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Author:  redstar1324 [ Mon Jun 15, 2015 3:57 am ]
Post subject:  How do I elicit an emotional response instead of logical?

I know that you should try to elicit an emotional response from a girl rather than a logical one.

I tend to get stuck in factual conversations about what they do, what I do, etc. Just talking about facts.

How do I get into their emotions? Some guys tend to just fuck with their emotions and are way more successful than I am. How do I do this?

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Jun 15, 2015 12:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I elicit an emotional response instead of logical

You have to get into yours red.

If you're not in yours, you cannot make them get into there. What types of things make you happy? What times of things upset you? What times of things make you jealous? What do you like? And how often do you express these things once they are felt?

Once again I find that too much of your attention is on the woman you are talking to or the women you desire to talk to that you have no idea what it is you feel when you are communicating with them. You are completely in your head and focusing all of your attention upon them. So you've lost yourself and can only speak about what you know, not what you feel while communicating with women.

You have to practice remaining present in your body while communicating with other people.

A cool exercise for this:

Right now look away from the computer and use your mind to focus all of your energy onto your right foot. When done right it should either get warm or begin to tingle. Now your attention has dropped out of your head and into your foot.

So when you go out approaching(if you do) give this a try. While talking just focus some energy onto your right foot. You'll still be able to communicate.

This is just step one practicing for learning to keep some attention on yourself while you're communicating.

Author:  redstar1324 [ Mon Jun 15, 2015 3:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I elicit an emotional response instead of logical

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You have to get into yours red.

If you're not in yours, you cannot make them get into there. What types of things make you happy? What times of things upset you? What times of things make you jealous? What do you like? And how often do you express these things once they are felt?

Once again I find that too much of your attention is on the woman you are talking to or the women you desire to talk to that you have no idea what it is you feel when you are communicating with them. You are completely in your head and focusing all of your attention upon them. So you've lost yourself and can only speak about what you know, not what you feel while communicating with women.

You have to practice remaining present in your body while communicating with other people.

A cool exercise for this:

Right now look away from the computer and use your mind to focus all of your energy onto your right foot. When done right it should either get warm or begin to tingle. Now your attention has dropped out of your head and into your foot.

So when you go out approaching(if you do) give this a try. While talking just focus some energy onto your right foot. You'll still be able to communicate.

This is just step one practicing for learning to keep some attention on yourself while you're communicating.
I am not always aware of what I am feeling even when I am alone.

Angry = women make me angry a lot and when technology breaks. I don't even realize women make me angry but I think it comes across to them because they often tell me I look scary and it's been a good while since one has felt comfortable being alone with me.

Happy = I don't know. I try to come to forums like this one hoping that when I get answers to my questions, it will make me happy because I will function better. I wrote a book and thought that having it published would make me happy, but it really didn't. I had an epiphany last night that I am unhappy because I am completely selfish and don't ever take the time to care about what other people feel.

Sad = I just posted a picture of myself on this other forum and asked girls to rate my appearance. The majority of them said I was "handsome enough" but that I looked like I never smiled and that they would never want to be with someone like that because it would bring them down. I would agree with them. And I did not know I was so unhappy until they told me that's how I look.

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Wed Jun 17, 2015 4:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I elicit an emotional response instead of logical

So many ways to dress a chicken.

For starters, start immersing yourself in some of these topics that typically brighten up girls' eyes:

1. puppies

2. kittens

3. birthday cakes

Drop the specs (dimensions, weight) and other factual things about those three topics.

Then before you go out to sarge women, watch some Mr. Bean or Adam Sandler movies to get into a happy, high energy state. Learn sexual states later.

Immersion.

Immerse in happy, emotionally charged topics and you're ready to go.

I repeat.

Immersion.

Author:  dtrak [ Wed Jun 17, 2015 6:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I elicit an emotional response instead of logical

My proven method of tapping into a women's emotion : Elicit EMOTION yourself.

From the minute i approach ill approach with "emotional energy"

What is emotional energy?

Take a news broadcaster for example , they get in front of the camara and convey the news to you, but they are not too high energy and they are not too low energy, they are actually more on the COMMANDING TONALITY TYPE more of a higher energy pitch but you can work this out.

Im going to wrap this up by telling you to simply be MORE ENTHUSIASTIC when you speak, it might seem fake but its SUPPOSE to be FAKE, this is a GAME, the game of pick up.

It gets to the point where you believe it(just warm up). And is better than any monotone non-emotional interaction.

The emotion you will convery will be positive. but you can play with it from there.

Anyways thats my tested opinion. try it yourself infield.

Speak enthusiastically, its fun. A skill any story teller must possess.

Author:  redstar1324 [ Sun Aug 09, 2015 2:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I elicit an emotional response instead of logical

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My proven method of tapping into a women's emotion : Elicit EMOTION yourself.

From the minute i approach ill approach with "emotional energy"

What is emotional energy?

Take a news broadcaster for example , they get in front of the camara and convey the news to you, but they are not too high energy and they are not too low energy, they are actually more on the COMMANDING TONALITY TYPE more of a higher energy pitch but you can work this out.

Im going to wrap this up by telling you to simply be MORE ENTHUSIASTIC when you speak, it might seem fake but its SUPPOSE to be FAKE, this is a GAME, the game of pick up.

It gets to the point where you believe it(just warm up). And is better than any monotone non-emotional interaction.

The emotion you will convery will be positive. but you can play with it from there.

Anyways thats my tested opinion. try it yourself infield.

Speak enthusiastically, its fun. A skill any story teller must possess.
In that YouTube video, did you ever follow up with that girl you number-closed in Miami? What happened afterwards?

Do you live in Miami? If so, we should "sarge" together. I live in Orlando.

I really need someone just to show me the ropes and get me out of my head/comfort zone better than I can do myself. Would you be interested in this?

Author:  dtrak [ Wed Aug 12, 2015 11:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I elicit an emotional response instead of logical

Add me on SPAM , i help out for free

info is in the sig

Looking forward to chatting with ya

Author:  J.Daniels [ Thu Aug 13, 2015 3:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I elicit an emotional response instead of logical

Give it 5 years and Redstar will be the next Julien Blanc lol. I get the whole "women are nothing" vibe from you. Not the best way to be. I was like that after my ex girlfriend.

I think it's part of being new though, sometimes. It's like resentment that girls go after assholes, yet you're being nice to her and you're just a friend and bla bla. Then you start to pick things up and you notice it's not about being an asshole - it's just putting your life mission ahead of your girl. Assholes do it because they hate women, good pick up artists do it because they're improving every area of their life so they're too excited about this new instrument/language/course they're learning, and simply don't have the time to make her the focal point of their life.

These days, I love women. I understand women more than I understand men, anyway.

I don't think you should be looking to "fuck with a girls emotions" ...respect for women is an important part of pick up, it will bring you good results.

Author:  redstar1324 [ Thu Aug 13, 2015 6:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I elicit an emotional response instead of logical

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Give it 5 years and Redstar will be the next Julien Blanc lol. I get the whole "women are nothing" vibe from you. Not the best way to be. I was like that after my ex girlfriend.

I think it's part of being new though, sometimes. It's like resentment that girls go after assholes, yet you're being nice to her and you're just a friend and bla bla. Then you start to pick things up and you notice it's not about being an asshole - it's just putting your life mission ahead of your girl. Assholes do it because they hate women, good pick up artists do it because they're improving every area of their life so they're too excited about this new instrument/language/course they're learning, and simply don't have the time to make her the focal point of their life.

These days, I love women. I understand women more than I understand men, anyway.

I don't think you should be looking to "fuck with a girls emotions" ...respect for women is an important part of pick up, it will bring you good results.
I never said I was trying to fuck with anyones emotions. I just talk to them like people.

The attitude I get from complete strangers pisses me off, though. I have to impress this dumb whore? I'm going to be a fucking billionaire. It should be the other way around. I should have a harem.

Author:  J.Daniels [ Thu Aug 13, 2015 11:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I elicit an emotional response instead of logical

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How do I get into their emotions? Some guys tend to just fuck with their emotions and are way more successful than I am. How do I do this?
You did say it, lol.

Author:  redstar1324 [ Thu Aug 13, 2015 2:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I elicit an emotional response instead of logical

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How do I get into their emotions? Some guys tend to just fuck with their emotions and are way more successful than I am. How do I do this?
You did say it, lol.
Oh I guess I did. Lol.

If rather just whip my dick out and have them all over it. That is a crime, though.

Author:  J.Daniels [ Thu Aug 13, 2015 3:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I elicit an emotional response instead of logical

If you had the skills of somebody like Eddie Fews, you'd be in prison by now lol

Author:  redstar1324 [ Thu Aug 13, 2015 3:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I elicit an emotional response instead of logical

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If you had the skills of somebody like Eddie Fews, you'd be in prison by now lol
I don't get it.

Wouldn't I go to prison if I DIDN'T have the skills?

Author:  J.Daniels [ Thu Aug 13, 2015 3:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I elicit an emotional response instead of logical

No. Thankfully you're not quite skilled enough to get a girl hooked to the point that she becomes your slave and worships what you may or may not become. I think you'll gain respect for women as time goes on, though.

Best mindset for pick up is that you're already self satisfied and you want to share that with somebody... to appreciate how cool both of you are. Not for a cool to be amazed by how incredible you may or may not be some day when you make your fortune, and worship the ground you walk on.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Thu Aug 13, 2015 5:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I elicit an emotional response instead of logical

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