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Author:  N1ck9141 [ Tue Jul 21, 2015 1:37 am ]
Post subject:  COMPLETE 180 AND NO IDEA WHY??
Hey guys, basically met a girl about a week ago, through friends while we where all out, started off basic banter playfulness etc back and forth.
Next day this continued via text and so on all week nothing but playful banter and flirting whos making breakfast ;) etc...., we where both meant to be going to a party together the next weekend, she had been called into work couldnt make it,

So thought i would arrange a meet the sunday sent her this, (paraphrasing here)
"Hey, Drop me a message sunday when ya free, got something interesting n cool to show you. have fun at work tonight lol" that was it very quickly i got the response, "i'll try to, now sure if im around sunday, got to visit my dad :P if not thought ill definitely givr you a text, best be something good ;) haha"

straight after i get another txt, p.s. make sure you hav an awesome night tonight i expect you to part for both of us thank you v much ;)

anyway got into party lost track of time, so next day sunday i message her back "when is it not good with me ;) and was a good party , you would have enjoyed it" needless to say since then nothing, all day sunday and monday ignored, i sent a online message as this is how we met in the first place chatting online about the event we where all going to, and still no reply even though can clearly see she is active online. but ignoring all contact with me?
Author:  JackZero [ Tue Jul 21, 2015 3:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: COMPLETE 180 AND NO IDEA WHY??
More than likely she isn't interested and is making up excuses not to see you. It doesn't mean that you did anything wrong...girls are like that sometimes. If you haven't met her in person (not sure if you did or not), the attraction isn't really solidified and it was probably she was having fun with the back and forth and when things got real, she had second thoughts.
Author:  DW-Heart-Charmer [ Tue Jul 21, 2015 4:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: COMPLETE 180 AND NO IDEA WHY??
My take is that this girl was very interested. However, you can't take online game seriously, it's not real. You haven't had the face to face contact so the interest is hot and cold at best.

I would say that you can up your communication game. Instead of being so literal, ie "The party is fun blah blah hope you have fun at work." Stimulate her emotions and escalate the conversation. ie "The penguin has escaped the party, we have a real problem now, let me know if you find him ;)"
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Jul 21, 2015 3:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: COMPLETE 180 AND NO IDEA WHY??
Theres no real reason to contact a girl more than once that has clearly saw your first message. You give her the space and chill.

But aside from that, I'm having a difficult time understanding why you ever care. Its the caring thats repulsing her. You barely know the girl yet and you're overly investing emotionally in her and going on the internet to post about her. What message does that send? What type of energy do you think you're giving off? You gotta give it a break man. You're trying too hard. Girls like the effortless stuff. She wants to feel like your time is worth something, so if she can play with it, it shows her its worth nothing. And who wants something lacking worth? You have to treat yourself better. And understand the value that you have the ability to bring into a womans life. What has she done that warrants her this much thinking and attention from you? Do you want a girl so bad that you're willing to wreck your brain with frustration as to why some stranger is behaving in a way you don't understand? Thats part of life.

Give the girl her space man. She doesn't owe you anything. She doesn't owe you a reply or any of her affection. When you continue to message you're subconsciously saying " You owe me a response ".. For what?

Let it go, set women free, give them choices and they will choose you.
Author:  Dragula [ Tue Jul 21, 2015 5:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: COMPLETE 180 AND NO IDEA WHY??
Girls from online dating/Tinder are notorious for this and cancel when it comes to the crunch.

I am convinced that they genuinely want to meet during the chasing stage, but they lose their bottle last minute. All talk, no walk.

Best way to go about it is, do the same with a few other girls and play the numbers game.
Author:  DW-Heart-Charmer [ Wed Jul 22, 2015 1:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: COMPLETE 180 AND NO IDEA WHY??
Quote:
Girls from online dating/Tinder are notorious for this and cancel when it comes to the crunch.

I am convinced that they genuinely want to meet during the chasing stage, but they lose their bottle last minute. All talk, no walk.

Best way to go about it is, do the same with a few other girls and play the numbers game.
Very true. Watch out for the girls who just want attention, they are common. Especially ages 18-22 just on there to see how much sexual power they have, typically.

However many want to meet so don't let that distract you.
Author:  R.C [ Wed Jul 22, 2015 9:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: COMPLETE 180 AND NO IDEA WHY??
I don't understand why you sent the last text on Sunday.

It's really simple to think about. Her last text to you was not inviting of a reply. You sent a reply anyways. What does that mean? It means you were over compensating.

She didn't ask a question, she didn't say anything mildly interesting. And yet you did her job for her.

Why?
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