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| Author: | troub1edsou1z [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 4:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | The girl next door... |
ok so my neighbor who is a HB7 and her boyfriend have split up, and I want to get with her. Im a tattoo artist and she came into the shop the other day with a friend talking about tattoos. then it went into vaping. We are also a head shop. Anyway, I was being humorous but throwing out sexual hints. some examples: her: what type of e-juice do you have....blah blah blah. me: there are a bunch of different flavors, check them out. she starts looking through them and saw one that is called lapdance. she laughed. so I said, there you go, you can take that home and give it to your boyfriend...lol She laughed and thats when i found out he is no longer in the pic. so now she is interested in buying a vape. here is how that played out. her: what kind of vape do you recommend me: depends on a few things, such as...blah blah blah... her: well I want something small...(my que) me: small? I thought all girls like em big. her: no, big isn't better. id rather someone that can work it. me: (i looked away) oh I wouldn't know. (then looked at her again) she laughed and we continued talking for about another 10 mins. paid for her stuff and she left. so 2 days later im leaving my house and noticed her on the porch. so I sent her a message, me: i saw you trying to look down my shirt...naughty her: sorry, next time i will wear shades. me: then I wont notice you doing it. about 10 mins later i drive up the road and she is still sitting out there. I notice her smiling as im approaching. as i get closer she pretends she has binoculars and starts looking at me.....so at this point i said the hell with it and went over there and talked to her. I opened with some stuff about vaping since I knew she was into it. we talked for a good 20 mins and i made a few more sexual hints and she started talking about if i was dating or involved with anyone. i told her I'm not really looking to date anyone, but I do have my fun. she smiled and said we all do....at this point I ended it by saying, you'll have to come over one weekend and try my new flavor of juice...(in our conversation she implied she really wanted to try this flavor) so she said, woo hoo I can't wait. as i was walking away I said, you have a good night. didn't turn to look at her just kept walking, and she said you too hun.... Sorry if this was boring...but I just want to get some input on what anyones thoughts are. Where do you see weaknesses, where do you see strong point? Do you think there is chance to get this girl if I invite her over? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 4:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The girl next door... |
Weakness: You sound like you're afraid to make your move and are happy to continue with the banter. She was on her porch doing nothing and you told her to come over one weekend. Tell her to come over now. There's no real strong points here. Right now you're having conversations that women normally see through but at the same time will play along until you make your intentions known. |
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| Author: | troub1edsou1z [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 5:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The girl next door... |
The only reason I suggested to come on a weekend is because, i'm a single dad. I have my son 95% of the time, so it makes it a bit difficult. He goes with his mom every other weekend. Otherwise I would have invited her at that moment. So what you're saying is I need to be more direct as to what my intentions are? Or just more direct in leading her to my intentions? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 5:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The girl next door... |
Lol. The son is an acceptable reason not to invite her right there and then. What I'm saying is that you have to communicate that you find her attractive. The banter and the innuendo is not enough. Women will flirt with you all day and all night when you don't communicate your actual intent and you'll get nowhere. If the flirting goes too long with no purpose she'll start viewing it as how your friendship works and any attraction that you may have will be lost. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 5:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The girl next door... |
I'm not sure why you didn't just invite her right on in to try the Vaps at that moment.. What the hell else was she doing? Sitting on the porch doing nothing? Why not "As a matter of fact.. You can just come on and try em out now" - I'm sure she would of been down. You're straight man. Just make a move. Talk is cheap. |
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