Confidence, courage, and self belief.


A woman will believe anything about you that you deeply enough believe about yourself.

And also remember two things:

1) A woman cares more about what you think of you than she does about what she thinks of you.

2) A woman cares more about what you think of her, than she does about what she thinks of you.

Come to a firm understanding on how to use those two things and you can change your game forever.

Confidence, courage, and self belief.


A woman will believe anything about you that you deeply enough believe about yourself.

And also remember two things:

1) A woman cares more about what you think of you than she does about what she thinks of you.

2) A woman cares more about what you think of her, than she does about what she thinks of you.

Come to a firm understanding on how to use those two things and you can change your game forever.

If a man who stands 5'1 and has a deformed face honestly believes hes gods gift to women and the sexiest thing alive... women will just find hiom delusional. You can deeply believe lots of things about yourself, that doesn't always mean women will believe it too. Contrary to what the pua community teaches most women do have brains and can make up their own minds.

As for points 1 and 2, if a woman isn't interested in you then shes not going to care what you think about yourself or her.

If a man who stands 5'1 and has a deformed face honestly believes hes gods gift to women and the sexiest thing alive... women will just find hiom delusional. You can deeply believe lots of things about yourself, that doesn't always mean women will believe it too. Contrary to what the pua community teaches most women do have brains and can make up their own minds.

As for points 1 and 2, if a woman isn't interested in you then shes not going to care what you think about yourself or her.

This is a debate thats been had on this forum for a while; and although your case is completely extreme and unlikely I simply disagree with it.

Show me a man with deep core developed social intelligence, confidence, and charisma that can't get laid.

Because I can show you several men who are physical attractive, but just completely lack confidence, charisma, and social skills who can't.

So while a good balance of them both is definitely ideal and the position anyone would want to be in; a man with core developed confidence, social skills, and charisma is far better off than a man with good looks who is completely undeveloped socially and emotionally. Theres even that video of the guy in the fat suit doing decent because of his other developed areas. Perhaps they should make one of a hot guy screaming at average women "Hey ugly bitches, come suck my dick" and see how he does.

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I'm pretty much as average looking as it gets, and I've mostly been able to have average looking girls into me as well (6's-7's; with the occasional 8 ). Back at high school I used to know this guy (long story short: this guy kind of stole the girl I was going out with at the time actually haha, but no hard feelings anymore), and this guy was as average looking as it comes, but yet a lot of girls seemed to be into him: 4's, 7's, 9's, etc ( He could have probably got with a teacher, that's how good this kid was).

How did he do that?

I don't know if he knew pua and was just really good at hiding the fact that he did (never saw him do anything really pua-like, girls just seemed to be into him).

So what is the quality that he has that makes women so interested in him? (

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Anyways, I agree that its better to have self confidence and charisma and that a good looking guy who doubts himself won't do to well with women. However, even an average looking guy with tons of confidence and charisma wont do well with a super hottie if he simply isn't her type.

Women have types and if you aren't hers it doesn't much matter what you do, the chances of sleeping with her are slim.

I disagree with that. Women do have types and you're certainly gonna have it easier if you happen to fit that type, but in the long run it has little relevance. She may like tall dark and handsome with green eyes, but your blond blue-eyes ass will do just fine in spite of that.

Point is it's not all black and white. Some aspects are flexible, others are not.