PUA Forum :: the competiton is fierece

Something I’ve noticed of late, literally blown my mind( it wasn’t until I hung around with this female friend of mine a bit more)…. The amount of girls that have an abundance of men/options, even average girls are getting tons of like and attention( I always knew they got more, but its literally nonstop options). My one friend ( she is fairly good looking) could literally have no word of a lie a date for every day of the week, that’s how many guys are hitting her up. She’s constantly on dates, phones always going off.

I feel even though I’m good looking, it’s not enough, it helps initially maybe, but if you don’t have anything to back it up she’ll just go with one of the other 20+ plus options she has.

1) How do I get that level of abundance/options
2) How do I separate my self from the other guys

Do you not see it? Take a look around you.

Most guys are average in terms of looks, style, game (if any),

If you do the maths of how many actually actually approach women (confidently) it is really easy to be in the elite 10% of people that know what to do.

Look on her friend's Tinder chat, you will even see good looking dudes cock blocking themselves with creepy messages.

Why is everyone repeating the original question I asked and using that as the answer. Obviously you have to stand out, I'm basically asking what are the successful guys doing that are probably fucking her/them that I'm not.

I created a fake profile on POF of one of the hottest girls I knew at the time.

When I would log on I got about 1 pm per SECOND.

Author:	thequietlife [ Tue Jul 14, 2015 11:39 pm ]
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Something I’ve noticed of late, literally blown my mind( it wasn’t until I hung around with this female friend of mine a bit more)…. The amount of girls that have an abundance of men/options, even average girls are getting tons of like and attention( I always knew they got more, but its literally nonstop options). My one friend ( she is fairly good looking) could literally have no word of a lie a date for every day of the week, that’s how many guys are hitting her up. She’s constantly on dates, phones always going off. I feel even though I’m good looking, it’s not enough, it helps initially maybe, but if you don’t have anything to back it up she’ll just go with one of the other 20+ plus options she has. 1) How do I get that level of abundance/options 2) How do I separate my self from the other guys

Author:	NYC718 [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 4:38 pm ]
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You need the salesman mind set. Check out Zig Ziglar on YouTube. Check out Napolean Hill and also Dale Carnegie. These tips could even make you a Billionaire if you put your mind to it. That's probably the best advice I can give you, think about how that related to picking up women. Same thing, burning desire, persistence, never giving up. Most guys throw in the towel believe me.

Author:	JackZero [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 4:54 pm ]
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There may be a lot of competition but it isn't fierce. If a girl is going out with a lot of guys, either she isn't really looking for a relationship or the guys that she's going out with aren't appealing to her at an emotional level. Truth be told, even the girls that aren't looking for a relationship will end up with one if the guy stimulates her emotionally. The emotional stimulation is what keeps women coming back for more of you. They will accept the relationship terms that you set, whether it be a FB or a girlfriend.

Author:	Dragula [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 5:06 pm ]
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Do you not see it? Take a look around you. Most guys are average in terms of looks, style, game (if any), If you do the maths of how many actually actually approach women (confidently) it is really easy to be in the elite 10% of people that know what to do. Look on her friend's Tinder chat, you will even see good looking dudes cock blocking themselves with creepy messages.

Author:	thequietlife [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 8:58 pm ]
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Lol yea I know most guys are average but I still feel it adds distraction, how do separate myself from the rest.I get the salesman mind set but I think it needs a more in depth explanation. Like my friend she'll just go on dates with average guys some exciting new like promoters and people who got out of jail but some or just boring, yet they get the dates. Yea she might not see them again but she can't date all 50 guys that try it. But those guys the ones she never sees again are like the distractions, but I feel they get such a big ego boost of that. Even some of the most average looking girls...... I'm just like how do you get so many dates and guys chasing.

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Author:	n2thevoid [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 10:51 pm ]
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Quote: Something I’ve noticed of late, literally blown my mind( it wasn’t until I hung around with this female friend of mine a bit more)…. The amount of girls that have an abundance of men/options, even average girls are getting tons of like and attention( I always knew they got more, but its literally nonstop options). My one friend ( she is fairly good looking) could literally have no word of a lie a date for every day of the week, that’s how many guys are hitting her up. She’s constantly on dates, phones always going off. I feel even though I’m good looking, it’s not enough, it helps initially maybe, but if you don’t have anything to back it up she’ll just go with one of the other 20+ plus options she has. 1) How do I get that level of abundance/options 2) How do I separate my self from the other guys I have some considerably attractive female friends. The one's online they can get upwards of 50-100 msgs AN HOUR. They get hit on literally every turn as soon as they step foot outside. Its abundance, but it sure as hell ain't QUALITY. Imagine, if for but a moment that pretty much every male around you give you a provocative look, invitation or sexually valanced comment. Most of the guys making these overtures you are not attracted to, or were attracted to but they came at you in a very weird way (when she sees that cute guy approach her she's thinking "Oh god please don't be a jerk!"). With women it is about making a quality choice in a mate. With men it is more about quantity - and a man can never hope to EVER have as many women flocking to his side UNLESS he's some sort of a celebrity. How do you separate yourself? By OPENING you. The short of it is learning to love yourself, and that will reflect onto the world, your interactions with others, everything. You still have to stick your neck out there and create as many opportunities as you can. As guys we're lucky. We are the AGGRESSORS/initiators. We MAKE things happen, for the most part. Ya a woman may bait us into opening her by flicking her hair, taking a longer-than-normal gaze, etc.. but ultimately we are the ones who do the approach, in the vast majority of cases. We generally don't have to worry about getting stalked, beaten, or chastised rudely (some dudes will cuss a girl out for being rejected). We don't have to almost continually let girls down "sorry I'm not interested" - sure it happens sometimes, but its more the exception than the rule. Women have to deal with a lot of awkwardness on an almost daily basis. Really, that must fucking suck. Ya she may seem to have a lot of options but she understands most of them aren't viable options at all. Maybe she goes on that date because she's bored with her life, on the rebound, or just wants her tires pumped for an evening and a free meal perhaps. Whatever. She's waiting for a guy to sweep her off her feet who isn't fearful of being himself - the guy who just has 'it' - the antithesis of being needy, as most guys are. TAKE NO PRISONERS: Get rejected. Rejection is a fucking joke. You build an immunity to it after you've stuck your neck out so many times and see it really is not such a big deal - it's not about you, it never was...she doesn't even know you and if she doesn't WANT to get to know you then she's not worth talking to and there's a million other girls out there who will want to get to know you, who you're seriously attracted to and aren't frumps.

Author:	n2thevoid [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 10:53 pm ]
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Quote: Do you not see it? Take a look around you. Most guys are average in terms of looks, style, game (if any), If you do the maths of how many actually actually approach women (confidently) it is really easy to be in the elite 10% of people that know what to do. Look on her friend's Tinder chat, you will even see good looking dudes cock blocking themselves with creepy messages. He's right. A lot of guys see rejection as their enemy and just end up wallflowers not doing anything just fantasizing what could have been. Don't be THAT guy.

Author:	Reaver4k [ Thu Jul 16, 2015 5:13 am ]
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Online is terrible, You might be what she'd consiter's datable, you might have sent her a decent message, but by the time she checks her indox your message is on page 7. epsally if shes 6 and up in looks.

Author:	Dragula [ Thu Jul 16, 2015 6:21 am ]
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Everyday life for an attractive girl is full of people adding her on Facebook/Instagram/Twitter - chatting her up, men from social circles that she is giving her number out too, she probably gives her real number to chodes who chat her at the gym/public transport (with has no intention of meeting but enjoy the attention) Go to Asia, you will know what it's being a woman. When I was there, I just had so much options but little time and I had flake most of the girls so I was forced to be picky. Girls don't have a hard time getting laid, but finding one that stands out is probably going to win. Be that guy

Author:	thequietlife [ Thu Jul 16, 2015 9:40 pm ]
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Why is everyone repeating the original question I asked and using that as the answer. Obviously you have to stand out, I'm basically asking what are the successful guys doing that are probably fucking her/them that I'm not.

Author:	Dragula [ Thu Jul 16, 2015 9:43 pm ]
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Quote: Why is everyone repeating the original question I asked and using that as the answer. Obviously you have to stand out, I'm basically asking what are the successful guys doing that are probably fucking her/them that I'm not. By standing out and not having a shitty attitudes to strangers trying to help them on the interweb, derp

Author:	JackZero [ Thu Jul 16, 2015 9:56 pm ]
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Quote: Why is everyone repeating the original question I asked and using that as the answer. Obviously you have to stand out, I'm basically asking what are the successful guys doing that are probably fucking her/them that I'm not. How are we supposed to answer that without knowing and observing you since you are not giving a description of what you are doing? I do know that successful guys don't spend their time worrying about competition and distractions.

Author:	masterm1ne [ Thu Jul 16, 2015 10:40 pm ]
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I created a fake profile on POF of one of the hottest girls I knew at the time. When I would log on I got about 1 pm per SECOND.

Author:	Reaver4k [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 4:01 pm ]
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Quote: I created a fake profile on POF of one of the hottest girls I knew at the time. When I would log on I got about 1 pm per SECOND. Thats why online dating is pointless,

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Author:	masterm1ne [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 4:20 pm ]
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Also a lot of hot single no kids women on match never even get to my messages (u know why). Often they don't log on that much. It's actually not entirely pointless. If you can find a niche and fill it (just like in business) it becomes much easier.