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When you are out somewhere and a girl asks you "where is the food from" or anything else, how do you react?
Tonight a girl asked me that and I said "I don't know" but then a few seconds later I realized maybe she is trying to start a conversation with me, which I think she was, because honestly, who cares where the food is from, and how the fuck would I know? Does it say on my forehead I am the manager there?

Anyway, after I realized this, I asked her "were you trying to start a conversation with me, or you were really asking?"
she said "I was really asking"
Then I think to myself "you idiot, WTF, dont put her on the spot"

Anyway, the point of this post: How to react when a girl asks you a stupid question to start a conversation with you?

Author:	iforgotyourlastname [ Wed Jul 29, 2015 6:27 am ]
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When you are out somewhere and a girl asks you "where is the food from" or anything else, how do you react? Tonight a girl asked me that and I said "I don't know" but then a few seconds later I realized maybe she is trying to start a conversation with me, which I think she was, because honestly, who cares where the food is from, and how the fuck would I know? Does it say on my forehead I am the manager there? Anyway, after I realized this, I asked her "were you trying to start a conversation with me, or you were really asking?" she said "I was really asking" Then I think to myself "you idiot, WTF, dont put her on the spot" Anyway, the point of this post: How to react when a girl asks you a stupid question to start a conversation with you?

Author:	GKS [ Wed Jul 29, 2015 9:35 am ]
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You tease them and start flirting. But to verify, what did she mean? Like the origin of the food or where can she get one???

Author:	Dilla [ Wed Jul 29, 2015 10:23 am ]
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Quote: When you are out somewhere and a girl asks you "where is the food from" or anything else, how do you react? Tonight a girl asked me that and I said "I don't know" but then a few seconds later I realized maybe she is trying to start a conversation with me, which I think she was, because honestly, who cares where the food is from, and how the fuck would I know? Does it say on my forehead I am the manager there? Anyway, after I realized this, I asked her "were you trying to start a conversation with me, or you were really asking?" she said "I was really asking" Then I think to myself "you idiot, WTF, dont put her on the spot" Anyway, the point of this post: How to react when a girl asks you a stupid question to start a conversation with you? Well for one it wasn't a stupid question...it was a question. A lot of people ask questions to strangers, it's no different to asking where this shop is or where can one find the local SPAM. Sometimes it can be an excuse to chat to you, other times it can be legitimate, and she just wants to know. Either way, you don't just become a cold fish and say "I dunno"...you be friendly in return and try and get a conversation going based on if the vibe is right and if she has friendly body language. Stop being socially awkward and don't be afraid to talk to strangers. "I dunno" gives the girl nothing to feed off of to give you a reply. You could even say "I don't know exactly, but it came from this shop/restaurant which has some really good food, have you ever checked it out?". Give it a little to get a little. Quit this mental masturbation that you have to have some alpha reaction to everything a girl says, 9 times of out 10 straight honesty and friendliness wins out. -Dilla

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Wed Jul 29, 2015 10:41 am ]
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Do you open women on your own? How do you transition from your opener whatever it may be, into actual conversation? Its almost the same. Women drop hints that we miss all the time man. They'll bump into you on purpose at the club, drop their pen off the table to see if you pick it up and end up standing near you randomly. This is there approach. So i guess this lets you into the mindstate of why girl sometimes may freeze up or reject you when you approach them. Its not always on purpose, sometimes its just a knee-kerk reaction. They may of feared and awkward moment or just not knew what to say and so they settle for "i have a boyfriend". It can be an automatic defense. So if you didn't know what to say as a guy when indirectly approached, how much more does a girl not know what to say when indirectly and directly approached at times? Think about it. And to answer your question.. Tell her where its from and then begin regular conversation. Ask her a question about her, comment on something she's wearing, ask her if she's been here before etc.

Author:	R.C [ Wed Jul 29, 2015 11:30 am ]
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Girl asked me where the oranges in the office kitchen were from. I told her they were red oranges imported from the purest gardens of Sicily. Women will put themselves in a position to be seduced by you. That's their means of "initiating". Listen to Eddie, he knows what he's talking about.

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Author:	Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Aug 08, 2015 5:46 am ]
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If you're an attractive guy and look very approachable because a lot of other girls are comfortable around you, a lot of other girls will try to open you. The simplest verbal openers from girls are: "Hi" and "Hello." Some are creative. Some are not. A few will be direct and will open you with, "You're so handsome." And just a week ago, a classmate opened me with, "We're going on a date after class." And as Eddie said, most girls will freeze up even when you just smile or wink at them. Some will screech. Some will run away and then jump up and down in glee screeching, "Oh my god. Oh my god. He just said hello to me." And yesterday, another classmate of mine whispered to her girlie SPAM (loud enough for me to hear) "Lalakeng-lalake" which is the English equivalent of "He's so hot!" Look. I'll tell you what. Girlie openers are good for the ego and these will surely boost up your confidence. But the bottomline is you still need to put in the work to isolate girls. Isolating girls is a different matter. They may screech. They may shout at the top of their lungs that you're so handsome. But you still cannot isolate these girls if you don't make them feel horny, make them feel comfortable with your compliance tests, build an emotional connection and ask them out. In short, a girlie opener is practically worthless if you cannot isolate her and fuck her. When a girl tries to start a conversation with you? Lay the groundwork REALLY good so you can isolate her and then fuck her.

Author:	oceanx [ Sun Aug 09, 2015 8:23 am ]
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Just ASSUME that she's tryna start a convo with you. And roll the convo down the line. You know how to have a conversation with someone, so just do that when the next girl opens you.

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