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Author:  bensims3251 [ Tue Aug 18, 2015 1:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Me and 7 month LTR are going to colleges 1000 miles away. Sh
The only reason I’m considering not breaking up with her is that she fits all the my criteria for an ideal LTR. She’s a great person, very smart, easy to get along with, respects me as her alpha and is hopelessly in love with me, fulfills me sexually, and I’m her only sexual partner. She grew up in a good household with a strong father figure. Her parents have only dated each other, so she’s had strong exposure to monogamy since she’s been born. If we had met or been dating in our mid-late twenties, this would be the girl I would marry

It sucks that we’re going to college so far away, but that’s life sometimes and I’m really questioning the reality of us staying together. She’s moving away on Thursday, while I don’t leave until the 31st. She brought up the topic for the first time, and after a while of us beating around the bush (and some very emotional sex), she started talking about how she wanted to try. I told her I really want it to work out too, but it’d be very difficult. I cheated on her once in the past, about 2 months into the relationship. That was when she was still very nervous about sex, so I ended up seeking fulfillment elsewhere. She found out, but she didn’t want to break up so after a couple weeks we were sort of back to normal.

Yesterday we kind of talked about potential things we could do. She wants to try and stay together, communicating through texting and video chatting every day or two. We’ve barely even texted over the past 7 months (I’m more of a talking in person type of guy), so I told her that that could just end up fizzling out. She also brought out the situation in which one of us cheats and the other ends up hating the other (I told her I wouldn’t hate her, I’d just delete her number and not talk to her. She said she would be very mad if I did cheat again). We didn’t reach any type of conclusion yesterday.

Any advice or help from someone would be greatly appreciated.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Aug 18, 2015 2:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Me and 7 month LTR are going to colleges 1000 miles away
Not sure anyone here can give you advice on what YOU want...

I'm not in your position, and I don't know either of you.

She wants to make it work - or try to make it work... but if your physical interactions are limited, that may be tough, and -- yeah -- one of you may end up with someone else.

Personally LTRs never worked out for me (the couple that I had when I was younger). Physical presence is a huge factor... if she's not there it makes it very hard.
Author:  Dragula [ Tue Aug 18, 2015 4:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Me and 7 month LTR are going to colleges 1000 miles away
You can always just make it work and then fuck girls at your college and not tell her ? ;)
Author:  R.C [ Tue Aug 18, 2015 4:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Me and 7 month LTR are going to colleges 1000 miles away
Long distance never works. Ever.

Break it off.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Aug 19, 2015 12:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Me and 7 month LTR are going to colleges 1000 miles away
If you guys wanted to be together you should of planned a situation in which you can go to school closer to one another. Sacrifices have to be made for relationships. Each person can't live their life exactly the way they want to and expect things to work out.

Anythings possible, but the likeness of two young teens, going to colleges 1000 miles away in america and remaining together isn't all that likely.

This is actually a common thing that gets post on this forum every now and then.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Thu Aug 20, 2015 10:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Me and 7 month LTR are going to colleges 1000 miles away
It makes me laugh how people can be in a "relationship" without being able to physically touch the other person. You've been with her for 7 months dude. Enjoy the times you've had with each other and move on.

I've coached plenty of guys who stuck with their high school girlfriend at different colleges, missed out on the easy years in college, and were fucking left clueless about life when they find out she got fucked by the whole defensive line when they hung up the phone. Don't be a chump dude.
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