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| Author: | mojo.dojo [ Sun Aug 09, 2015 10:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Meeting girls on public trains / buses |
Hi, I just visited Chicago recently and it seemed like some girls on the public trains and buses would look my way when I got on. It seemed like they would get a disappointed look on their face when I didn't pay any attention to them, or didn't sit near them, or they could just be disappointed about life in general, who knows. Maybe they didn't actually want to talk to me, maybe they just wanted an ego boost... Is there anything here or anywhere else about approaching women on public trains or buses? It seems like a target-rich environment. On the other hand, it seems like women would have their defenses up on public trains (like in a bad part of town). Also, it just seems like, in general, people don't chat with strangers on the trains or buses. It's almost like a traveling elevator. How do you get past these barriers? |
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| Author: | DW-Heart-Charmer [ Mon Aug 10, 2015 3:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Meeting girls on public trains / buses |
Be normal and talk to them. |
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| Author: | urbanmaster2004 [ Mon Aug 10, 2015 7:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Meeting girls on public trains / buses |
I made a post recently about singing, I know its a little odd but I have met lots of girls this way. Sing a song you know and love with a smile on your face...wait for the inevitable smile, laugh or weird cute frown and you have an opportunity right there to say hi...or ask her why she's giving you filthy looks for being such a happy expressive little bastard. Worst case scenario is you get ignored entirely or she thinks your drunk as a skunk however from you initial post im going to assume your a good looking guy because your getting attention but are struggling to escalate. My little technique is good because the singing took them aback not you saying hi. They are already caught of guard and intrigued before you have even engaged them directly. Not suggesting you do this on a busy commuter train or anything man. That would be brave. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Aug 10, 2015 12:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Meeting girls on public trains / buses |
I would have to completely disagree about women having their guards up on public transit. I think that is just the area YOU are the most fearful because of the close proximity. What I've found is that the more courageous you have to be to make the approach, the less likely you will have to deal with rejection. Its EASY to approach drunk girls at a night club. It's easy to approach tipsy women smoking cigarettes outside of bars during after hours. I don't want to completely undermine it, but it doesn't take much confidence and/or courage to pull off. You're not really risking anything, especially if you're surrounded by an encouraging group of friends that are there to lift you up energetically after the approach. Approaching on public transit in which its usually quiet and all eyes will be on whoever decides to do something out of the ordinary is where the confidence comes into place. And the more confidence it takes to make the action, the more the action will be respected. Once you get a full grasp on this, those "odd" places will turn into your favor places to approach. |
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