Been seeing this chick (19) for more than a month casually (she started things between us), we've both registered that we're not a couple but its clear we're more than just friends and I'm quite sure she isn't seeing anyone else.
Without fail she will call me EVERY day at some point, chat and ask me what i'm up to, which i use to my advantage to set up dates (she has never flaked/said no outright without conceding a different day to go out).
Whenever we go out for drinks/dinner we cuddle/kiss and have a good time and are very comfortable around each other (IE no awkwardness ever).
My sticking point is that we haven't had sex yet. She's said she doesn't have sex with anyone she doesn't "love" while we were on the topic once. She's had a few partners though all of them are ex's (no one nighters). though I haven't pushed for it yet, intuition tells me that it's going to be a challenge to get her into bed.
There's always the scenario that she's simply doesn't want it from me and just wants to date for attention but for arguments sake lets pretend that's not the case.
My question is how would you progress with a girl who has definitely invested something in you, but is taking things slowly and hasn't fully committed to you?
I feel i know the answer to my question is going to be a simple "Just go for it" response, which is probably true, but I'm more so looking for advice on: at what point would you make your move and how would you push for it without coming off as desperate/sleazy.
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' and make a big deal of it lol