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| Author: | bartm [ Sat Aug 08, 2015 10:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | the real reason behind the 3 second rule |
they say the 3 second rule leads to more success because you won't have time for negative self talk and you are more likely to talk to the girl. even though that's true, there is a far more important reason: loiterers make one uncomfortable. i found this out when a homeless guy was loitering around me. he kept looking at me, then looking away. he came close, then walked away, then came close again. naturally, my defense mechanism got activated. "what does he want? is he going to attack me? is he going to throw something at me? is he going to rob me?" finally he grows the balls and asks "do you have change?" of course I said "no" without even thinking. I just said it to make him get away from me. I call this the "asshole shield" because I was being an asshole to protect myself. This is the same thing that happens with women. This is the real reason for the 3 second rule, you dont want her defense mechanism to get activated. |
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| Author: | Reaver4k [ Sat Aug 08, 2015 11:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: the real reason behind the 3 second rule |
the three second rule is hard for me, becuase i'm abit picky with women. I have three seconds to decide "Is she pretty?, Does she have a nice body?, what do I say?" I have a habbit of over analyzing |
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| Author: | Blacksky [ Sun Aug 09, 2015 1:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: the real reason behind the 3 second rule |
So what if you are picky - you can take 3 seconds and then if you don;t find her attractive or her body isn't up to your standard you can always say "thanks for the chat" and move on! Good observation for teh thread creator. |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Sun Aug 09, 2015 1:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: the real reason behind the 3 second rule |
Quote: the three second rule is hard for me, becuase i'm abit picky with women. I have three seconds to decide "Is she pretty?, Does she have a nice body?, what do I say?" I have a habbit of over analyzing
No. But once you feel something in your ding-a-ling that's your cue to talk to her. |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Sun Aug 09, 2015 1:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: the real reason behind the 3 second rule |
Quote: they say the 3 second rule leads to more success because you won't have time for negative self talk and you are more likely to talk to the girl.
Any woman you hover around, or she knows you're eyeing her up will get creeped out. IF you're good looking (she's attracted to you) she will give you a bit more a break but the same rule applies. Most guys don't realize female attraction is not like male attraction - most average to hot women are hit on by guys they consider good looking, (and those they don't). With the ones they're attracted to they are just hoping they don't send off creeper vibes or come across as needy.
even though that's true, there is a far more important reason: loiterers make one uncomfortable. i found this out when a homeless guy was loitering around me. he kept looking at me, then looking away. he came close, then walked away, then came close again. naturally, my defense mechanism got activated. "what does he want? is he going to attack me? is he going to throw something at me? is he going to rob me?" finally he grows the balls and asks "do you have change?" of course I said "no" without even thinking. I just said it to make him get away from me. I call this the "asshole shield" because I was being an asshole to protect myself. This is the same thing that happens with women. This is the real reason for the 3 second rule, you dont want her defense mechanism to get activated. |
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