You been reading " The Way Of The Superior Man " ? lol.

I hate to see guys refer to that book when their relationships start to become unsuccessful. They misinterpret everything, and use the lessons to make excuses for poor behavior.

From this post I can already tell that you're being a bit too clingy and a bit too accepting of her behavior. And she's pretty much bitching you around just because you're allowing it to happen. Ive seen it time and time again, and I've experienced it myself. Its cool at first. And then guys come with the " out of no where. I don't know what happen" type of post.

Just give her the space she's asking for man. Completely. Give her at least four days to get it together. Even if she texts you during those four days, don't reply. Give her what she wanted.

I figured you would of learned from these patterns by now. Sounds similar to the last situation lol.

Good to see you still on the forum though.

I figured it out last night. So before I told her I would agree to the reduced time apart, I would want to see her one more time. I went to her house and we had incredible sex. I practiced the gift of giving her my love and presence and she reciprocated. It was a great time

or does this just means dial back the communication a bit.


I have been dating a girl for 8 months. Right now she is says exhausted and has told me she wants a little break. I don't blame her. I didn't reciprocate love and I didn't give her my full presence.

You're interpretation of things, or she told you this?

I didn't realize how many times I rejected her femininity in the last couple months. I have been reading a little bit on relationships and never understood why she got upset whenever I missed kissing her in the morning...in my head I thought she was overreacting but in reality all she wanted was the kiss which acknowledged I cared.

Again, how do you know this is the case?

Lately she has been saying that she just worries I won't keep my promise. The promise of me being better (back then I couldn't figure out what i was doing wrong). She worries that I will do the same thing over. Rejecting her gestures of love.

I figured it out last night. So before I told her I would agree to the reduced time apart, I would want to see her one more time. I went to her house and we had incredible sex. I practiced the gift of giving her my love and presence and she reciprocated. It was a great time...the next morning she asked about the break, I told her that I mean technically I will be going home for a week so she can have some time anyway. I still agreed to it because I mean, only time will tell. But that morning she did say she will miss me and she even asked how long will I be gone. I think she will come around but if she doesn't at least I learned something. I have started talking to other girls.


I am asking about the soft next because it is only applied when she exhibits bad behavior. But she really hasn't, it just been me not paying attention and ignoring the signs. Shes is a good woman. Has definitely opened my eyes to some of my shortcomings when it comes to relationships.