took a rest, she found me again and decided to approach me asking for my number, gave me a quick kiss and move along. I later found her again in the crowd, she stares at me, walks up and starts dry grinding on me. I didn't not expect that, 100%. So as a "man" i was, i went along with it. The next day i texted her telling her how it was nice meeting her and it was fun... We continued texting and finally i asked her on a date. First date, we went to a park, walked and conversed, getting to know each other. She was older than me and because she owned a car, she was the driver -.- She's heading off to college soon meanwhile i'm still in highschool. She went on vacation a few weeks later and before she left, i had told her that i'm interested. She replied with Quote: "I'm glad you're saying that, but I am too old. Idk I told myself I wouldn't try
Afterwards, I wrote this long ass deep emotional text, attempting to convince her, Changing her mind. with younger guys because how can it work if I'm at college and having a job together with everything else?" The message sure did hit her, somewhere... On top of that she called me boy... she said that i was very convincing and we'll talk when she returns. 1 month later she returns and texts me first. Asking how it was going, but never mentioning the relationship stuff. She took a long time to reply for some odd reason. One time she haven't responded in 12 hours and so i said Quote: "I just wanted to let you know that if you're not interested, its fine -
i understand. I would, appreciate a direct answer about how you feel" Quote: "Damn I'm sorry I feel bad now, I've been driving for awhile so I couldn't
really text , I'm not exactly not interested just not looking for something either" Quote: "Thats understandable, i wouldn't want to push you into it either. I hope you'll
find someone out there. But if you ever do change your mind, ill be here. If you would still like to pursue as friends, thats great." Quote: "I would love to...when I'm in ur area I'll randomly stop by! I don't wanna stop
After this message, she never said anything else. She checks my snapchat stories, likes my instagram talking. I just don't use my phone often and lately been busy and Ik that's an excuse and I'm sorry , just I don't really have car privileges and my friends have been driving so kinda hard to hang out u know" pictures and that's about it. But i'm sure if i ask her something, she'll reply. Quote: "I completely understand since we both live completely different lives at the
So now i'm thinking, fuck man, i just wasted all that time for nothing.moment. I hope things don't change between us. And hopefully in the future circumstance will change. So i can know you better than i did before" On top of that, she called me a boy. Would things change if i get a job and car? I mean after all, she did drive me on the date -_- How should i approach her now? Im just stuck and don't know where to start with her. Should i just wait until i get a car and a job? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Wed Aug 26, 2015 9:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl left me confused, can anything be done? |
You're pushing to hard to the point you are just one of her options. Stop being the friend. Stop being so available. Stop acting like you'll take whatever you can get from her. Meet more girls and do cool shit. Once you start demonstrating that you enjoy life and have options, you'll get more girls that want to be your option. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Wed Aug 26, 2015 11:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl left me confused, can anything be done? |
She wants to fuck you!!! and you keep replying with boyfriend talk. Less talking about being together as an item More talking about hooking up. "You couldn't handle someone like me" bla bla and then progress that shit |
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| Author: | NewbieCasanova [ Wed Aug 26, 2015 11:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl left me confused, can anything be done? |
Quote: She wants to fuck you!!! and you keep replying with boyfriend talk.
Lol, alright so now i know that she wanted to fuck and i fucked up the chance. Honestly, I really haven't had much of these experiences.
Less talking about being together as an item More talking about hooking up. "You couldn't handle someone like me" bla bla and then progress that shit |
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| Author: | NewbieCasanova [ Wed Aug 26, 2015 11:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl left me confused, can anything be done? |
Quote: You're pushing to hard to the point you are just one of her options. Stop being the friend. Stop being so available. Stop acting like you'll take whatever you can get from her. Meet more girls and do cool shit. Once you start demonstrating that you enjoy life and have options, you'll get more girls that want to be your option.
Thanks man, yeah i need to start going out more often.
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Thu Aug 27, 2015 12:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl left me confused, can anything be done? |
Next time, show the girl you like her. Don't try and convince her by telling her. Women know you like them when you are ravishing their body. Words don't mean shit. |
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| Author: | J.Daniels [ Thu Aug 27, 2015 6:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl left me confused, can anything be done? |
You told her you'll be friends? How selfish. You don't want to be friends at all. You should've fucked her, if nothing more happens then fair enough... but friendship isn't what you want, so why are you lying to her? She's not attracted to you enough for a relationship obviously, but a fuck is definitely on the cards. |
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